Here's one for the books (boards)

Yeah, life is grand alright. I was out with the Virguy I've been seeing for the past 3 wks and guess who shows up - Mr. Pisces. He comes in to where Virguy and I were (he knows I hang out there) which means he drove by my house and given that I wasn't home went in search of me. Came in and demanded I leave, I of course said no and then he dumps Virguy's beer in his lap, says that I'm his girlfriend, busts Virguy's sunglasses and turns and walks away. Virguy wasn't going to stand for that and goes after him and wait staff break them up all at the same time Mr. Pisces is telling him he's my boyfriend and had sex with me Sat when he came over. WTF, I havn't been seeing him in almost 6 months and on Sat I told him I was seeing someone and given the fact I don't date multiple men at the same time I gave him an emphatic "NO", and I'm no one's booty call anyway. I, go running after Virguy as he makes his way to his truck at that point - he wants nothing more to do with me because he thinks I have a fricken boyfriend despite seeing him almost every night from the beginning - Despite the fact it was he I was running after.

I'm nice, it takes me a lot to get me riled up and, almost to a fault, I have a hard time telling people to go shove it I want nothing more to do with them, but Mr. Pisces called so I took it and told him never to call me again. Of course, he had to get his 2 cents in before I hung up - so, I'm a slut, horror, bitch and whatever else and what was he supposed to do walking in and seeing "his girlfriend" rubbing some other guys back. Huh? I hung up and did not engage him. I'm done!

I'm embarrassed, I'm ashamed, I'm hurt, I'm astonished, I'm heartbroken, I'm sorry, I'm confused, and so much more.

Virgy wants to have lunch w/ me in a bit... we'll see how that goes.

sounds like a horrible escenario the one you had to live.I hope your Virguy understands the old pisces wants to own you!!! Ive seen PIsces men angry.. and not a funny picture.. when they get mad they are seriously scary!!!

OMG I hope ur gonna get him back for that......Fuck the virgo off he shoulda punched his lights out and carried u off and made sweet love to u in the back of his truck. leaving the fish twitching in the gutter.

seriously If someone fucks with you like that you need to grow some balls and assert them in his FACE!.....if an ex was spreading shit like that I would do some serious facebook hacking damage...actually the best thing you can do to a piscean is destroy his stuff 🙂 lots of fun

you are amazing The_eleventh_sign_11!!!! I am so reday to do that!! It was like you read my mind...Yeah i know i get a little extreme with this but if someone does something to me i get even... and a pisces is not a exception ...

"I'm nice, it takes me a lot to get me riled up and, almost to a fault, I have a hard time telling people to go shove it I want nothing more to do with them, but Mr. Pisces called so I took it and told him never to call me again. Of course, he had to get his 2 cents in before I hung up - so, I'm a slut, horror, bitch and whatever else and what was he supposed to do walking in and seeing "his girlfriend" rubbing some other guys back. Huh? I hung up and did not engage him. I'm done!"



It's a shame that you didn't have the balls to tell Pisces that the relationship was over BEFORE Virgo got a lap full of beer.

Well, he knows now that you actually have a backbone, so maybe he'll come back to you now.

Going back and reading your saga .. it appears that when the Pisces was trying to date you, you made sure to be full of yourself while dumping loads of crap on him.


I think karma came calling ...

P, *smh*, he did know! I made it clear when he showed up Sat night I was no longer interested in him and that I was seeing someone else. Hello, I'm seeing someone else, I don't see multiple men at the same time - and that I told him also. I know Pisces live in/for fantasy, but this one is in psycho la la land.

Buttercup, that's essentially it, if he can't have me no one can.

Had lunch and spent about 4 hrs w/ Virguy. He didn't ask me to explain myself or define for him what my current relationship was with Mr. Pisces. He did talk a lot about how Mr. Pisces was a nut job though and can't believe I was with a guy like that. Given that I am in the middle here he believes I brought it on and I owed him a new pair of sun glasses - so I did replace them - he did choose what was probably the least expensive pair, only $ 80. He did say in the sunglass store that it wasn't my fault that the glasses got broken but that out of principle it was the right thing for me to do. Whatever makes you happy! He did keep wanting to buy me things in the mall though, after all, he said, I paid for his sunglasses. He thinks I should confront Mr. Pisces and demand he pay me back for them. But, I want no contact with the guy. Good God, who knows what any contact will have him thinking.

