Pisces men

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Tanya89
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Why pisces men r so insensitive—i mean if they r in problem or mentally disturbed......they dnt want t share it—?they hide in their own shell.....simply ignore u—?no callng no text?why—?can plz somebody explain me their pscyopath behaviour?y they r sooo moody—??they just disappears n after 3 4 months they come back as nothing happens—??plz explain me?anybody? I m fedup.
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LostPisces
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Posted by Tanya89
Why pisces men r so insensitive—i mean if they r in problem or mentally disturbed......they dnt want t share it—?they hide in their own shell.....simply ignore u—?no callng no text?why—?can plz somebody explain me their pscyopath behaviour?y they r sooo moody—??they just disappears n after 3 4 months they come back as nothing happens—??plz explain me?anybody? I m fedup.
So many questions per second, pisces will run from that.
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EvatheDiva Piscean
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MarchPisc3s said it all. We're not insensitive. We just do not like D-R-A-M-A! We "Can't take the noise" (Kenny Chesney; listen to his song to understand us). We'd rather "swim away" from our problems than face them. Why? Because we can turn black and blue trying to explain to you what we are going thru, feeling, or our past, and you won't understand us! It's like this: It's hard for us to ask for a favor you'll disappoint us by saying, "No, I can't. I don't get paid until Friday, I cannot help you until Saturday, and even, then call me, because I may have plans, etc., etc. etc." We rather do it ourselves or NOT ask you at all! We've been disappointed in the past and learned from it. Not all of us have psychopathic behaviors, but some, as I've learned, do. If you hurt us, then is sooo easy to ignore you by not texting, calling, or even thinking of you. Moody? Well, it depends on the reasons why we are moody. If with age we do change to not being so "moody" we learn; if not, then we will continue to be "moody".

If you really care about him, hang in there, wait for him to swim back to you. 🤗 cyber hug!'

Love,

Eva
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MarchPisc3s said it all. We're not insensitive. We just do not like D-R-A-U-M-A! We "Can't take the noise" (Kenny Chesney; listen to his song to understand us). We'd rather "swim away" than face our problems. Why? Because we can turn black and blue trying to explain to you what we are going thru, feeling, or our past, and you won't understand us! It's like this: It's hard for us to ask for a favor you'll disappoint us by saying, "No, I can't. I don't get paid until Friday, I cannot help you until Saturday, and even, then call me, because I may have plans, etc., etc. etc." We rather do it ourselves or NOT ask you at all! We've been disappointed in the past and learned from it. Not all of us have psychopathic behaviors, but some, as I've learned, are. If you hurt us, then is sooo easy to ignore you by not texting, calling, or even thinking of you. Moody? Well, it depends on the reasons why we are moody. If with age we do change to not being so "moody" we learn; if not, then we will continue to be "moody".

If you really care about him, hang in there, wait for him to swim back to you. 🤗 cyber hug!'

Love,

Eva

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EvatheDiva Piscean
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Posted by EvatheDiva
MarchPisc3s said it all. We're not insensitive. We just do not like D-R-A-U-M-A! We "Can't take the noise" (Kenny Chesney; listen to his song to understand us). We'd rather "swim away" than face our problems. Why? Because we can turn black and blue trying to explain to you what we are going thru, feeling, or our past, and you won't understand us! It's like this: It's hard for us to ask for a favor you'll disappoint us by saying, "No, I can't. I don't get paid until Friday, I cannot help you until Saturday, and even, then call me, because I may have plans, etc., etc. etc." We rather do it ourselves or NOT ask you at all! We've been disappointed in the past and learned from it. Not all of us have psychopathic behaviors, but some, as I've learned, do. If you hurt us, then is sooo easy to ignore you by not texting, calling, or even thinking of you. Moody? Well, it depends on the reasons why we are moody. If with age we do change to not being so "moody" we learn; if not, then we will continue to be "moody".

If you really care about him, hang in there, wait for him to swim back to you. 🤗 cyber hug!'

Love,

Eva

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EvatheDiva Piscean
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Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by EvatheDiva
MarchPisc3s said it all. We're not insensitive. We just do not like D-R-A-U-M-A! We "Can't take the noise" (Kenny Chesney; listen to his song to understand us). We'd rather "swim away" than face our problems. Why? Because we can turn black and blue trying to explain to you what we are going thru, feeling, or our past, and you won't understand us! It's like this: It's hard for us to ask for a favor you'll disappoint us by saying, "No, I can't. I don't get paid until Friday, I cannot help you until Saturday, and even, then call me, because I may have plans, etc., etc. etc." We rather do it ourselves or NOT ask you at all! We've been disappointed in the past and learned from it. Not all of us have psychopathic behaviors, but some, as I've learned, do. If you hurt us, then is sooo easy to ignore you by not texting, calling, or even thinking of you. Moody? Well, it depends on the reasons why we are moody. If with age we do change from being too "moody" we've learned; if not, then we will continue to be "moody".

If you really care about him, hang in there, wait for him to swim back to you. 🤗 cyber hug!'

