Hello here is jealousy to stay?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Crazy Lunatic on Tuesday, April 10, 2007 and has 11 replies.

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@Crazy Lunatic
19 Years

Hello I have a scrop rising and I have bad jealousy and my bf who is a pieces he has now got my bad jealousy problem and gets angry... so IM woundering who or whom that is a pieces gets
very bad jealousy—

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

From what you've written, it doesn't sound like your Pisces is getting your jealousy problem, rather, angry at yours.

Jealousy isn't a natural state for Pisces .. it goes against our grain. Jealousy isn't an affliction that can be gotten from another .. a person either is, or is not.

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@Crazy Lunatic
19 Years

Well geass what my pieces does his born on 2nd march 1987 and he ask if i made a new friend for eg) and its a guy he gets jealous

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I find that people who have jealousy issues, tend to use this condition in relationships to gain attention and affection .. what is our driving force, is how we behave .. people who have this spend a gross amount of time attempting to make the other person jealous of them, rather than allowing the union to be embraced for the joy that could be shared .. Pisces will live within their environment .. I suspect it's only a matter of time before he bails .. for jealousy is NOT a natural state for us and once he becomes aware that somebody is attempting to gain his love through making him jealous .. he'll swim.

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@Crazy Lunatic
19 Years

Im dumb..... but there is always impossible to keep a realtionship secure you must have a yin and yang to keep balance i think?

I hope that didn't sound like Im arguing

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Jealousy is a condition which I have no comprehension as to it's benefit in a relationship .. if someone feels they have to MAKE me feel enamoured by throwing other people up in my face, to prove to me that they are desired .. then they are insecure in their own ability to have me love them just for themselves and what's in their heart.

I just don't get that .. does it mean that a person doesn't need to feel loved for who they are? They just need to have it won? A victory?

And furthermore .. to be jealous of someone .. I would think it would have to be for someone who is worth it .. if someone is taunting me with another person with the intention of provoking a "bad" side of me, yet, think it's a "good" side of me .. then is that person actually worth being jealous over? Not in a million !!

It makes no sense ..

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@MissNomerFishie
19 Years

Love should never make any person insecure. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. One has to look deep inside themselves to see if the jealousy is being created from within or fostered by the partner. If it's fostered by the partner, it's time to have a long discussion...and ask WHY.