Mr. Pisces left me a vm this afternoon... can't believe I would go behind his back, go out with another man and be unfaithful and betray him like that and that I should call him to explain myself. Yeah, like that's going to happen.

Virguy asked what I was doing later, said maybe he and I can do something and that he'll call. We'll see.

Right, you said that you told him after-the-fact, after Virgo was humiliated.



Don't even try ... you're not good enough.

"Given that I am in the middle here he believes I brought it on and I owed him a new pair of sun glasses - so I did replace them .."




Wow, I'm shocked .. after such an episode like that where you try to convince that you were completely innocent in all this ... you so non-chalantly take responsibility in bringing it on yourself when Virgo makes mention of this .. even pay for damages.


Seriously .... you are definitely the chucklefuck of this situation .. and the probability that you set this situation up is highly likely.


Fucking attention whores.

Posted by lildol
P, *smh*, he did know! I made it clear when he showed up Sat night I was no longer interested in him and that I was seeing someone else. Hello, I'm seeing someone else, I don't see multiple men at the same time - and that I told him also. I know Pisces live in/for fantasy, but this one is in psycho la la land.

Buttercup, that's essentially it, if he can't have me no one can.

Had lunch and spent about 4 hrs w/ Virguy. He didn't ask me to explain myself or define for him what my current relationship was with Mr. Pisces. He did talk a lot about how Mr. Pisces was a nut job though and can't believe I was with a guy like that. Given that I am in the middle here he believes I brought it on and I owed him a new pair of sun glasses - so I did replace them - he did choose what was probably the least expensive pair, only $ 80. He did say in the sunglass store that it wasn't my fault that the glasses got broken but that out of principle it was the right thing for me to do. Whatever makes you happy! He did keep wanting to buy me things in the mall though, after all, he said, I paid for his sunglasses. He thinks I should confront Mr. Pisces and demand he pay me back for them. But, I want no contact with the guy. Good God, who knows what any contact will have him thinking.

Mr. Pisces left me a vm this afternoon... can't believe I would go behind his back, go out with another man and be unfaithful and betray him like that and that I should call him to explain myself. Yeah, like that's going to happen.

Virguy asked what I was doing later, said maybe he and I can do something and that he'll call. We'll see.

You're such a player and emotional asshole .. I just can't believe that any person can read this and not comprehend it.

WHOAH GO GRANDMA!!!

I'm with P Angel on this "Karma"! Do you want a Pisces take on this or Virgo's? If I didn't care I would never take the call from that "Pisces" I'd be more bothered bout the "Virgo". Think maybe honey you're enjoying the attention and drama you're creating....Prioritse and don't play them off

lilydol these guys have ur tits in a dixie cup

Oh, lildol... you remind me of that "mean girl" in high school who felt adored/worshiped/proud/pleased with herself when guys were fighting over her, made even more sweet, because one of them had hurt her in the past. Your Gemini placements are showing, might want to tuck that back up. That Gemini seems to have too much influence to make you very compatible with *either* the Pisces or the Virgo, generally speaking.

Sadly, as much as several of us tried to help and enlighten lildol throughout her Mr. Pisces saga... I've got this niggling feeling that she's *definitely* enjoying Mr. Pisces' current discomfort. After all, she was hurt and suffering for months over him and his behavior and everything he was and was not doing. It's revenge. To her, she feels this is righteous, her retribution, and perfectly justified.

I don't know if she did or did not adequately convey to Mr. Pisces on Saturday that it was indeed OVER between them. Only SHE knows if she truly found some backbone at last and spoke it loud and clear, instead of her usual hinting and expecting him to know and understand what she meant. But irregardless... she's definitely enjoying her revenge on Mr. Pisces. If Mr. Virgo picks up on how much she's liking the drama and attention, and how vindictive and vengeful she is... he'll walk out. And then we'll be seeing another post on how to make it up to Mr. Pisces once more, because she made a mistake.

