I'm a Virgo... how do I romance a Pisces?

I feel like such a girl. I'm probably just being needy. In a 5yr relationship with a Pisces. I want to spice things up. Pisces need stimulation? Am I too boring for a Pisces? What can I do?

Do you feel like you are losing her?

It's not that a Virgo is too boring for a Pisces ..... it's that they're too self centered for a Pisces.

Example: You wanting to spice things up is for you. If it was for her, if you wanted to keep things exciting and stimulating for her, then you would have been doing all along.

You never noticed that you weren't so fun, did you?

NOPE, not until it effected you.

And if you attempt to improve your love life with her under the pretense that you want to spice things up ..... red flags are going to go off for her, because she's going to realize the same thing I've stated here.

that you are doing this for you, because Virgos don't act on the benefit of others. Even when they are being of service to others, they only do it according to what they believe is necessary, and not what the other actually needs of them.

Posted by thesaratoyourtegan

Pisces need stimulation?

Pisces don't require stimulation to feel wanted.

So, you think your relationship is dwindling, apparently ... and your only thought is sexual?

Well, there's your real problem, should you choose to consider another person, besides your wants.

Here's evidence:

After 5 years of being in a relationship .. you have to ask other people. That means you don't know.

that means that after 5 years, you have no clue what she wants

that means you're only paying attention to yourself, and your wants

this is a typical situation for the Virgo/Pisces match ... although there are plenty of women from other signs stating as much on the Virgo board.

Posted by SuperMercurial
Take her some place nice. Do something new. Dress to the nines and get a bunch of other bitches interested in you but ignore them.

Translation: use manipulation

Nope, it's manipulation at the point of seed thought

Posted by SuperMercurial

....... get a bunch of other bitches interested in you but ignore them.

You're a manipulator.

Let me guess ... you're a Virgo

If you do things for others because the core intention is to make YOU feel better, it's self-centered.

This guy is just insecure about his relationship, and he wants to save it. Yes, for his own benefit, bravo.

My advice is, focus on yourself for a moment, so you can be able to GIVE again - from a genuine place. You're losing yourself in her, and that way you will lose her.

Never romanced a Pisces chick, Pisces guy likes to be touched, they are very affectionate. They like to feel things, and they love comfortable silence. They want to communicate just with your presence during alone time.

The Pisces guy I'm with reacted to love songs.

Also be her biggest supporter for things she does. She wants to know you believe she is the best

Posted by Poppyseeds
Also be her biggest supporter for things she does. She wants to know you believe she is the best

Yes, there's a chance she seeks stability in you. And by being needy, you're switching the roles - and she can't / doesn't want you to lean on her. Or be your mommy, like some people call it.

This is probably a common thing for Pisces and, although I'm going to receive hate for this, a women's thing too.

Posted by SuperMercurial
Take her some place nice. Do something new. Dress to the nines and get a bunch of other bitches interested in you but ignore them.

This wouldn't appeal to me.

Better way to connect would be to plan something simple where there are no outside distractions. Make the date about her, not about YOU showing off.

Simple things try buying gifts lol

Im a pisces female. All a pisces woman needs is affection alot of attention and cuddles, good (freaky) sex haha. And be spontaneous!!! I literally enjoy doing any little random thing doesnt have to be anything spectacular . Incase you hadnt noticed were not materialistic what so ever!

I know virgo men (correct me if im wrong) arent very spontaneous at all and thats one thing i find very boring anout them and not my cup of tea. Be spontaneous do something fun out the blue