How to handle a COMPLAINING virgo woman

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by SoInLOVE on Saturday, August 23, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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@SoInLOVE
13 Years

I just want to know, because I have met SO many complaining virgo women, and Im dating This virgo woman and she complains about everything??_ And a lot of it is her fault. I feel like its to get my attention and sympathy. What do I say or do, to not come off as an a $ $ ?

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@virgoking
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by SoInLOVE
I just want to know, because I have met SO many complaining virgo women, and Im dating This virgo woman and she complains about everything??_ And a lot of it is her fault. I feel like its to get my attention and sympathy. What do I say or do, to not come off as an a $ $ ?

Been there done that buddy it never stops that how they lure you in a great man told me never feel sorry for a b word because if it was reverse she would feel sorry for you and he was right lol. Stay clear away from complaining women.

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@LoveSeeker
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by SoInLOVE
I just want to know, because I have met SO many complaining virgo women, and Im dating This virgo woman and she complains about everything??_ And a lot of it is her fault. I feel like its to get my attention and sympathy. What do I say or do, to not come off as an a $ $ ?

How do you meet them haha ?

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by SoInLOVE
I just want to know, because I have met SO many complaining virgo women, and Im dating This virgo woman and she complains about everything??_ And a lot of it is her fault. I feel like its to get my attention and sympathy. What do I say or do, to not come off as an a $ $ ?

Be honest to yourself. You don't have to say or do anything. If it's her fault stuff keeps happening to her, that's one lesson she'll have to deal with by herself. Don't try to appease her or solve stuff for her.

Get a good pair of ear muffins and ignore the nagging/complaining. If she sees she has no audience, she'll stop.

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@AreTwoFour
13 Years500+ Posts

I'm not sure about Virgo women, but I was married to a Virgo. When I main tained my own personality, he COMPLAINED. After a few years, I slowly started changing to please him and stop the nagging. The compliance backfired. He got bored with my stepford wife ways and had affairs and that ended it. I think some of them need something bitch about to feel alive and full fill the need to help, fix, or whatever. Almost like a codepency dynamic. Tho some won't give you the time of day if you don't have your shit together. So if you want it to work, desensitize yourself to the complaining.