Love,

Eva

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You must understand: a pisces man's mind works a hundred times faster than normal people
you think they re being insensitive, but the time you take to realize he's into you he has already made a dozen scenarios in his mind and has felt disappointed a dozen time
If you spend one day not contacting him, it will feel like a week to him, so they'll go cold to avoid being hurt.
It's like travelling in a spaceship and going in cryostatic sleep. Everybody else is working too slow.
You must keep steady and regular contact with them and yeah, pursue them a bit.
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Posted by EvatheDiva
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Posted by EvatheDiva
MarchPisc3s said it all. We're not insensitive. We just do not like D-R-A-M-A! We "Can't take the noise" (Kenny Chesney; listen to his song to understand us). We'd rather "swim away" than face our problems. Why? Because we can turn black and blue trying to explain to you what we are going thru, feeling, or our past, and you won't understand us! It's like this: It's hard for us to ask for a favor you'll disappoint us by saying, "No, I can't. I don't get paid until Friday, I cannot help you until Saturday, and even, then call me, because I may have plans, etc., etc. etc." We rather do it ourselves or NOT ask you at all! We've been disappointed in the past and learned from it. Not all of us have psychopathic behaviors, but some, as I've learned, do. If you hurt us, then is sooo easy to ignore you by not texting, calling, or even thinking of you. Moody? Well, it depends on the reasons why we are moody. If with age we do change from being too "moody" we've learned; if not, then we will continue to be "moody".

If you really care about him, hang in there, wait for him to swim back to you. 🤗 cyber hug!'

Love,

Eva

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P-Angel
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Posted by hydorah

.... he has already made a dozen scenarios in his mind ....




This pretty much sums up Pisces in our entirety ... we live vicariously through probably everything. We don't actually have to literally experience it, like non-Pisces ... our envisioning of a situation is so real and authentic to us, that we are satisfied in living through the vision of it, rather than actuality.

We can take the other person and run through scenarios and situations, to live it, just by judging you, watching you, paying attention to your likes and dislikes, your mannerisms, the way you walk, talk, eat ...... we don't usually actually have to experience you on your level of reality.

So, if you think we like you, and/or dating you .... we've already been through it all, you're nothing new now .. even if you just said hello to us.


to you, it seems insensitive because you're just now beginning to experience being with us ... while we've been experiencing you all along.


AND this is a very natural state of being for us. If left to our own (which we demand for this very reason) .... we live our life in our minds. And we fully experience sensations. To you, a dream doesn't feel anything. Whereas, with us .. we feel the REAL sensations as an experience with you is envisioned.


Hydorah's quote above is the literal truth, exactly as we live ...... "he has already made a dozen scenarios in his mind"

His depth of mind is so extreme, that it is actually the opposite of insensitive ...... it just looks this way to you because you're dwelling on his surface and expecting him to swim to shallow waters ... which he will resist at all costs.
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Posted by Tanya89
I m taurus.......currently hes nt happy with his career......he says dat hes dead mentally n nt happy bla bla........i m tryng t give him space.......but as a taurus i feel insecure........i m tryng everything by giving him space nt act pushy ......but hes sooo complicated

He's not complicated ... you're just ignorant.

Several people have told you what's up .. but, your mind can't seem to rationalize.

Please, continue in your suffering, rather than actually listening when you're being told what's up with Pisces ... because you're a Taurus, as you've pointed out as to the excuse why you're insecure.
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BreezyOne
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SOmetimes I don't text first or often because I set my own boundaries (subconsciously and without letting you know) out of respect and the desire to not seem clingy. If you want him to text back and you two are talking, tell him. Trust me, he will really appreciate your honesty. Maybe he doesn't know HOW to talk to you. You gotta communicate your needs to him.

Secondly, try to LEARN how he is vs. understand it. Don't think about WHY he does things, just know that he does them.
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Posted by hydorah
You must understand: a pisces man's mind works a hundred times faster than normal people
you think they re being insensitive, but the time you take to realize he's into you he has already made a dozen scenarios in his mind and has felt disappointed a dozen time
If you spend one day not contacting him, it will feel like a week to him, so they'll go cold to avoid being hurt.
It's like travelling in a spaceship and going in cryostatic sleep. Everybody else is working too slow.
You must keep steady and regular contact with them and yeah, pursue them a bit.
Interesting you say this because I knew a Pisces guy once. He was very fast in the beginning, then slowed down once we got in to regular flirting. Then slowed down more once I kissed him first time.
The closer I got to him, the less he contacted me. So..as I really liked him, I pursued him. You said 'Spend one day not contacting him, it will feel like a week to him, so they'll go cold to avoid being hurt.' SO..how come they can not cot act us for days, but that's okay? ?
And in terms of steady regular contact, I did that but ended up feeling like I was talking to myself! ¯¯
So many unanswered text messages.
I just didn't get it.
ALSO..He used to tell me 'I take my time..' I found this confusing as he was very fast in the beginning. .and I was fast with him. It took me a year and a half to finally let my guard down as I didn't trust him to start with.
But once things became regular between us he started going quiet and then finally ice cold. This took a year to happen eg him going ice cold.
I finally asked him why he has gone from being 'Mr hot & passionate' last year to 'Mr ice cold' this year. He replied 'I have trust issues. I don't trust anyone'
Deep Sigh!!
This was a while back but I still remember. So confusing and so frustrating too! ••