Pisces man, dating, sex and stuff.

Hi fishies! Sharing my story on here, if anyone is interested in giving me their point of view it will greatly be appreciated.

I met this pisces man online. To be totally honest, I went on the website because I was/am kind of heart broken by a virgo rejection. Oh well, life is tough, so I thought I could do with a nice rebound. It's just my saggy nature to be honest I guess. Of course I didn't mention the rebound stuff to the pisces man, no need to go into that on a site like that I think. We started random chatting, just fun stuff, no emotional/relational stuff. Actually, I started our chat and he told me he loved the way I introduced myself and stuff, because he is fed up with all the women on there who lead the conversation to marriage/ loving for always/ endless horizons...yadayadayada.

To cut a long story short, we haven't met yet. He wanted to meet, but then he was away for business, then I was busy and then I didn't hear from him for a good week. So i just sent him a short text asking if he was alright. Now after that... things suddenly got all hot and heavy. In no time we ended up heaving very very dirty conversations, pics involved etc.. well you know, the whole shabang. I have been in a long relationship, so this is all rather new to me. Pisces man wants to meet up, was all over me (text wise) for 3 days... now gone silent again after his last text was that he can't wait to meet up...

No, you will wonder what exactly is it that I want or expect? Nothing really, as I have to be honest that this for me still feels like a rebound. But i'm a female, and it is in our nature that we like to be admired and loved I guess... I was just wondering if this is normal behavior for a pisces man.. the hot and heavy stuff all over, then silence for a day or 2, eagerly wanting to meet up yet like he is stopped in his tracks. And just also wondering what pisces men think of women that engage in all that dirty conversations I mentioned above. Would he consider me slutty or anything? Which I'm pretty sure I'm not, but hey, I can be dragged along with the right words lol. He probably just want to get in my panties, right? Is that a pisces thing to do? Unattached sex I mean?

I am a sag, so any honest answers are appreciated, even if they are an unwelcoming truth I am able to deal with them. I'd just like to get an outsiders pisces point of view.

thx for all comments so far. Makes me think. Will come back to it later. Really appreciate the quick responses!

I DIDN'T KNOW NUNS COULD DATE

Posted by djbuck1
I'm with Nemesis on this, but I'll offer my "guy perspective" as well.

Some male fish are very masculine and actually quite tough, but I think that we are all fundamentally insecure in the relationship department. I'm not going to go off on a tangent of the "whys."

Nemesis is correct. We shy off if we think we are heading into a situation that is fundamentally insecure. The "coming and going" is a classic male fish reaction to an intuitive sense that something is not right.

He could also be a user/gamer. I do not rule that out. I hate to admit it, but while you're going through fits of Sagg conscience about rebounding, you could end up being the one left sticky, heart-broken and used. There are some bad fish out there.

Yes, he wants the bed you. He's a male. But even if it's a self-imposed illusion, male fish usually like to think that there's more involved than a quick fuck. Anything _too_ casual feels like an invitation to bad karma.

You'd best be honest with him. He will sense if you are not. We'll sometimes risk an encounter with a potential rebounder IF we think she is being straight and the rules are clear.

Final point: do NOT eff around with a fish of either gender. I know the Scorps think they are the acme of vengeful thoughts/behavior, but an abused or insulted fish can be a very scary person.

Sounds like djbuck really knows what he's talking about here. The only thing I would venture to add is to be careful of online dating. Way way back in the day, I had an online relationship with a man. It was ideal. It was pure. It was ultimately an illusion. We met in person and the reality was far different than the fantasy we built up in our minds and spoon fed each other. It's so easy to be anything you want on an online forum. You won't know until you meet and get to know each other. Be careful and take things slow.

pisces men can be intoxicated with the sexual fantasy and be ruthless, like a shark intoxicated by the blood, but then they wake up and wonder what they're doing in that mess.
If it doesn't happen fast they probably get disgusted of it and it doesn't happen, that makes them even more ruthless.I know I can be.

Thanks all for your input. It does make me realize even more that I have to be careful what I'm doing and be sensible in the choices I make or not make. I just find it sometimes confusing I guess, what do I want, what do I not want. Wished I could be in people's heads sometimes.
@ James loool... I'm a disturbing nun..
@ hydorah I'm afraid I don't get your comment 'if it doesn't happen fast...", feel free to explain.

I believe you are going to have a hard time connecting to a Pisces. Pisces do not like bluntness even though we preach to the stars we do. Your going to get frustrated with his vagueness, hidden messages and off beat responses to personal questions. I may be wrong but Pisces is the sign of mystery. Usually Pisces guys are the most romantic so that is something to think about. I assure you he is eagerly waiting to have a good time, considering the messages you have sent to him have guaranteed him something ( Not saying it will happen). I think you should be cautious but also not throw all your eggs in one basket right away.

Posted by Europesaggy

@ hydorah I'm afraid I don't get your comment 'if it doesn't happen fast...", feel free to explain.

a pisces man can get excited fast, but he can also lose interest fast if there is nothing happening in reality

so pisces man did come back to me. And I followed the advice on here, trying to be not aloof, cool, stand-offish (which I can be, because I'm very wary of giving away my emotions in all honesty). As Nemesis said, it indeed worked as a mirror mirror on the wall..the tone in his messages changed, not leaving me wondering this time..
I still have my own problems to deal with, and my virgo-heartbreak to get over (I do doubt I will ever be able to forget Virgo totally, these men get under your skin like no other! ). But i'll let it go with the flow for the moment with Pisces man and enjoy the moment I guess, while trying to be more emotional
open, but still protecting my heart, which is definitely a balance that I have to work on in my life anyway.
Thanks so far fishies!