Eye contact with the pisces man...

Hi all!

This is the first time im posting on the pisces board, usually hang around the virgo and capricorn boards, (im a cappy)

Ok, i was hoping for a bit of insight in to what in the world is with this pisces guy i know, i warn you i know nothing about pisces and this guy is the first one i have ever known...

I have known him since i was 16, he at the time was 21, i am now 24 and he is 29. He is my cousins, husbands brother (hope you all caught that)

He caught my eye when i was 16, i caught his too, he didnt speak to me that day but he did ask my cousin how old i was. We never speak much but everytime we greet eachother when we cross paths, we keep eye contact a little longer than needed, then go about our own business.

Last time we met was at a family gathering a couple of weeks ago. He kept watching me the whole day, my mum who was there noticed him doing it too... his friends who were there were sussing me out too... they are all married/attached though.

What i am wondering is.. why does he watch me, ask about me but never do anything about it?

Dont get me wrong, i have had other guys on my mind all those years we have known eachother, i havent waiting for him and refused others.... but now we are both single and still he does nothing... a little insight into the pisces mind would be much appreciated 🙂

cheers

Pisces I know get shy because the way they feel and sometimes they don't know they should go up to you and ask for a date because 1 the way they feel and 2 fear of rejection.
But its up to you that you want him and you gotta make sure that you do because he may want you more in many ways. Tell me does he look at you with dreamy eyes? Cause that means he might want you to sweep him off his feet and love him.
That guy properly wants to make sure you love him because he aint gonna be around when he feels unloved but loves you.

hmm...When we look at eachother, we both stare for a few seconds longer that we need to, without blinking... i notice a faint smile on his face at the same time, i think i mimic him.

Those few times we have had conversations, they have been full of smiles and long lasting... we seem to have alot we can say to one another... and we often just pause and look at eachother then start laughing.

So im not sure, but im such a shy person by nature and its hard for me to show when im interested in a guy... but i feel very calm when im around him, even secure...

It sounds like he does like you, and is comfortable being around you. The 'extra' long stares says it all. i am thinking maybe he wants you to take the lead more. This may help gently push him along, jump-start him, thus giving him more insight and decisivness in how he really feels about things. Your own upbeat hope and decisiveness may be all the hope and confidence he needs himself if his feelings are really true for you. Sounds like he just needs a little gentle coaxing. The pisces mood can be altered greatly at times by their environment. So maybe plan a simple informal dinner date, movie or something fun and you would both enjoy together. It's a start, good-luck..

Pdragon

He's observing and analysing you. As mystic fish said, he probably likes you. But allow him to make up his mind and make the first step. This way it is much more healthy.

Have you ever considered the possiblity that he just don't like you?

Brandon, thats mean... Pdragon, i've dated pisces men and have tons of fish pals and they are waaaay too shy when they r attracted towards someone and have a hard time expressing their feelings...( pisces men are super shy... the other day i was chatting with this sweet pisces friend of mine, who i know without a shadow of doubt has a crush on me 😛, he said hes waaay too shy and cant ask girls out... he always waits for them to make the 1st move...

well i wudnt recommend u making the 1st move... just be patient and see how things are going...but ya u sure can go up and talk to him 🙂....

Hey brandon cutie,

how r things going?? what r ur plans for new year 😛 ?

Im on the Pisces board Brandon, if I was looking for a Virgos opinion I would have posted on that board... thanks anyway for the vote of confidence! 😄

Thanks to the rest of you for the great insight, much appreciated!

pdragon if you are interested in him just talk to him .. either get him in or out of your system rather than thinking what does all these mean...

interesting, truly

..who knows the answer?

thankyou Starfish225 😄

branh .. whats wrong with a "typical" pisces male...
i thought shyness is more of an individual trait!!