Dramatastic 😢

Ouch. And your Scorpio Mars AND a Sag Venus? You've got a lot of challenges with that Cap Sun of yours, I see. Found all that when I went hunting for...

Pisces driving me crazy (again)
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-driving-me-crazy-again-1977147/>https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-driving-me-crazy-again-1977147/</a><BR>
ONE MONTH AGO Mr. Pisces who shows up at your house unannounced. You were (by your own admission) "happy to see him" and "still have a thing for him" and also said in a later post on that thread that you miss him and TOLD him "part" of you still loves him. So where does this constitute it being "over for [6?] months" and that Mr. PISCES is acting crazy because ONE MONTH LATER he shows up again... and you're with a new guy, clearly surprising him? Last month, he said he WANTED to find out you'd moved on and were with another guy, so he could stop calling you. Now you want us to believe you CLEARLY told him a few days ago that it was OVER... that he's TOTALLY FABRICATING sleeping with you... when ONE MONTH AGO you were still so emotionally tangled up in this guy?? There is simply NO WAY you SUDDENLY "got over" him and "moved on" totally and CLEARLY TOLD HIM it was over - he's have to be fucking retarded for this scenario to work. You were your usual wishy-washy, hot-n-cold self who has SO MUCH TROUBLE deciding what she truly wants, MUCH LESS saying it aloud. You just didn't expect to get caught so soon, before you'd decided which guy you wanted more. But WOW.. such a gorgeous dramafest ensued when your two guys met! How ego-flattering!

So he DID come to see you again. He DID find you out w/ another guy. And he WAS stunned. Not cuz he's psycho or retarded... cuz YOU'RE getting off on playing jealousy/revenge games. Ugh 😢

Karma will fuck you tenfold, mark my words.

In February you posted: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/looking-for-the-elusive-pisces-input-1912614/>https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/looking-for-the-elusive-pisces-input-1912614/</a><BR>
2/12 "But, then, he woke up in the middle of the night last night, put his arms around me and pulled me close to him and thanked me for being me."

2/20 "he still talks about he and I and us in future (but, then again Pisces don't seem to live in the present so I can't read too much into that). I got a little irritated with something he said the other day and (of course) he said he was only joking and he only teases me because he loves me."

And NOW you post here - "Mr. Pisces is telling him he's my boyfriend and had sex with me Sat when he came over. WTF, I havn't been seeing him in almost 6 months and on Sat I told him I was seeing someone and given the fact I don't date multiple men at the same time I gave him an emphatic "NO", and I'm no one's booty call anyway."

February 20th (OR LATER! That was just the PUBLIC reference to physically being with him!) to June 9th is SIX MONTHS?! Check your math... it's more like 3.5 months SINCE YOU WERE SLEEPING TOGETHER IN THE SAME BED AND TALKING ABOUT THE FUTURE AND MARRIAGE! So then... let me get this straight... the BOLD text in what you posted is a lie... and you want us to believe the italicized text is true? Do you even KNOW what the truth is anymore, lildol? Or is the drama and attention just too irresistible?

Chucklefuck indeed. And to think I wasted so much time TRYING to help you interpret Mr. Pisces all these months! I should have been making sure YOU weren't the whack-job first. Go lay in your burning bed. :/

"Too busy to have a relationship" maybe... but she's been posting about this stupid saga since late last year. The chick who's "NOT a booty call" kept boffing him and spending time with him and talking to him and having this angsty dramatastic relationship with him anyway. Up until what point? Saturday? Or the day he caught her with the Virgo? Cuz really, HER concept of time is clearly fucked.

