Is this typical Pisces behaviour?

Hi Pisces people: Virgo here (obviously!) Sorry to say that I have recently had a bad disappointment with a Pisces lady and would like to know whether or not what happened is typical Pisces behaviour as I wouldn't want to write off Pisces people in general if I can help it. (In fact I do know one other Pisces lady who is very genuine but unfortunately she is very much taken!)

Anyway what happened was that this particular lady and I got in contact via a dating website and for some reason she really seemed to like me: this is unusual so of course I was feeling elated about it all and I was due to meet her this last Sunday (although I would have had to travel over 100 miles that was not a problem for me). However some days before our supposed date I began to get a bit annoyed and concerned that she hadn't seemed to have grasped that the date was definitely on and then on the Tuesday evening prior to the Sunday of the proposed date I telephoned her and she sounded uncertain. The next day I texted her and she said that she had found somebody else: I don't know if she really had or whether she had just changed her mind about me for some reason and was making excuses. So in the end we never met and I feel pretty much devastated about it all and feel that I have been made a fool of. It wouldn't have been so bad but she had sounded so kind and friendly and positive about me (saying that I sounded "lovely" etc.) that I now feel bitterly disappointed as I had been hoping that maybe I had found the love of my life at last (age 56: she was a widow aged 66 by the way but not a problem for me). Oh well at least I saved the train fare lol! 😢

oh boy, i don't even know where to start.

Posted by virgodog58
Oh well at least I saved the train fare lol! 😢

😐

cheers! cuz i see this is what was truly important here.

No I was just being ironic of course!

Posted by virgodog58
No I was just being ironic of course!

Oh, okay. Cuz you bring up money in your posts a lot, starting with inheritances and ending with judging women's shoes.

I don't have much to add. Just want to say this is not typical pisces behavior and sorry she left you hanging. 😢

I think this is the behaviour to be expected for most people you meet online.

Yes, the pensioner catfish! She's probably over 70, aren't all women on a dating site pretending to be younger? Then what, meet someone who could be her son, for some dubious 200 miles distance fling?

She is probably lonely and polite and likes to day dream about some gentlemen courting her.....and you mistaken these for real interest in starting a relationship with you?!

Not enough info to go by but what others have said could be correct and as a Pisces myself when I'm meeting a new person just one small minute issue can run me off. So maybe unknowingly you stated something..or your attitude...maybe you were pushy etc...just could have shut her down. Security is a huge issue with Pisces women....This really isn't all sign specific so just keep looking. There is a lady out there with your name written all over her... 🙂

Posted by SpinCycle
There is a lady out there with your name written all over her... 🙂

.......Virgob*tch— Now that would be enticing! Bwahahhahahah!!!

Posted by SpinCycle
There is a lady out there with your name written all over her... 🙂

........Virgob*tch— Now that would be enticing! Bwahahahahah!!!

jeez, the thought process of a virgo is so exhausting...lol

--Jack

Posted by virgodog58

.... I now feel bitterly disappointed as I had been hoping that maybe I had found the love of my life at last (age 56 .....

bitterly? wtf?


so, by the age 56, you're still searching for the love of your life?


what's the matter with you? .... other than you attach unrealistic feelings to people?

Posted by virgodog58

However some days before our supposed date I began to get a bit annoyed and concerned that she hadn't seemed to have grasped that the date was definitely on and then on the Tuesday evening prior to the Sunday of the proposed date I telephoned her and she sounded uncertain.

Your above testimony has very important information missing from it, and I would make the assumption that the reason it's missing is because you are incapable of grasping what it means, so, you don't recognize it.

Typical Virgo.

For you to become concerned and annoyed that she wasn't getting the fact that your intention was to meet her in person = she was giving you a message that she doesn't want this meeting to happen.

You missed it then, you miss it now. You have an agenda, that is the only thing you will accept to recognize. Your agenda is what you want. Meanwhile, she was giving you the signal NO.

So, this means you were badgering her about it. For you to become annoyed, the logical assumption is then - there were several instances of you insisting on this. According to your testimony, you were becoming (this), which means it happened over time.

So, Tuesday comes and you are pressing her again about this meeting, and again, she gives you an indication that she doesn't want to.

if someone is uncertain about doing it, Mr. Virgo who lacks emotional knowledge, then it means NO, they don't want to.


That flies right over your head, apparently.


And yes, this is very typical of Pisces to make an excuse, because you weren't actually getting what she was saying to you. We tend to steer clear of ignorant people, such as yourself.