Should I just move on?

Ok, so... I have been "dating" this virgo for over a year now. When we first got together, I was coming from a break up with my ex and was all about being single. I told him "relationships are for the birds" and that I just wanted to have fun and "do me". So began our "relationship". Now, a year later, I'm not that same person. I have had time to deal with the ex and get over it, and am now ready to settle down or just be consistent with someone. It would be great if it were the virgo, because I like him, however, our whole "relationship" has been weird. He let me know early on he had a girl and they were off and on a lot. At the beginning, this was fine because I was doing me, but as time moved on, I began to get jealous and felt like the rebound chic. He comes in and out of my life as he pleases (off and on with girlfriend) and I do not like that. But do I have a right to say something since we are not officially together? Is it even worth the hassle? Right now, he is out of my life. We have not seen each other since December 30th. We have texted a few times, but nothing substantial. Then had the audacity to ask me for a favor yesterday, after ignoring me for the last month! I am very irritated with the whole situation. My friends are all on my back doing what girlfriends do, telling me I'm too good for him, and he doesn't treat me right, and I need to curse him out badly in the worst way so he understands his ways. But me being the person I am, I don't want to argue, I don't like confrontation, I am not that angry chic that yells at a guy for every little thing he does that I don't like. I tend to just talk about it in the most cool way and hope that works.
Since we are currently not communicating, should I just let him drift away? I feel like he will surface again like always, but how do I respond to that? What happens when I see him in person? Do I just ignore and continue on with my day? Or do I act like it's ok, like I am over it? (I don't hold grudges well, I will be over this in a month or so) Or do I bring it up and try to talk to him about it? And if so, how do I talk to him about it without blowing my top.

I am a pisces

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Shagg him as much as you can!!! & be a man about it 🙂 Have a cup o cement

I find it inaccurate, ironic, and semi-delusional (trifecta) that you are pissed for feeling like the rebound girl when it's pretty clear that you used him as the rebound guy.