Trying to get along with this Pisces Girl

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Okay ... I have a friend or someone who I want to be friends with but we aren't getting along well. You see, I am Libra. I generally like everyone to get along, to make group decisions, everything out in the open, and have everyone happy, happy. And once a plan is made ... stick to it.

She seems to do everything in an underhanded fashion. She always wants to dominate everything and get everyone to change the agreed upon plan, and just generally takes over. Me no likey.

For example: tonight is the first Thursday night I have had off in almost two months. I was to meet my friend at a certain place. This was agreed upon over a month ago. Aquagirl told me to invite Piscesgirl and other Libragirl. So I did. Now Piscesgirl has invited umpteen people and wants us to all change our plans at the last minute to accommodate her.

Perhaps I am overthinking this ... but why couldn't she just go with the plan? We always seem to clash and she always tries to change everything and take over. What is going on?
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Well she invited about 11 girls. (I am not kidding!)

They wanted to go to this pub place ... so Aqua and Libra and I went a long. Of course it was dead ... which when Piscesgirl told me where they wanted to go, I told her it would be. So they ended up turning to me and asking where we should go. I took them back to the original plan and all of us had a wonderful time. It was exactly what they were hoping for.

I am not really sure why she felt the need to invite 11 girls along, but the beat goes on. I went out and had a fabulous time so I guess that is all that matters in the end.

I just hope there aren't more of these power struggles in the future. Unfortunately, I have a feeling there will be.