What are the pros and cons of being with a Venus in Pisces?
Venus in Pisces in love

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Thanks for all comments!
Daydreamer22, do you fall in love with multiple people? Are you loyal in love? What would make you fall out of love?
Daydreamer22, do you fall in love with multiple people? Are you loyal in love? What would make you fall out of love?
daydreamer22 'i can fall in love in two minutes' WTF——————

i agree with daydreamer22! it happens so fast. i don' know how to play it cool. i'm trying to start something with a scorpio right now and i just can't seem to figure out how to be distant. i'm magnetically attracted. and my pisces venus does not want to keep its cool.
if he regrets me i'll probably just try to ignore him harder, but deep down i'll know he won.
if he regrets me i'll probably just try to ignore him harder, but deep down i'll know he won.

It is a bliss and a curse.
Better to have it in some earth or air House.
Better to have it in some earth or air House.

Posted by MiZLeoWell, I don't know about your Pisces but with me it goes like this.
Now I'm fascinated.........so someone with Sun in Pisces and Venus in Pisces pretty much loves someone right away or not? And if they are still around it's pretty much a good chance they are in love? They just don't admit it in fear of getting hurt?
I can be infatuated by a man quite easily and quickly. I start to dream about him almost immediately when he caught my attention. But later when I get back to my senses I realize I only fell for my fantasy of him, it so natural to me to begin to dream about him, it is almost impossible to control it. And I love my dreaming, but I dislike it, as well.
To actually fall in love with a man is a different story, though. I don't fall in love easily at all. I have to feel the connection between us consistently, I have to be sure I love HIM and not just my fantasy of him.
If I am still around it only means I am interested in you, I like you, I care for you. Not necessarily I am in love with you, (yet).

Posted by flowingwaterI also had a venus in pisces 😄Posted by daydreamer22I'm like this... Sadly. I love those that don't deserve my love. 😢
were crazy. we love no matter what.... ive loved the people that were completely destructive to my emotional and physical health, people that put me down so much.
and in the end they always want us back, because they realize that no one loved them like we did.
i guess its hard to find solace in pain. but thats what we do. suffering feels almost like a good thing.
and i can fall in love in two minutes. off course i dont tell a person that or else theyll run away, but in my heart that person has already won, that person already has all of me, and i would give and am giving to the person unconditionally.
but we end up stepped all over because we dont know resistance. i dont understand how to play games or do stuff to attract men. i just walk around like myself. and thats a bad thing because apparently people tell me that they can see that im rlly fragile. people see that im naive and lost in my own world. and predators come and go.
but i cant change myself because everything else, becing that feels so stagnant. id rather just be myself.
I'm either super clingy and intensely in love with you or detached of I don't receive that same, so I pull back. There is no in between for me. I guess that's why I felt my Pisces ex understood me the most....click to expand

Posted by starwarsIt is possible to not date at all. But not for the reasons you assumed. To dream about our crush is very natural and it is a very common part of the first stage in developing a romantic relationship, because we are inspired by you, I can say. It depends on both people involved if it will go further into possible real love and relationship or if it will fade away.
so is it possible to not date at all for a pisces venus, just because they rather dream about people they're crushing on and fell for the fantasy rather than the actual person? I'm friends with an aqua guy with pisces venus and I noticed that about him. do you like wait for the right one? or for someone to match the fantasy you're having? you get disappointed once you realize its all an illusion? what is it?
Also our dreaming never stops, we need the romantic and fantasies in our lives. The difference is, once we get to REALLY know you. I mean your deepest parts of yourself. We can dream about You, the real you. Since we already know what and who you are so our dreaming can be more concreate, crazy as well, but not about just fantasy, anymore. 🙂
What does it mean 'do you like wait for the right one'? I don't wait for someone who will be completely like my fantasies, because that is what they are: fantasies. I love them because they are uplifting and inspiring. But I am aware they are not real. Although it is always nice if you possess some of the traits I dream of, to be honest. 😄
Anyway, I know it sounds complicated and confusing and to me it is sometimes hard to distinguish these two things, as well. But it is different, there is a fantasy and there is you. When I would like to get to know you more it comes along my dreaming with it.
Of course I get disappointed when I realize that something I believed in isn't real. But this is no longer about Pisces Venus, it is more general. I think everyone is disappointed when they are betrayed. No?

Martyrs
Posted by pakmaiWhat do you mean by they all come back, every one of them?Posted by MiZLeoMy Sun and Venus is in Pisces and I wouldn't necessarily say I love people right away but there is no in between with me. I either like you a lot or I barely notice your existence.. And that is from jump street. I kind of hate my Venus in Pisces placement because I want a perfect love/romance and as far as I know, I don't think I'll ever be able to have it. My Mars in Aquarius though so I can be pretttttty detached one day then back to my Pisces placement, the next.
Now I'm fascinated.........so someone with Sun in Pisces and Venus in Pisces pretty much loves someone right away or not? And if they are still around it's pretty much a good chance they are in love? They just don't admit it in fear of getting hurt?
The thing about being a Pisces AND having a Venus on Pisces is.. They all come back. They all do. Every single last one of them. Maybe not tomorrow or the next week but they all come back. I think it's true when they say no one loves like a Pisces. We really do practice "unconditional love" more so than any other sign.click to expand
You mean they always sniff around exes again?
The one I know has a Pisces Sun and Venus too.
have been reading for a while and decided to join. You seem nice.

