The randomness is killing me

Goodness sakes, where do I start. Me and my ex pisces went on one of those talking breaks again, where he does what he wants and I do what I do, and so on. I still have feelings for him, but I'm not quite sure how he feels about me. 3 weeks ago, I was somewhere with my friends, he happened to be there, and he was standing from afar, posted on a wall just staring at me until I left. It made me feel so awkward because I knew he was staring at me but I did not know why. And he actually stood there for 15+ minutes and was just watching me. Not in a psycho way though LOL. His eyes wandered off sometimes. But to the point...

Last week, I was standing by myself, I don't know what I was doing. Then someone comes behind me and puts their hands over my eyes and I'm like "what the heck is going on" and he kisses me. He lets go and I see him. So we engage in a conversation and BOOM, he asks me "do you still have feelings for me?" and I said "it doesnt matter" he said "it does. I know you still do, and you know I still have feelings for you." and I did not know what to say. And here he is all of a sudden telling me how he feels about me. I do not know how to take this because they fact that we havent talked in about a month and he does this frequently leaves me confused. I do not know what he is trying to do, manipulate me or get me to understand his feelings. Is it of Pisces character to be random because he does this so much. He is a Pisces/Aries, but acts like a Pisces.

It's not unusual to still care for people even if your not together.

In his mind, you are still very much involved. We fishes can't let relationships go until we have absolutely no feeling left for someone, and that can take years. Your responses to him make you seem disinterested, and this is confusing him because his intuition about your true feelings is telling him completely the opposite. Open up, girl! Tell him how you feel, because you could be wasting valuable time. A Pisces/Scorpio relationship, when both people genuinely care for each other and can/do express it, can be everlasting. 😉 Good luck!

Oh yeah,just to clear up,that was a guess too,so no you don't gotta tell me duh,beautifulscorpion,he might be picking up on your nervous&ackward feelings too,so honestly theres nothing to hide really.You'll just have to admit it,whats the worst that will happen.He's still a friend isn't he?

>>You'll just have to admit it,whats the worst that will happen.He's still a friend isn't he?

No I do not have to and I will not admit it until I know his feelings are legit and he admits it. I feel that if I do he will take advantage, then if he doesn't i keep quiet until I get over it. He is not a friend in my book! Maybe he thinks I'm a friend. But I can't be his friend, I still have feelings for him. We do not talk like friends... he tries but it doesn't happen.

But you said he did admit his feelings. ?? It seems he's put himself out there, which is a really difficult thing to do. If you keep up with the disinterest, he will just swim away. He'll still feel the same way, but he'll suffer in silence. Just giving you my .02 from a Pisces POV. Nothing hurts worse than rejection, and nothing makes us give up faster. If you need him to prove it to you, I understand that, but you should let him know. No-one can pass a test if they don't even know they're taking one in the first place.