In the Minds Eye ...

Do you have a visional of what people look like (the ones without pics on their profile) .. just from thier personalities?

Like Sweet-P, for example .. in my mind, I see a skinny woman, with buck teeth and crossed eyes with pus-filled acne.

prettypisces24 .. is about 800 pounds and bow-legged.

Haffo is about 2 feet tall, resembling a toad, having warts all over him.

kidding of course 🙂🙂


However, I do see you as skinny SP. I already know what pp looks like and you're not a toad, Haffo.

Do any of you get a vision of people, though, when you talk to them?

I always thought of DC as a red-head .. I was shocked to see him with curly blonde hair. Starfish, appears to be really tall in my mind, like 5'10"

I'm not even real.

I definitely get a picture and it rarely is ever close to reality, I guess that's why I like general avatars instead of a picture of oneself. It doesn't interfere with my imagination. Although sometimes I lose track of who's male or female. lol.

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Just for a start . . . . .
I see Sweet-P as bubbly and energetic.
I see P-Angel with an acerbic wit with a twinkle in her eye.
I see archer as athletic and willowy with strength.
I see Notso as petite and graceful and kind.
I see Brahn as prickly and funny.
I see DC as horny, desperate and masculine.
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It's funny that fireytruth is here posting on Pisces board just now because I wrote about her/him in the hidden post.

I see him as a girl. He says he's a he and I believe him .. but, he feels like a she.


skin, I see you with really big smile. Some people only grin .. but, yours is like huge in my mind, ear to ear.

lol, you are not far off P, I am always smiling and usually laughing too.
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I havent been on these boards long enough so I cant contribute to this post 😢 lol

lol @ archer

SG, as for Virgo's .. I don't they confuse the two for what it means, rather, the confusion is in believing the expression of it.

Meaning .. they think to express the details is sexy, because to express lust and expressing love is the same ... eventhough it's felt differently. Simply, from my exprience with them, is because any messy emotions, or chaotic, such as love, terrifies this analytical mind too much .. so, if it's shown lustfully, then to them, they believe that the other person will accept the physical and overlook the emotional.

This is why they talk about details so much ... it's a decoy. People will think they are sexual animals, be attracted to it, since we as adults crave sexual encounters ... they hope that we won't notice that they are emotionally vacant.

Well, I guess everyone sees things differently. I know when Branh used to talk about love .. he understood what it means versus lust .. he chose to forsake love for lust. Just as other Virgo's talk about their relationships and will briefly talk about how they comprehend love and move quickly to talk prolificallly about sex.

The understanding seems to be present .. it's a choice.

What's the matter, Starfish?

"that may be why they like to talk about some "white heat" or "being explosive" in lovemaking... when one is bottled up due to the inability to express affections and feelings.. oh yeah something would have to explode sometime...pent-up emotions....I don't think that's something to glorify about... it's merely a way to fix up the mess-ups..."


That makes sense ... seriously, I've never experienced this white heat thing with a Virgo and after 25 years of marriage to one .. we've had intercourse thousands of times .. the difference with me may be because I don't pressure him for emotional support. I want it, and bitch about it in here because I'm human and get pissed-off and frustrated .. but, I don't put that kind of pressure on him, so I guess there's no need to explode this heat.

::: scratches head, maybe an epiphany just came :::

I love that proverb, too .. you and archer are so wise, SG


Starfish, talking about Virgo's all the time gets old, doesn't it? Perhaps, they are the most confusing of all to comprehend.

I don't want to contribute to irriating you, so, my participation in the Virgo talk ends here.

Hope you're having a great day 🙂🙂

Man, I can't type today .. hopefully, that made sense.

"I love Virgos too much.. even with their thorns"

Me too .. yesterday a very good V-friend called, he came up with a new business idea and was asking me about jurisdiction legalities and taxing .. but, anyway, he was so excited, like a little kid, the enthusiasm was adorable (eventhough the idea was a wash).

"some bring the sexy back"

So i am bringing the sexy back to you girl..interesting.

P-Angel, I think you look "like" actress Jodie Foster.

SF .. since you're not irritated with this line of Virgo talk, I will add something that maybe will help you to understand about your question of ..

"he always needed me to scream out in the heat of the moment .. he would seem upset bc I did not do that .. the moaning wasn't enough for him"

Seriously, I don't believe that they have any empathy AT ALL, meaning, they can only feel themselves and how something effects them only.

For instance, one time during doing "it", I was wriggling around because my body was responding to feeling good. He stopped and said something like, "Will you be still and cooperate". There was absolutely NO comprehension of how he was effecting me .. he could only know how he was effected by what he was doing to me and how it made him feel. He was into "whatever" and my body movements interupted what he was experiencing ... sort of like the man you are talking about. Your moans didn't effect him, so, he probably just thought you weren't cooperating with his sexual routine and what he needed to feel it .. such as screaming.

I swear .. people don't believe me and I've been saying this for 4 years in the dxpland .. Virgo's CANNOT feel others as it effects others, they can only feel it as it effects them.

I was going to end it for Starfish, but, she asked .. so, I continued. If it is really bothering anybody .. I will stop. 🙂

Actually Ocean .. I resemble Jodie Foster's grin/smirk/smile/frown.

When you see her mouth expressions .. those are mine, also.

lol, SG .. Starfish and I talk Virgo's to death, sometimes ..