BTW - it's not stalking when the chick is HAPPY to see him and SAYS she still has feelings for him when he shows up. It's not stalking when she's always ALLOWED him to show up unannounced, and NEVER told him not to - and why would she? She wanted whatever she could get with him, ANY crumbs of affection and attention were good enough for her. She's been a doormat for him all along, we've been telling her for MONTHS to grow a backbone and speak up, and to stop trying to conform to what she THINKS he wants, cuz it's backfiring. It's not stalking in this case, but it *is* disrespectful... because he doesn't respect her, the way she's been spineless and wishy-washy and fickle and flighty and overreactive the whole time. (And I daresay he knows her better than WE do!)

I'll have you know, I was on lildol's side the whole time with this Mr. Pisces mess. Up until today, when I got close enough to her contradictions and lies to see her true hue underneath. And now I think she's going to get what she deserves, because that Karma is one NAAAAAAAAAAAASTY bitch!

Haha i enjoyed this saga a lot!!! Sometimes you build your own failure.. By lying and making things up

LOL Thank goodness he's NOT one.

Exactly. Never did understand why the anger was misdirected.

Two syllables. Games suck.

^ Absolutely. Who needs it? *holding nose*

Hmmm, all your your perspectives are interesting. However, keep in mind, that after we stopped seeing each other I did question why he was calling me, his response, "we are still friends aren't we?". So, the issue of where our relationship was wasn't a question (not in my mind anyway). Yes, there was still an emotional attachment for me, I'll admit that, but we were no longer in a relationship and, despite the emotional attachment, I was satisfied with that for various reasons which I don't need to get into. And, despite being thrown off guard on Sat with him just showing up (which I can't recall that I had even spoken to him since the first time he just showed up, which was the first I had seen him since Feb), I finally had closure. He and I did have a heart to heart, and he gave no indication he wanted to get back into a relationship with me. I woke up Sun morn with a certain peace, as if a weight had been lifted. I was by no means being vindictive or trying to stir jealousy when I told him I was seeing someone, he asked and I answered honestly. I had no reason to lie about it, that would have been wrong and could have been interpreted as wanting to string him along. He called the following night and inquired about the man I was seeing, basic info, where we met, where we went on our first date, etc. (which, in retrospect I should have never entertained but, I didn't see any harm in telling him at the time, no big deal if he's curious about it).

As far as Tue night, to my knowledge he had never even been in that restaurant, he never would go in there with me, but he knew it was where I hung out regularly (my Cheers, so to speak) and where I met the Virgo. Even last night out with the Virgo he opted we go to a different location of the same chain because "it is our place" as he put it.

"Given that I am in the middle here he believes I brought it on and I owed him a new pair of sun glasses - so I did replace them - he did choose what was probably the least expensive pair, only $ 80. He did say in the sunglass store that it wasn't my fault that the glasses got broken but that out of principle it was the right thing for me to do. Whatever makes you happy! He did keep wanting to buy me things in the mall though, after all, he said, I paid for his sunglasses."


I wouldn't have bought him shit. Who does he think he is?

Yea cuz I'll be damned if I let someone dictate to me what my principles *should* be.

I would've probably replaced them on my own accord, but him telling me I need to do it would have turned me off.

And I saw no issue with replacing his sun glasses. It wasn't my fault, but I was the catalyst. Not a big deal. The Virgo also wanted to give the money back to me that I spent on them when we were out last night, which I declined. He does think I should confront Mr. Pisces about it and request my money back from him though. But, as I explained to him, I am not interested in some sort of confrontation. I'm not angry over it, just really perplexed at this point. It's easier to just let it go.

"amen again (never knew that i'm so religous LOL)"


haha😛


I agree with you though, SG. Doesn't matter what she did or didn't do for that matter, he had no right to come at them like that. I wish a motherfucka would pull some shit like on me! lol

And people throwing that Karma word around like that make me sick, tbh.


How dare you think you understand how someone ELSES karma works?

I'm still confused how I was stringing Mr. Pisces along??_he clarified that he was calling as a friend and actually, he only called every 2 or 3 wks between the last time I physically seen him in Feb and when he showed up unannounced on May 1st. His May 1st visit was about 10 min, he never even got out of his vehicle — —was just driving by and saw me outside??. I hadn't heard from him again until he showed up on my doorstep this past Sat. He asked the question about me seeing someone and I answered honestly. Again, how is any of this stringing him along - because occasionally I would take his phone calls and we would talk for 5 min as friends? Never was there talk of rekindling anything, feelings/emotions, or even getting together for dinner. On a couple of occasions he even asked if I had a new boyfriend yet. I don't see any gray here on what the relationship status was.

