When pisces are getting to know someone do they swim away

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When pisces are getting to know someone do they swim away. I said to him he'll have to come over for pizza one day he said definetly anytime after my fights. I replied cool we'll sort something after your fight 🙂 This was saturday not heard anything. I saw him in our boxing class said hi he acknowledged me then didn't start up any conversation but each time I turned around he was beside me working out. Is all this ok?
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To answer your question, No, we don't swim away after we get to know someone. IF, if the compatibility is NOT there, or the chemistry, then he's avoiding you. We tend to be "picky" at the opposite sex and what we want in a partner. We just don't flirt to flirt, have sex just to have sex, KWIM?

About a boxer, uh, they don't eat pizza. I had a date on Sunday and we were watching a movie on my DVR and I said, "Are you hungry?" He said, "Yeah, a little". He works out like I do (hubba hubba!), I told him, "I don't have many snacks, but I can make you a protein smoothie if you'd like". He took me in on it! So, uh, sorry, but boxers don't eat pizza. No problem, next time ask him this, "Since your last bout (boxing) you'll need protein. How about I take you out to eat a nice, juicy, medium rare steak or medium rare hamburger with a beer?" He'll take you up on it! 😎 He'll smile KNOWING you know about his diet (what he's to eat/not eat, etc) and he'll know you care!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: If he STILL ignores you, and/or just waves at you, then he's either taken, not interested, and/or not into you.
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Michele
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Thanks he brought up the pizza saying send some over. I'll replied Saying he can come over sometime. He has always been a bit like that with me in the gym. He once didn't say anything and kinda stared at mewhilst I was working out. The next day he text me. He wasn't avoiding me he was beside me in the workouts but again didn't speak. I know from experience that pisces pull that move back thing. So if I get used to it now and can handle it will help in the long run. Xx
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But he's already said he's definetly up for pizza after his fight which is a few weeks I can't really do much else. I'm seeing him for our training g together Saturday. I need to practice patience if I'm honest and learn to let things u fold im terrible at that. And not read too much into everything. Positive he said definetly anytime after his fight for pizza round mine. Negative he hasn't text in a couple of days. And didn't say much at the gym as usual lol. I need to learn to say to myself so why do I jump on the negative straight away. Becuase of my insecurities and I need to really work on them. And think it's fine infact it's better than fine he's now coming for dinner. I can't immediately think straight after he isn't interested that is an insecurity on my part. If I push them I securities onto him he'll be gone 🙂 everything is cool 🙂 yes? That's how it needs to be doesnt it. Not living in turmoil and chasing due to my insecurities only.
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He needs to lose weight for his fight and maybe he hasn't got the time he trains two hours in the morning then three in the evening. i think the session was on his mind. And he said twice he really enjoyed it. The conversation thing might be my doing I once blanked him when he came over to say hi. I was shy. I then made a point of saying hello to him after but it didn't change anything as I was leaving he faced the other way. I text him to apologise and said I didn't realise it was him I was in the middle of my training. He laughed said it was ok. But has now always not come over to me in training. Once I was on my own in the gym and he was behind me working out and didn't say a thing. Then the next day he text me asked me how my session was.
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ummm can't speak for the men of us Pisces species but no, if someone is expressing an interest in me, I will actually make moves to make something happen, if I also like the look of them and they interest me...... I will only swim off eventually if I am not interested......

Eventually meaning......

I can be pleasant and polite and as I do not wish to upset or offend the person who has kindly taken an interest in me (as I see as being super flattering and sweet no matter I like them or not), I will talk and text as a friend would and nothing more....... but I will not take it further than that and gradually make excuses!

Not saying this is the case, but I wouldn't keep making reasons for behaviour up in your head...... that is a Pisces trait!! Just relax and see what happens, meantime just be yourself.... if he is interested you will see in time. You've put your invite out there and hope he comes good on that. Good luck