We've both been through hell and back with them. You all just can't imagine what I've been through with my husband .. here's a snippet:

Prison (one of us)
Child Support liability to 4 different states
Bankruptcy
Life-altering Industrial Injury (now permanently disabled)


I've been there done that, literal life-hell experiences and still here to talk about it .. so, from my perspective, nobody in here who is just "smitten" all googly-faced like a little girl, thinking she has the inside on being with a Virgo, simply because they screwed .. ain't shite.

It's not until life itself gets screwed, not a fluttery heart that could change when a new hot guy walks past you, with a person do you know what they are made of, who they really are.

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In real life, people say I look like Little Kim.

But, at 5' 5" tall, I'm way taller than she is. lol 🙂

The handicap is for life .. however, we get to park right up front 🙂

We went to see Carlos Mencia over the weekend, and we got to park and see all the VIP's .. so, certainly not complaining about that part of it.

My only point in saying all that, is that I've lived through hell and back with my husband for 25 years, and I'll be goddammed if anybody thinks I don't frigging KNOW what the Virgo is made of.

SG, we have grandchildren now and life has settled somewhat .. but, the emotional distance is still there .. you do think dealt with all that emotional stress during those times? Him? Think again ...

And they weren't even my children .. you think a Virgo is going to step up? Yeah, right .. he paid, because he had to .. he didn't deal with the emotional distress .. that's too messy and too much.

I just overlook him now .. well, SG, I don't have to tell you about this, you already know how he drives me crazy. 😛

Thank you, archer .. I think you are beautiful, too.

Starfish .. I know what you've been through with your son's father. I didn't mean to sound so damn arrogant about that .. I don't know why I got worked up for those couple posts.

Can I blame it on my moon in Cancer?

"Do you have a visional of what people look like (the ones without pics on their profile) .. just from thier personalities?"

Definitely...

I think that if more people were to put up profile pics I would be dissappointed because they would ruin the image I've painted of them in my mind.

"Thats befor all the plastic surgery I hope..."

*sigh*...Starfish, I'm not sure really. When I told a friend "No, I don't look anything like her.", they played her "No Matter What They Say" video to try and make me see it. I still don't.

OMG! Vivica Fox went to a butcher! Or, is in love with a polo player. LOOK at that divit!

wtf?

Why would a person wear clothes like that if ..... ?

It must not be real.

I don't know, P...but, she was dating 50cent about that time, I think.

"being detached at times so I wouldn't show too much vulnerability.. I'm working on not doing that with ppl and things truly matter to me moving forward..."


And I understand that .. it's hard and scary, sometimes. Especially for a Virgo who has to glorify themselves with thier strength. So, I do know this, even if I bitch about it .. and I bitch because this strength only comes from not having to falter, while someone else drops to their knees so you can keep strong .. how can a person then boast to being strong if they never dealt with it?

That IS the Virgo ... they are strong ... we would ALL be if we never had to fall.

You don't seem detached, SG, from feelings. It may feel that way to you inside, but, it isn't apparant on the outside. Quite the opposite, you seem very emotionally together. Certainly, you've had your ups and downs, but, you pull through with a positive attitude.

Wish I had a smidgeon of that strength ... I tend to dwell in hopelessness. Perhaps, being Pisces has a lot to do with that, or, maybe it's just me. Either way, I see you way more stronger than I will ever be .. perhaps, if I ever got out of this marriage, I would be able to pick the pieces back up and have a better attitude.

Sometimes, maybe this will sound selfish, but, I feel like he owes me. For 5 long years, he was in the Georgia State Penitentiary and I hung in there .. he owes me, SG. I worked 3 jobs to keep ends met when he broke his back. Now, I'm changing in my womanhood, menopause is causing chemical imbalances and now I am the one who needs help .. he's not stepping up to the plate and I resent him for it. Perhaps, I shouldn't .. people say to just leave. But, goddammit, I did all that work keeping him when he was down, when he was scard, when he was confused, when he was broken .. and now, when it's time for him to take care of my changing emotions that are difficult ... he just gets off scott free?

Fuck .....

Bye, SG ...

Ocean, it just doesn't make sense ... would you wear clothes like that if your boob was all screwed up? I wouldn't .. and be all smiling and proud of my new rack?

Starfish, I didn't see his movie about his life, but I heard about it - and that he was able to survive it somehow. What he thinks about women could be all over the map. Vivica could have been trying to "place" 50, or she could have been trying to stay in the game as a 30something actress. I don't know.

P, I wouldn't wear that dress if my titays were perfectly round...I'm shy! lol.

P.s. In my mind, Starfish is Tyra Banks.

sad, she used to be so pretty.

^^Vivica.

"I think that she really let him mess up her self-esteem, she was so much more'of a woman then he could handle and instead of her realizing that she went through all these physical changes to try and maker her self feel and look better and the problem wasn't her it was 50 cent."


That's terrible .. is she still with him? Has she gained her dignity and self-esteem back?

It doesn't matter what she looks like .. every person is beautiful physically, just the way they come. Why would this man do such a thing? I don't know who fifty cents is, obviously, not a nice man.

She's a gorgeous lady .. I hope she knows it now.

Dreamer just wants some sex from me.

I get hints from the Avatar as far as personalities. But the physical parts ... not yet. Maybe, we should post our pics on here. Although, the mystery behind us all might subside, who knows?!

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My face is in the "see all images" section of my profile along with my avatar pics.