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19 Years
From no cuddlingto lots of cuddlin = is this love?
You should really consider..... developing the communicative side of your relationship with this guy. So that you can ask him all these questions, and get HIS answer.... the one that is true/real.
Posted by deezie
You should really consider..... developing the communicative side of your relationship with this guy. So that you can ask him all these questions, and get HIS answer.... the one that is true/real.
So I have to ask him, "are you in love with me because we've been cuddling a lot lately?" If someone asked me that, I would not know how to answer, even if I was in love with him. Too forward.
In what world.... did I say: Go ask him that question right now. ?
What I said was: develop your ability to communicate with this man, so eventually you can ask him questions such as this.
Posted by deezie
In what world.... did I say: Go ask him that question right now. ?What I said was: develop your ability to communicate with this man, so eventually you can ask him questions such as this.
You realize that you contradict yourself within the course of your own sentence right?
First of all, by the time it's appropriate to ask "do you love me" you would already be in love, hence you would not need to ask the question....Honestly that question would freak anyone out.
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Right on. It would freak most people out, especially during the early months of a relationship.
Posted by 88n
He just felt like cuddling that night. period.I wouldn't read too much into it, because if he doesn't feel like cuddling the next time you will start overthinking things.
He didn't only cuddle one night. We have been seeing each other a lot and cuddling constantly during the past month.
Posted by deezie
In what world.... did I say: Go ask him that question right now. ?What I said was: develop your ability to communicate with this man, so eventually you can ask him questions such as this.
You realize that you contradict yourself within the course of your own sentence right?
First of all, by the time it's appropriate to ask "do you love me" you would already be in love, hence you would not need to ask the question....Honestly that question would freak anyone out.
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Contradict? Hardly. That was my exact fucking point.
If they aren't close enough for her to "know" then.... the answer is probably a resounding "no".
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The guy I am seeing, who is a double Pisces, went from not wanting to cuddle with me to wanting to cuddle all the time. We've been seeing each other on and off for four months now and I feel that he is getting closer because he wants to see me more often and cuddle a lot, especially after sex.
Is this guy in love with me or just trying to give me what I want (cuddles)?