Call me naive, but I think people are generally outright good people and don't think there are hidden agendas lurking in the background — another personality defect, I'm too trusting - (hence the reason I answered Mr. Pisces questions about the Virgo when he was asking me about him on Sun, he sounded genuinely curious about the new guy in my life, I didn't read anything more into it). I have never had an issue being friends with people I had a prior relationships with, and why would I consider this anything but? He wasn't interested in dating me, nor was I interested in dating him, as when we were dating he was bent on changing me into the woman he wanted me to be rather than accepting me for who I am.

The reasons we weren't dating were clear — and it wasn't just time constraints, I was not the type of woman he wanted nor was I going to change for him. And, that was a mutual understanding.

But, regardless of relationship status, what he turned around and did was unacceptable, unforgivable and childish - that's like stuff you see in the movies, not stuff that happens in real life. And, on top of it, he had no clue who I was sitting with, it could have been a family member, a co-worker, a business associate or even just a platonic friend.

And, to clarify things, after Mr. Pisces threw the beer in the Virgo??s lap, Mr. Pisces grabbed the sun glasses off the table (stole them essentially) and walked out. The Virgo pursued him to get his glasses; not because he had a beer thrown in his lap, nor anything to do with me. And, there were no punches thrown — plenty of folks working to prevent that — the Virgo wasn't particularly interested in fighting Mr. Pisces anyway, he just wanted his sun glasses back. So, Mr. Pisces proceeded to taunt him and talk bs, then snapped the glasses in half, threw the pieces at him and walked away.

Valeria, no, no, no, not sure where you got that idea... Mr. Pisces had asked where I met the guy, it was at that venue. As far as Tue night, the Virgo and I didn't really even have plans. I decided to stop in the place after work. The Virgo decided to join me later... he was hanging out at another venue watching a ball game. I talked to him on the phone around 7pm and invited him down, but he wasn't sure what he was going to do. I was pleasantly surprised when he showed up a bit later.

It would not have mattered who I was with or who I was talking to... Mr. Pisces would have still come in and seen me talking to someone (my typical mo, talking and playing buzztime trivia), sometimes folks I know, sometimes not - usually men - it could have been a perfect stranger's lap he poured the beer in. My point, his behavior would have been the same, and in the end it would have still been an embarrassment, unfortunately it ended up being the Virgo who was humiliated along with myself.

My issue is NOT that lildol is "dating" two men. In fact, she SHOULD be dating at least THREE, and getting hung up on NONE until one steps up with something real and committed and exactly what she wants. Furthermore, her sex life is also none of my concern.

What I have issue with is the DISHONESTY. The ugly truth is that she's getting off on her revenge on Mr. Pisces (Scorp Mars? lol), and obviously misleading Mr. Virgo by twisting the truth to a more self-flattering presentation (Gemini? lol). I KNOW why she said "almost 6 months" (when it's actually only 3 or so since they were sleeping together)... it's because that's what she TOLD Mr. Virgo to make herself seem like the victim and Mr. Pisces the psycho. "What? I don't know what his problem is.. I haven't been seeing him for almost 6 months... oh dear, and now you have a wet lap and broken sunglasses. That guy is clearly crazy and lying!" I have a problem with her twisting things around to suit her agenda, when she's been posting about this whole mess ad nauseam since last September or something... we've been TELLING her to grow a backbone, to be honest, to set boundaries and stand up for herself and what she wants... and now she wants to pretend to be clueless about how Mr. Pisces felt and shocked that he didn't pick up on what she MEANT (aka it's over) instead of just hearing her usual wishy-washy, back and forth still attached to him words and actions. "Yes, I've been seeing someone for a couple weeks, he seems nice... (waiting for the jealousy which doesn't come, because Pisces tend to hold it inside)..." (See LIB's repasting of lildol's 6/6/10 post) That is NOT the conversation/dealings a woman HAS with a man she's CLEARLY saying it's over with... that's what she does when she's keeping him on the back burner.. she has feelings for him, but he hurt her, she's trying to move on, but DAMN he's being so sweet right now. I'm not surprised Mr. Pisces was shocked... just surprised he threw the juvenile, destructive fit he did. As for the "sex on Sat".. jury's still out, because lildol has not yet learned to be 100% honest. (Not that I care if she had chandelier sex with him and put it on YouTube!... but she need not LIE to us (and to the Virgo) about how things are/went with Pisces!) Liars and truth-twisters burn my ass up.

