rufflestruffles
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Pisces man, confused?
If you've managed to be together for 2 years then you'd manage to get through this one as well.
Find a solution.
Find a solution.
Posted by SitusInversus27
If you've managed to be together for 2 years then you'd manage to get through this one as well.
Find a solution.
We were suppose to move out on our apartment because our lease is ending. But he said he already found a place for him and that we should just meet to move out. I don’t know what happened and i cant even do anything because im still inside the hotel
Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by SitusInversus27
If you've managed to be together for 2 years then you'd manage to get through this one as well.
Find a solution.
We were suppose to move out on our apartment because our lease is ending. But he said he already found a place for him and that we should just meet to move out. I don’t know what happened and i cant even do anything because im still inside the hotelclick to expand
Hate to say this but sounds like he found someone else.
A last resort I recommend is meeting him face to face and asking him directly what the issue is, might be something else but my sense says the former.
Pisces x Leo honestly usually goes well from my own experience so I don't understand what's gone wrong here.
Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by SitusInversus27
If you've managed to be together for 2 years then you'd manage to get through this one as well.
Find a solution.
We were suppose to move out on our apartment because our lease is ending. But he said he already found a place for him and that we should just meet to move out. I don’t know what happened and i cant even do anything because im still inside the hotel
Hate to say this but sounds like he found someone else.
A last resort I recommend is meeting him face to face and asking him directly what the issue is, might be something else but my sense says the former.
Pisces x Leo honestly usually goes well from my own experience so I don't understand what's gone wrong here.click to expand
As he told me. I dont have to worry about him having someone else. I want to meet him at home but im afraid he will just feel pressure and just shut down. He said he was just tired. Tired of himself. Tired of being in a relationship and because he is too lazy to do anything.
I dont know if its because i told him before that if he thinks he cant be sweet and romantic he should just let me go. (I was wrong and selfish here. I know that, its was something i said out of my emotions and because i was missing him so much)
I honestly just want us to fix the problem. We dont have any major problems. And we understand each other so well. I told him i dont want to give us up that easily. To me. This thing is something we can slowly fix, im not asking him to change anything. I was just asking for some quality time together. We accept both of our flaws and still love each other despite of everything.
Hey Ruffs, you've been complaining about him....for how long? One year, out of two together? Didn't you say last time that you found him talking to at least one other woman online? And that he claimed to have some porn-like fetish? Why are you still determined to cling onto this relationship?
He might feel burnt out and has fallen into some preservation mode indeed, but you are not helping him by nagging. I don't think he's as confused as you claim. He had a plan...waited for the lease to run out and found a different flat, perhaps much closer to his workplace. One strike, two advantages...no more stressful commuting, no more nagging! Pisces bliss...
How about looking for a new flat as well? New area, new neighbourhood, new possibilities? Let the Pisces go and make a fresh start. Look after yourself.
He might feel burnt out and has fallen into some preservation mode indeed, but you are not helping him by nagging. I don't think he's as confused as you claim. He had a plan...waited for the lease to run out and found a different flat, perhaps much closer to his workplace. One strike, two advantages...no more stressful commuting, no more nagging! Pisces bliss...
How about looking for a new flat as well? New area, new neighbourhood, new possibilities? Let the Pisces go and make a fresh start. Look after yourself.
Also, I found Pisces men to be clingy. He may want to be your friend after the breakup. Think twice, since it's on his terms, not yours!
I had to move house in secret to get rid of a Pisces ex who was knocking on my door almost on a daily basis, sometimes drunk (months after HE broke up with me!) and could never get rid of a second one...he became my best friend, eventually.
I had to move house in secret to get rid of a Pisces ex who was knocking on my door almost on a daily basis, sometimes drunk (months after HE broke up with me!) and could never get rid of a second one...he became my best friend, eventually.
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-he say he will try and he will do this best.
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And he also said that I should be happy about this. Of course Im not Im heartbroken. I dont want to just give up because we have a problem like this. Problems should be solved together.
He didnt reply to my message anymore, and i was thinking about giving him space for a while.
I know how he is, when he is pressured he shuts down, because there is so much going on in his mind, he cant deal with everything at the same time.
I know he still loves me but I really hurts to know that he just want to give us up.
What should i do? Will he swim away if I leave him alone? and how can i approach him without pressuring him? i just want him to know im still here for him. and i wont give this up easily. How long should i wait for him to come back?
Any advice?