Pisces guys are cooler than Pisces girls

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by SassyKiwi on Monday, November 13, 2023 and has 15 replies.

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@SassyKiwi
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My husband has these family friends who he has known since he was young. They have a son (Cancer) same as my husband’s age and they’ve been good friends. But ever since he married this Pisces girl, my husband’s cousins and family friends don’t like her. The Pisces girl keeps the Cancer away from all his childhood friends and is very possessive of him. After my husband and I got married, she and I naturally met at a mutual friend’s party since our husbands would talk.

The Pisces and I would exchange friendly texts here and there, we’d invite their entire family to our parties and she invited us to her baby shower. After she had her baby at the height of the pandemic, I’d occasionally check in on how she was doing. She invited us to her son’s birthday. Last we saw them was at my baby shower end of last year. After I had my baby, she hasn’t followed up with me once. I saw on Facebook how she newly got heavily involved with this older crowd of women who’ve always rubbed me as too cliquish for their ages.

The other day we went to a wedding and encountered the Cancer’s parents. They’re super nice people, both the mom and dad are always sweet to me. Whenever they see us they always try to invite us over. The mom was like “you guys should come over to this event on December x, I’ll tell Pisces to text you.” I was thinking uh yeah she won’t be texting me. My husband got a little excited cause he really likes hanging out with the Cancer when he gets the chance but his Pisces wife controls who/when he can hang out with. My husband was like we should invite them to our upcoming party. I was like why would we invite them if Pisces doesn’t want to extend a formal invitation on whatever event they’re hosting that day (she never texted me like I predicted).

I could care less about the Pisces girl, I just feel a little bad for my husband because he’s like a kid who just wants to hang out with his childhood Cancer friend again. I see pics of the Cancer hanging out with all these much older husbands of the Pisces’s new friends and don’t really pity him cause he’s clearly ok with his wife dictating who he’s allowed to interact with. I’ve met other Pisces women before. While I think they can be very pretty, something always ends up off about them. Pisces guys are definitely cooler and seem more mentally stable imo.

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odd usually i've noticed the women tend to attract controlling types or men who refuse to post pics of them online. abusers, cheaters, 'single dads,' balding men who think they have 4 more options, men who refuse to let them attend their daughter's wedding etc.

but otherwise they're alright.

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Posted by BadderBunny

Posted by virgoOPPP
odd usually i've noticed the women tend to attract controlling types or men who refuse to post pics of them online. abusers, cheaters, 'single dads,' balding men who think they have 4 more options, men who refuse to let them attend their daughter's wedding etc.

but otherwise they're alright.

Girl don't you come in here with this balance. There wasn't even a question in her post, this is just a vent thread for those who dislike Pisces women. Let them have it. It will feel cathartic when they are done.

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i like the ladyneptune types most of all 🔥🔥

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@RollergirlOrc
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Pisces women don't extend themselves to the same extent that pisces men do. In a way, they both have different quests. So the pieces male quest is to reach out and be a "better man" or how he sees serving society whereas.. I not sure what pisces women ultimately want to do. Maybe they are just more behind the scenes.

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@virgoOPPP
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there was a girl here (pisces) on this site who idk but I think some virgo guy she was dating/making out with? or whatever stole her jacket like this dude giving off homeless vibes and she kicked him out of her car 🤣🤣

this story still one of the funniest things i ever read online next to almost every story of a guy on reddit asking for an open marriage that backfires on them. just brilliant 🏌️🏌️🤸🤸

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@LuckyLibra7
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I find Pisces women to be bossy.. hard workers though. I do agree the men are a bit more easy-going.

My mother and step-dad are both Pisces suns & Mars. Completely night & day behavior.

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@DopeFly
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I don't see cool in either

Both of them have the wrong meaning and oppositional devotion.

It's because they're dumb. I wouldn't waste my time.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Cool means aloof, unfriendly, uninterested and cold. Ironically, that is what you complained about. She was too cool for you!

For the above reasons, I don’t consider myself or other Pisces women “cool”. We are better than that, even with Aqua placements.

As for the feminine, emotional Pisces men, cool is the last thing that comes to mind. They are sweethearts! ❤️

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Also, stop trying to influence your husband’s relationship with his friend (while projecting your controlling intentions onto some other couple you barely know)!

Do “boys nights out”, or “boys attending games on their own” don’t exist where you are? Let them do their thing, and so should you! Not with the Pisces, but with your own friends. Men and women are not joined at the hip with their partners. Also, the spouses of your partner’s friends are not necessarily your friends. Your gossip about them is not going to change that!

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@cornmaizeshark
9 Years

All Pisces are messy. That said, the women wear it better. Pisces men are pretty niche. Pisces women have more universal appeal.

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@Walk_on_by
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Posted by BadderBunny

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by BadderBunny

Posted by virgoOPPP
odd usually i've noticed the women tend to attract controlling types or men who refuse to post pics of them online. abusers, cheaters, 'single dads,' balding men who think they have 4 more options, men who refuse to let them attend their daughter's wedding etc.
but otherwise they're alright.

Girl don't you come in here with this balance. There wasn't even a question in her post, this is just a vent thread for those who dislike Pisces women. Let them have it. It will feel cathartic when they are done.

i like the ladyneptune types most of all 🔥🔥
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Yeah she has a good right hook lol. She gets hit and she hits harder.

You have your upstream Pisces and your downstream pisces, this goes for both male and female Pisces. Most of the Pisces I know are the upstream types. Strong and successful, yet still incredibly empathetic and kind to others. In fact most of the people I interact with in real life are this way regardless of sign, because thats who I choose to surround myself with.

Then you have the downstream type. Self absorbed. Alcohol or substance use. Insecure and controlling. Emotionally immature. I rarely meet those type because I don't in general have these type of people in my stratosphere.

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Fish swim upstream to have sex and then die.