I don't hate or even dislike you, lildol. I just can't stand your dishonesty. And it will RUIN every relationship you attempt, unless you change it.

Also... do you really think Mr. Virgo is going to blithely accept "almost 6 months" as an "innocent emotional exaggeration/error" if he were to find out you were actually still sleeping together about 3.5 months ago (leaving Sat out of it) and that he's been calling/showing up randomly since then - WITH your blessing, because you ACCEPTED it??

If you think for two seconds that a Virgo will accept it AT ALL, and not be completely FURIOUS at being LIED to, leaving you open-mouthed and choking on his dust... you don't know Virgos. Exaggeration IS lying to them, period. Pretending to be clueless IS lying. Learn to tell the whole truth by OTHER'S standards, or start dating Geminis or Sags or something. No more Earth or Water - they'll eat you alive!

I haven't been dishonest... I told the Virgo Feb when he had asked a couple of weeks back when my last relationship was. When the Virgo and I went to lunch on Wed we talked about it more. He criticized me a little, gave me examples of things from his life, and we went from there.

And when I posted almost 6 months it was an estimate based on the fact that it was Feb now it's June I didn't think of exact dates or the precision of my estimate. Maybe 5 would have been more reasonable?

I have no reason to lie to anyone. Lying serves no purpose in life and does not benefit anyone. I've gotten myself into plenty of trouble with my honesty over the years (be it parents, the law, sig others, my children) and I even have a gf who tells me I need to learn to lie to cover my own ass. But, my honesty (of things others probably would have lied about) has also worked in my favor and to the benefit of others (e.g., my children).

And with regards to honesty, that is why when Mr. Pisces asked I did say, yes, I am seeing someone. It wasn't the first time he asked. It was just the fact of the matter at the time he asked. It was what it was. Uh, the other option would have been to lie, which we've already covered. And from your perspectives, I'm damned that I did (was trying to elicit jealousy?) and I'd be damned if I didn't (I lied) - something really wrong with that picture. If I lied the same scenario would have played out because he drove by my house and my car was not in the driveway so he came looking for me except, the difference would be that Mr. Pisces would have accused me of lying. I'll stick with the honest answer thank you very much. Thus, defusing any surprises and clearing up any ambiguity for the person to whom the truth was told.

You're still doing it. Can't you even see it, lildol? 😱

Thank you, valeria.. that was tongue-in-cheek for sure, and I have NOTHING against Gems or Sags - my BFF of over 20 years is a Sag! There's good and bad in EVERY sign, and NO sign wants to be made a fool of. I certainly do not mean to say that Gems and Sags would want someone dishonest and dramatastic... just felt they might be more.. uhhh.. understanding or accepting of small faux pas (like stretching 3.5 mos into 6)... 'cuz a Virgo WON'T accept exaggeration. At all.

