@BeoWulf
19 Years500+ Posts
My soulmate (if souls even exist), is an Aries ... I can feel him everyday of my life.
I agree ... it is very difficult to follow your train of thought when you don't actually show where your sentences begin and end.
"he doesnt answer my texts sometimes then when he calls he doesnt care to discuss what i text him prior"
The reason why he isn't discussing it is because you are pouring all your emotional crap onto him and he's a dude .. not a chick.
"i called back the next day and he wasnt havent it so i poured my heart out him"
Yeah, like that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ......... dont' fucking do that to a dude.
Ummmm, yeah .... you are indeed clingy .. emotionally clingy. And proof of that is above in those two quotes, for if he doesn't repsond to your emotional outpours to him, then you force it on him ...... that's pretty fucking smothering.
Any guy, no matter his sign ............ is going to bounce on you if you have an expectation that he is suppose to carry the baggage of your emotions for you. If you can't deal with the wieght, then find a female friend to vent this off to ... but, if you think your guy is going to sit there while you bombard him with the emotional issues of being female, then expect to be unpartnered by a male.
Perhaps, before you get serious with a guy, while your trying to find a way to deal with your heavy feelings .. you should be partnered with a female.
okay i get it in need to punctuate. Hahahahaha, and yes i do need to vent to my female friends. I definitely am not clingy though, or at least i try not to be. Im trying to hold back so many emotions, at least that is what ive been told i need to do. Also i plain old need to have some patience. Rome wasn't built in one night.
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Y'know, full stops after each sentence might go a long way in helping people understand your problem better 🙂 Capital letters at the beginning of each sentence would be nice too LOL!
Aries men are generally not the mushy-mushy type. The reason why he didn't respond to your texting is probably because he probably figured lovey-dovey texts are YOUR job and not his. He'd rather show his feelings for you IN-PERSON than via texts. That's why he shows his feelings for you via those hugs & kisses rather than soppy words on a cellphone. Yes, we know Pisces ladies enjoy those things but an Aries man will not be an Aries man if he did all those mushy stuff. Like all cardinal signs (eg Capricorns, Aries, Cancer) his actions speaks louder than his words.
Be honest:- won't Pisces ladies lose interest in a guy if he CONSTANTLY texts you and is forever at your beck & call? Doesn't his unavailability make you yearn for him more?