Pisces man wants to be friends? (Scorpio woman)

So I met this Pisces last year. We went on a couple of dates last year and in February/March of this year. However, he started ignoring me afterwards. Fast forward, he now just contacted me and told me he wants to be friends (just friends).

We both acknowledged we have no emotional connection but we had a lot of fun when we hung out. The thing is despite the fact that we have zero emotional connection, we have insane physical chemistry. Back when we would go on dates, we just couldn't keep away from one another. We were all over each other and would have steamy make out sessions that could have turned into sex if we weren't in public. When we were going on dates, he admitted multiple times he was insanely attracted to me and thinks I'm "just so damn hot" (his exact words).

To sum this up, we have a mental and a physical connection, but no emotional attraction.

I wanna be friends with him because he's cool but I'm not sure how we're going to make this work considering the fact we had acknowledged we're very attracted to one another? We have zero emotional connection though. How to make it work?

*We've never had sex

Can you handle being in a FWB situation?

If you can't then you probably wanna pass on being friends. I'm sure you have enough friends in your life already so one less friend probably won't make much of a difference.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
:/ Two water signs. No emotional connection? Does not compute.

Water signs have emotional connections. It's what we do. We have emotional connections with tea cups.

Are you sure you don't mean you aren't interested in a relationship with eachother or something? Even "just friends" have an emotional connection.

Me thinks "no emotional connection" is man speak for "just not into you" or something. Sorry. But I don't know the whole story.

I'm the one who honestly mentioned I didn't feel an emotional connection. Well, I feel as though I'm not emotionally attracted to him. It's very strange but before our first kiss, I felt some sort of emotional connection. However, I lost that connection when he kissed. Don't get me wrong, the kiss was amazing but somewhere along the line, I was no longer attracted to him emotionally.

I feel empty when I think about him. I don't hate him or like him especially. I just don't have any particular feeling.

Pisces men =

U guys should read her previous posts before anything else, so contradicting.....just saying

Posted by BaitedFish
U guys should read her previous posts before anything else, so contradicting.....just saying

You do realize I posted those a few weeks ago. Life goes by! Things happen.

A lot of things have happened since and to be honest, he's the last person I want to have a relationship with. After I posted whatever it is I posted, I had an a moment to think and realize I was just crushing on a fantasy I created in my head. It wasn't him I had a crush on, it was the man in the fantasy I kept dreaming of. I idealized him way too much and I wanted to believe in what I was idealizing.

The reality is very different from what I had "idealized". Trust me, I did a complete 180 afterwards. I no longer have romantic feelings for him, let alone want to be in a relationship with him. I found out a couple of things about him which led to me to this conclusion. The things I found out about him were enough to make me change my mind and make me lose interest fast.

I'm currently seeing another man so there's no way I'm going to be more than friends with this Pisces man. However, I acknowledge the fact that I still have a physical attraction towards him but that's about it. All those "crushing" feelings I had before are gone.

I hope for your sake that you know people can change their mind, lose interest. Just because I posted a couple of threads back when I was interested, it doesn't mean I'm stuck where I was 3 weeks ago. It's ridiculous.

Posted by LostinPhilly

Posted by BaitedFish
U guys should read her previous posts before anything else, so contradicting.....just saying

You do realize I posted those a few weeks ago. Life goes by! Things happen.

A lot of things have happened since and to be honest, he's the last person I want to have a relationship with. After I posted whatever it is I posted, I had an a moment to think and realize I was just crushing on a fantasy I created in my head. It wasn't him I had a crush on, it was the man in the fantasy I kept dreaming of. I idealized him way too much and I wanted to believe in what I was idealizing.

The reality is very different from what I had "idealized". Trust me, I did a complete 180 afterwards. I no longer have romantic feelings for him, let alone want to be in a relationship with him. I found out a couple of things about him which led to me to this conclusion. The things I found out about him were enough to make me change my mind and make me lose interest fast.

I'm currently seeing another man so there's no way I'm going to be more than friends with this Pisces man. However, I acknowledge the fact that I still have a physical attraction towards him but that's about it. All those "crushing" feelings I had before are gone.

I hope for your sake that you know people can change their mind, lose interest. Just because I posted a couple of threads back when I was interested, it doesn't mean I'm stuck where I was 3 weeks ago. It's ridiculous.

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Alright then, move on.I hope u won't come back with another trend asking if we think "The Pisces guy still has feelings for you ir if we think the Pisces guy wants you back"

Posted by BaitedFish

Alright then, move on.I hope u won't come back with another trend asking if we think "The Pisces guy still has feelings for you ir if we think the Pisces guy wants you back"

Agreed. This trend of topics is really tiring and also reminiscent of the few pisces board trolls we've had.

Better leave this story and his sorry ass behind. You're right.

I keep on posting the same story/questions over and over again because he keeps giving me useless crumbles (which don't matter anymore at this point). I agree, it's exhausting.

It's a waste of time. He's wasted enough of my time. I've wasted enough of your time guys.

Thanks 😉

Posted by Scenic

Posted by BaitedFish

Alright then, move on.I hope u won't come back with another trend asking if we think "The Pisces guy still has feelings for you ir if we think the Pisces guy wants you back"

Agreed. This trend of topics is really tiring and also reminiscent of the few pisces board trolls we've had.

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People need to learn