What are you guys talking about? Bring the new guy there? I met the Virgo in there probably a month and a half ago and we started seeing each other about 3 weeks ago. This is not something that has just transpired, not someone I just met. I go into the same place almost daily, if I go a week without going in I'm asked where I've been. I think folks were pretty shocked when after over a year I finally am seeing someone (that they are witness to) because they didn't see me dating anyone ever. Mr. Pisces refused to go with me when I was dating him and didn't want me going in there anyway (Christ, I couldn't go to dinner there or even elsewhere with my gf who is the only family I have here... and he didn't even know her, just hearing her name made him sick he said - she and her family are my family here, the rest are in AK, yet I was to have no contact - you guys don't know the half of it). Mr. Pisces actually made out pretty damn good... if he goes in again, they ain't taking to him too kindly. This is my turf, it's where me and my gf have been hanging out for quite some time. He had no idea who I was with, not a clue; the flip side is, you guys do and you're turning that into something that is not relevant as he really had absolutely no idea who I was sitting next to, he just made an assumption. And no one was fighting over me, I never said they were. I simply gave facts and recognized them as such... what part of facts do people not understand? Good God!

Maybe it's easier for me, I live in facts daily, I am a statistician, I look at what's in front of me and take things at face value, there is no gray area, the data speak for themselves - thus, if you say I'm not the type of woman you want, I'm good, I'm not the type of woman you want; If I say I'm seeing someone else, then I'm seeing someone else and have moved on. Is there confusion on either of those fronts? Those are the facts, those were clearly stated and clearly communicated by both parties. Where is the confusion? I don't understand how any of you could have missed it - even a Pisces - is there not clarity in those statements? Or, is there something wishy-washy about those particular statements that I am missing?? Seems clear cut to me. I'm a black and white kind a person. It either is or it isn't, and in this case, it isn't on both sides! Even a Pisces can't be that dense!!!

Ian, I wasn't allowed to have a single drink unless I was in his presence. A single glass of wine out to dinner with my gf was "oh you're drinking again"... mind you, that was a single glass of wine. It wasn't a drinking too much issue, it was having a drink without him that was an issue.

^^^hmmm, maybe I should have lied!

to Mr. Pisces, that is.

And that was even discussed on Sat, me being with my bf, me having a single drink (without him). He clearly stated both of those were unacceptable. In his mind, his woman is not going to visit friends without his permission nor have a drink without him. I told him he wants a puritan. He works with the Amish,I went as far as telling him he really wants an Amish woman. He only laughed. But it is true, for this guy, that is what he wants.

bf=gf in last post (thinking best friend rather than girl friend)

I took a lot from him, but I stood up for myself and in turn paid the price (in his mind). This is why I'm not with him, why he swam away to being with. If I were a doormat, life would be oh so grand with Mr. Pisces, wouldn't it? Please!

So, I've looked back on my posts, interesting, if anyone was stringing anyone along in was Mr. Pisces stringing me along and I playing into his hand. Probably more so in the past few months given he was contacting me rather than the other way around. You guys can be very enlightening!

ty buttercup, exactly my thinking, I do attract those type of men. And yes, it is because I am so eager to please in the beginning and end up being a doormat. This is why since Mr. Pisces I've opted for different kind of men... for one, a similar value system as mine and when not in agreement, I'm not the scum of the earth and should be shot accordingly! 🙂

Posted by Jockey2809

Posted by buttercupSG
i said what i meant exactly. nothting passive agressive about it. i was just avoiding to hurt your feelings out right. OK?

yes i think you were projecting. happy?

Val25 has done nothing wrong here and others have said things far more penetrating to lildoll than she has. She's throwing yet another angle toward lildoll to give her more insight behind what/why she created this little love triangle of hers..

Please don't start anything between each other. Suggesting you're 'avoiding to hurt her feelings' is as bad as saying it at all, sorry.. Val would never do to guys what lildoll has done.

I agree, lildoll is setting a bad example for herself, perhaps may see the light.. Good luck to her. I hope she learns from her mistake of stringing her Pisces along. That shows little backbone and/or manipulative behaviour by using Pisces as some sort of insurance package in case Virgo doesn't work out.

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What love triangle? I haven't been involved romantically with Mr. Pisces for months! And I never did nothing but be a friend to someone calling me, where is that wrong, why would I read more into it? I take things as they are, if you consider that naive so be it. And Mr. Pisces would never serve as backup given the way he treated me. I'm not the type of person to be some servant and not be allowed to have a life of my own! Some of you really have things twisted.

This was Saturday (well, not exactly, but general principle)...