Mixed messages from male Pisces

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by TiredPerson on Saturday, February 25, 2017 and has 4 replies.

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@TiredPerson
9 Years

Hi, I had an account here years ago but can't remember the login/password. Well, my current dilemma is with this Pisces guy I met on a serious dating site. We are a high match and I thought his profile/picture looked fine, so when he messaged me we started talking. At first he was a little flirty and we spoke for over a day on the site about various shared interests, then I gave him my number so we could carry on the conversation and meet up. But after I gave him my number, and as we texted on everyday throughout the week, the messages he sent me became more sparse and noncommittal. I asked if he wanted to meet for coffee on Sunday and he acted like I never even sent the text. He only responded when I sent another text after that asking about something else. Anyway, is this normal? Is he still interested or trying to let me off gently? I honestly can't tell.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Ask him if he saw the text about meeting up.

Do not read much into texts. The question should be: is he asking you on a date, at least once a week, with plenty of time in advance? If not, you two ARE NOT even dating.

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@TiredPerson
9 Years

Posted by d0s3r
it's *online* dating. don't get so attached

It's not that I'm attached, I'd just like to know one way or the other whether or not he wants to go out. He initially started talking to me about meeting but then when I try to get an actual day time he doesn't respond.