Posted by pakmaiI have Venus in Pisces and Mars in Aquarius and I agree with what you said + They always do come back whether it's months or yearsPosted by MiZLeoMy Sun and Venus is in Pisces and I wouldn't necessarily say I love people right away but there is no in between with me. I either like you a lot or I barely notice your existence.. And that is from jump street. I kind of hate my Venus in Pisces placement because I want a perfect love/romance and as far as I know, I don't think I'll ever be able to have it. My Mars in Aquarius though so I can be pretttttty detached one day then back to my Pisces placement, the next.
Now I'm fascinated.........so someone with Sun in Pisces and Venus in Pisces pretty much loves someone right away or not? And if they are still around it's pretty much a good chance they are in love? They just don't admit it in fear of getting hurt?
The thing about being a Pisces AND having a Venus on Pisces is.. They all come back. They all do. Every single last one of them. Maybe not tomorrow or the next week but they all come back. I think it's true when they say no one loves like a Pisces. We really do practice "unconditional love" more so than any other sign.click to expand

Venus in Pisces:
You make deep commitments in relationships, and appreciate sacrifice and duty on the part of others. At home in the world of the dreamer and mystic, you have great intuition. You are always willing to sublimate and take the back seat. You are a true romantic at heart. All things musical, psychological and poetic will appeal. PROS
CONS: Be careful! We have memories like "elephants". We are sarcastic (when we want to be). We are "clingy", but tend to back down when we feel "we are not wanted". We HATE to be ignored (goes back to the latter). We LOVE to talk (communicate) and tend to want you as our "best friend" (come home to have someone to talk to about our day, family, work, problems, etc); if you don't have time for us, then look at "we are not wanted" so we "swim away".
You make deep commitments in relationships, and appreciate sacrifice and duty on the part of others. At home in the world of the dreamer and mystic, you have great intuition. You are always willing to sublimate and take the back seat. You are a true romantic at heart. All things musical, psychological and poetic will appeal. PROS
CONS: Be careful! We have memories like "elephants". We are sarcastic (when we want to be). We are "clingy", but tend to back down when we feel "we are not wanted". We HATE to be ignored (goes back to the latter). We LOVE to talk (communicate) and tend to want you as our "best friend" (come home to have someone to talk to about our day, family, work, problems, etc); if you don't have time for us, then look at "we are not wanted" so we "swim away".

Posted by AmaraPI don't go back to my exes (ever!) "All my exes live in Texas" (George Strait) duh! But what I DO know as a "True Piscean" with also Venus in Pisces is that the men I have had in my life have felt my fish tail hit them on their face when they've done me wrong. I'm the one "That got away" and they sulk in guilt (Cancer man). I mysteriously come in their dreams, I mysteriously pop up in the middle of the day, and/or they see my "twin" out there and assume that was me. Negative. "She's gonna leave you with a smile" George Strait (duh!).Posted by t_h32I still dont understand what you mean by they always come back. No one explained.Posted by pakmaiI have Venus in Pisces and Mars in Aquarius and I agree with what you said + They always do come back whether it's months or yearsPosted by MiZLeoMy Sun and Venus is in Pisces and I wouldn't necessarily say I love people right away but there is no in between with me. I either like you a lot or I barely notice your existence.. And that is from jump street. I kind of hate my Venus in Pisces placement because I want a perfect love/romance and as far as I know, I don't think I'll ever be able to have it. My Mars in Aquarius though so I can be pretttttty detached one day then back to my Pisces placement, the next.
Now I'm fascinated.........so someone with Sun in Pisces and Venus in Pisces pretty much loves someone right away or not? And if they are still around it's pretty much a good chance they are in love? They just don't admit it in fear of getting hurt?
The thing about being a Pisces AND having a Venus on Pisces is.. They all come back. They all do. Every single last one of them. Maybe not tomorrow or the next week but they all come back. I think it's true when they say no one loves like a Pisces. We really do practice "unconditional love" more so than any other sign.
Come back to exes? People they dumped or who dumped them?
Do they feel bad for hurting people?click to expand
Gotta LOVE being a Pisces -- Venus in Pisces. And I do! 😉

Venus in Pisces:
You make deep commitments in relationships, and appreciate sacrifice and duty on the part of others. At home in the world of the dreamer and mystic, you have great intuition. You are always willing to sublimate and take the back seat. You are a true romantic at heart. All things musical, psychological and poetic will appeal.
You make deep commitments in relationships, and appreciate sacrifice and duty on the part of others. At home in the world of the dreamer and mystic, you have great intuition. You are always willing to sublimate and take the back seat. You are a true romantic at heart. All things musical, psychological and poetic will appeal.

Told ya I'm a "True Piscean" 😉
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