Pisces women: the other woman (Page 2)

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Undine
Bella_Fish....your contact with the "other lady" offers the most plausible explanation of why the Pisces attempted to contact the OP. She probably wanted to tell her the truth....which is most likely quite different from the guy's story.

But Aqua panicked. Some women just don't want to know...want to keep their bubble intact for as long as possible.

Cue the scene frim Oblivion

"I don't want to know! I'm staying here. I'm going to Titan."

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I would be curious to know, and go to extreme lengths to find out, if my intuition says that something is not how it appears to be. Most humans would be curious, I think.

Unlike those damn manipulated clones among us 😛 !

Posted by tiziani

Posted by bella_fish

Posted by Undine
Bella_Fish....most people would not do that.

You were in the same position before...dating a taken man. Maybe is time to change your dating site to something more serious? The sites that don't charge fees for women are usually hook up sites.

I have not been on a dating site for over a year for that reason. The first experience with Aries #1 left me pretty jaded.

I actually am not even looking. I have really lost faith that their are good men out there. I have enough with my own personal goals and wonderful circle of friends. My career is really on a great track. I am going by old-fashioned chance meeting. I am totally comfortable being single. Of course I would love to meet someone who rocks my world but I am not very optimistic sad to say. 😢 I stay plenty busy with my family and career. My kids are my world.

Whether it was wrong or right to contact the other lady I met was a super sweet and awesome girl. Her BF is an idiot!! I am glad I found out before investing time with some selfish jerk.

What just because the mechanic turned out to be married? Cmon man. First if all we were just teasing. Second of all plenty of non married mechanics out there in the sea. It's best to stay open.

(Ignoring the fact this is hypocrisy from me as I'm not open to a relationship myself)

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Nothing to do with the mechanic. I have really needed to retreat inward after Aries #1. I guess I am still holding that badge of hurt and disappointment. It is what I do...I retreat. I am telling you in the past I have met some literally crazy men (clinically dx w/ bipolar, borderline personslity, narccistic) I have not always picked the best men so it makes me gun shy. Maybe it is all that weed these guys smoke...who knows. You know weed is legal in Colorado now. I swear it is hard to meet someone who does not smoke weed. Over use of booze and drugs are a deal breaker for me. I have two teenage awesome kids to raise....we don't need that kind of crazy in our life. Thankfully I am super protective of them and they only met the narccistic pisces bf when they were little. I don'

I don't bring someone in my kids life unless it is serious. They only met one bf the narcissistic pisces ex bf. They were little. They were about to meet Aries before I found out about the other gf.

Btw - if you smoke MJ I don't mean to offend. It is just not part of my lifestyle or something I want to be around.

A friend once told me you keep working on yourself and you will attract the right person. So I have been focused on getting my life in order making things happen. It is kind of scary because the more in order my life becomes the less desire or need to meet someone.y It is just not a priority. My friend described it like being at sea and finally meeting someone at sea level or at your level.

So I sm going to keep doing the work. 😄

I'm just answering the OP's question and skipped about 5 pages of info. So forgive if something similar has already been said. I wouldn't involve myself with another woman's man. I did it one time and this chick basically shoved her guy in my lap. He was a Scorpio and she was a Leo. I was the friend of HIS friend. I met her through his friend and she didn't hang out with me really. He started hanging out with me and she kept telling him to. He would beg her to go places with him and she would emphatically tell him no and tell him to ask me. She would even tell him to just go over to my house to chit chat even if we didn't go anywhere. Until this day I can't figure out what made that chick do that shit. It was weird and I was in a really really bad place in life. BTW, this was over 10 years ago...more like 13 years ago so any remarks about it won't phase me. lol

The only insight that I finally got on the situation is that she eventually said that he was always in a better mood and easier to deal with after spending time with me. He was with me BEGGING...that's why. He was pouring out his heart and begging and just...this intense, emotional wreck of a man. He'd accidentally killed the love of his life by trying to chase her down in his car. This is when laws on stuff like that were looser. They were broken up and she'd gone back for whatever reason, then decided that she didn't want to get back together after all. She hoped in her car to leave and he pursued her in his car...it was raining, she had a fatal accident. No, I did not make this story up. Anyways, he kept telling me how much I reminded him of her and he was an EMO WRECK. We both were. I never slept with him by the way, but I did mess around with him and the emo cheating was...off the meter. Sometimes we would just kiss each other while crying. Yeah, it was intense.

But outside of that experience...nope, I've never even wanted another woman's man. A taken man is a turn off.

@MsTeeq1974:

To some, a selfless psychiatric nurse.

To others, the evil "other woman".

You can't make everybody happy!


@Bella_Fish.

You are doing well, girl. Remind me of Starlover, a fine Scorpio woman who is at a similar stage in her life (and has some Aries skeletons in the garden too, lol). She's here on dxp.

Awww thanks Undine!! I will have to look for Starlover.

This post made me think about women who pit each other against each other. They judge each other, blame each other, and look down on another. I have really tried to change my attitude in general. I try to come from a place of more kindness and compassion and understanding toward others. Trust me not always easy to do. My challenge is my ex-husband wife. She has not always been the greatest with my kids however that does not minimize what she does do when I am not around. I try to look at things subjectively, at least I try. Not easy when my mama bear instinct comes out.

So what I am trying to say is everyone or at least most of us on earth are doing the best we can with what we got. We don't know what people's past were like that brought them up to this point in life. We are only accountable to ourselves and God (or any spiritual thing we believe in) for any harm we cause to others and ourselves. Mistakes are part of the journey.

Even the person who was cheated on has some accountability. She / he chose that partner. Were there signs that this person had addiction to sex or unstability? The relationship does not fall apart one day because of an affair. I guarantee the relationship was on the brink of collapse before the affair begun. A strong marriage with a strong foundation does not have these loop holes.

Life is hard and relationships are even harder. We are all human and make mistskes.

People don't belong to us they belong to themselves. Marriage / partnership is two halves working on the same goals in relations with keys of respect and love.

My ex - aries is now married to a younger filapino woman and her young child. Even as much as my heart aches I am happy he has given them an opportunity for a better life in the USA. What he did to me and the other ex gf is part of his dharma and is none of my business.

Anyway now I am thinking out loud too much. lol

You may agree or disagree with me ....but plain fact we are all human and no one can dispute that. We do the best we can and sometimes it's not right.

Ms Teeq, you are fabulous. 😄

I like the mantra tiziani!!

So strange pisces are known to have addictive tendancies. I could careless about weed and I rarely drink. Fortunately some people from Colorado are health conscience and focus more on other plants like organic vegetables.

Posted by sw33tarts
I've read that pisces women particularly enjoy married (or taken) men. And I have known a couple of them to have zero hangups with inserting themselves between couples, like man stealers. I wonder if any pisces females could shed light on this for me.

I've known some pisces women and pisces men who have knowingly got involved with people who were married and or in a relationship.
As someone who would never do that myself ( as a pisces woman mind you) I've asked my piscean friends / associates what made them feel like it was okay.

The common answer is that the pisces who involve themselves were naive / gullible and actually had believed that their romantic interest who weren't single were being either abused by their partner in some way , or cheated on . These people romantic interest also often told these pisceans that they were about to break up or at least separate from their current partner because of all of these things. Pisces tend to put their crushes on a pedestal and only see the good in them initially. They literally believed that these people were being honest with them or at least grew to believe that they were being honest and then subsequently deceived them selves just so that they could feel okay about having a romantic relationship with someone who is not single. Pisceans are very good at lying to themselves especially when it comes to justifying keeping certain relationships that are actually harmful to them but yet are so desperate to keep because of "love".