Posted by KaptainKhaos+1
It's true.
A while back a user made a post about us and abusive relationships. I chalk it up to some pisces women being dependant on their s/o in some way. A lot of ignorant people might think "oh she must like it" or "she's stupid to stay in that situation" but don't think about the other reasons a person might stay. Alot of the time is financial dependency or emotional. I don't think alot of people take emotional dependency seriously. They might chalk it up to stupidity, but it is a very real reason that someone, especially a pisces, might stay in an abusive relationship.
Take Bae a.k.a Rihanna for instance. She has everything she could ever need yet still went back to that piece of dog shit chris brown. So what explanation could there be for her going back when she has the means to leave? Emotions. She loved him so deeply that the thought of being away from him was worse than being beaten or losing her career.
Its unfortunate sometimes, but when a pisces is in love we love hard. No matter what. Sometimes we love so hard that we can't see the wrong in the situation
Posted by MsFiskTruth!!
Those types have boundaries issues. Meaning, they have none. So the other party takes advantage.
Posted by KaptainKhaosAgreed. Now the real question is, what is up with them and the guys they choose? I know a lot of these guys already show in some form that they're bad news to begin with. I know most women are attracted to bad boys but I'm not understanding how they're able to ignore the warning signs and put themselves at risk. I personally wouldn't do that and I honestly think there is a lack of respect for ones self that plays a huge part. Btw, Rihanna was one of the women I was pertaining to in my statement.
It's true.
A while back a user made a post about us and abusive relationships. I chalk it up to some pisces women being dependant on their s/o in some way. A lot of ignorant people might think "oh she must like it" or "she's stupid to stay in that situation" but don't think about the other reasons a person might stay. Alot of the time is financial dependency or emotional. I don't think alot of people take emotional dependency seriously. They might chalk it up to stupidity, but it is a very real reason that someone, especially a pisces, might stay in an abusive relationship.
Take Bae a.k.a Rihanna for instance. She has everything she could ever need yet still went back to that piece of dog shit chris brown. So what explanation could there be for her going back when she has the means to leave? Emotions. She loved him so deeply that the thought of being away from him was worse than being beaten or losing her career.
Its unfortunate sometimes, but when a pisces is in love we love hard. No matter what. Sometimes we love so hard that we can't see the wrong in the situation.
Posted by MsFiskThe men they tend to choose already seem to be bad news to begin with.
Those types have boundaries issues. Meaning, they have none. So the other party takes advantage.
Posted by MsFiskJust as I thought. They tend to be really naive when it comes to choosing guys. It's like they don't really look for important qualities and ignore red flags bc they're so smitten by the looks and charm.
Men who tend to be abusive seems to know their targets, like a vulture circling the sky.
You see some on the Pisces women here swooning over masculine, dominating men. And that's what these guys exude. Except these types of guys will isolate her, control her and basically put her under his thumb until she confuses control for "love."
I'm going to share something a little more personal than I'm usually willing to say, so I might hide this later. My Pisces aunt was in this type of relationship. They lived a few hours away from her family but they never got to see her much even during holidays. She was isolated from her family and friends and basically made to feel that her husband is the only thing she has. She became clinically depressed, which was never treated.
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