Can't look me in the eyes?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Kupo on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 and has 28 replies.

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@Kupo
20 Years

What does it mean when a Pisces girl can't look you in the eyes when you're talking to her? Even after I asked her why she can't look me in the eyes, she said what are you takling about? And then continued to not look me in the eyes when I'm talking to her. She doesn't have this problem when we're with other people, but when I'm alone with her, this is what happens... Somehow I don't think it's disgust.. or is it? She's three years younger than me which makes her 21, so she shouldn't have confidence problems right..?

Help?

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Actually younger women sometimes have more self conscious problems than older woman.There's alot of superficialness flying around for that age group with all the media crap on playboy models,brittney spears and stuff,looks are supposedly the most important thing is what they are left with thinking right now.Otherwise just based on the description given,she it may be she's not telling you something about the relationship or something as another possibilty for those actions.Maybe she doesn't want to get close or is nervous.

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@Illmatic
20 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

its no disgust she likes you alot and you make her nervous.

did you just meet her? after while she when she knows you better she will look you in the eyes. its a force of habit for some pisces.

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@Kupo
20 Years

I think she's definitely nervous, but I'm not sure about the liking me part. And, I don't know what it is.. and it drives me nuts sometimes thinking about it.

Sigh, sometimes I wish Pisces would be more direct instead of being coy. Maybe Scorpio is a better match for Cancers, or at least Scorpio traits as described would better match my preferences...

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@Melusine
20 Years500+ Posts

Ah kupo,trying to catch a fish, are we?

I think she likes you and you make her feel self-conscious...
I used to be like that when I's a teenager...I could be as outgoing as the next person
with everybody except this boy that I really liked...He made me so nervous at first(I thought if I looked at him too much or talked to him he would figure out how much I liked him...and I absolutely hate giving away my emotions)but after a while when I felt that he liked me back,things became easier...

Also,stop asking her why she's doing it..she knows she's doing it and your asking questions only makes things worse.

okay,something else...maybe I shouldn't say this but sometimes I don't look at people when they are talking to me b/c I'm not really paying attention to them and thinking about something else (it's easier to do that if you are not looking at them)...but I'm sure that's not true in your case...

I'm sure you make a scintillating conversationalist in real life.😉

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@Illmatic
20 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Even though UofT is approximately 20 minutes away from my house. im too stupid to be accepted and most of my friends have failed first year. so im gonna try mcmaster or york or something else. are you going there.

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@Kupo
20 Years

What can I say Melusine, I'm a moogle.

Illamtic, my parents wanted me to go to UofT, but I wanted to get away, so I went to McGill. Now I kind of regret it b/c I miss Toronto so much. Have confidence in yourself just study hard and things will go your way.

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@Illmatic
20 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

"Now I kind of regret it b/c I miss Toronto so much."

you miss the night life you mean? its a wonderful city in the summer, day or night.

Mcgill is not bad just very very far. and i heard Hamilton was boring place to live in is that true? i saw downtown hamilton once and all i was a strip mall, a mcdonalds and somegas stations.

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@Kupo
20 Years

McMaster is like Western except it's more serious for studying. Sure Hamilton is a boring city but the students can make it really fun with house parties and stuff. McMaster has a nice coop program like Waterloo, which mcgill, uoft, and ubc lacks.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Actually kupo scorps can be shy too and thats one of the reasons nervous was brought up is because i've done similar tactics too.It was just being based on women in general and not pisceseans for that answer.😛

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@Kupo
20 Years

I think it's more about being too fast this time. Obviously she and me were at different stages in our lives..

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@Kupo
20 Years

I really feel bad for the fishes that doesn't have you in their lives mr.crabby. It's so sad...

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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Scorpions can be a little slutty and that bothers me, the fishes are more likely to be a shy girl, which i prefer. But i can spot a short brunette fish a mile away.
I'd probably get along better with a scorp, they don't have that naive childish side, i can get exasperated sometimes.

I've been quite clumsy with fishes, it's my fault, really.

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@Kupo
20 Years

scorpios are slutty? I know they dress sparsely but deep down they're very faithful. The shyness is cute at first, but then it gets to be a bit annoying... I think the best match for a cancer is for someone to be half pisces and half scorpio 😉.