While dating him you should…

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…be prepared to talk to a mask. For that’s what a Pisces man is. He is a face with a mask…a smiling mask for sad moods, a pensive mask for playful moods and a nonchalant mask for intense moods. He is a funny mix of opposites. He will feel something and pretend to experience something else all the time. Don’t think this to be confusion or lack of self awareness. It is in fact his way of playing hide and seek with his emotions. He will never show his true emotions to anyone and will constantly endeavour to hide them…even if it means acting out the exact opposite of how he feels on the inside.

Complicated isn’t it? But once you know why he does that it would be simple to start the dating game. A Piscean knows his sensitivity is his weakest bone and he completely avoids divulging his state of mind in order to shield himself from emotional harm. In the initial stages of dating him, you would need to get past his reserve to gauge what he is really like.


(Copied From Book by Chetan D Narain)
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Whoever wrote that book never met me. And doesn't seem to know much about us.

Our biggest weakness is our dreamy nature, not our sensitivity. Our sensitivity is our biggest plus because it helps bring out the best in our partners. It's also our biggest weapon against injustice, because it makes us "look" weak and people drop their guards around us because they don't view us as a threat.
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I agree in that we wear a mask, both genders. But, I don't agree that it is for the purpose of hiding emotions.

In fact, Pisceans seem to really want to express and share feelings with people. But, we seem to have a blockage there, in where it's really difficult to get out exactly what we mean or feel .... and so we often resort to expressing through our art.

And we all have some form of artistic expression.

I'm more inclined to agree with Vixen, in that we usually have so many views at once, or so many feelings at once .... that it's nearly impossible to be definitive.
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Posted by MrsWilliams
I will not generalize. The pisces man that I know allows his fear of getting hurt to prevent him from experiencing great things!! So i see that as a weakness. We all get hurt you are auppoae to pick yourself up and move forward. Not let the thought of hurt prevent you grom living and enjoying
Actually it sounds like you're the one with the major issues.

It's a defense mechanism, not a weakness. Use a thesaurus please.
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Posted by P-Angel

I agree in that we wear a mask, both genders. But, I don't agree that it is for the purpose of hiding emotions.

In fact, Pisceans seem to really want to express and share feelings with people. But, we seem to have a blockage there, in where it's really difficult to get out exactly what we mean or feel .... and so we often resort to expressing through our art.

And we all have some form of artistic expression.

I'm more inclined to agree with Vixen, in that we usually have so many views at once, or so many feelings at once .... that it's nearly impossible to be definitive.
I definitely agree with the concept of a blockage. It can be a bit frustrating feeling/being multiple things at once. It's a contradiction of sorts that has no words to describe. Personally, It makes me incredibly long winded and confusing to keep up with. The result is I don't open up to many people because it's just a frustrating experience on both sides.

People like simplicity in order to understand concepts. For me that very rarely is an option.
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Posted by P-Angel

I agree in that we wear a mask, both genders. But, I don't agree that it is for the purpose of hiding emotions.

In fact, Pisceans seem to really want to express and share feelings with people. But, we seem to have a blockage there, in where it's really difficult to get out exactly what we mean or feel .... and so we often resort to expressing through our art.

And we all have some form of artistic expression.

I'm more inclined to agree with Vixen, in that we usually have so many views at once, or so many feelings at once .... that it's nearly impossible to be definitive.
I definitely agree with the concept of a blockage. It can be a bit frustrating feeling/being multiple things at once. It's a contradiction of sorts that has no words to describe. Personally, It makes me incredibly long winded and confusing to keep up with. The result is I don't open up to many people because it's just a frustrating experience on both sides.

People like simplicity in order to understand concepts. For me that very rarely is an option.
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I know exactly what you mean, and experience it daily.

there seems to be no way for me to get out what I mean, and people lose interest long before I've made my point.

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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
Whoever wrote that book never met me. And doesn't seem to know much about us.

Our biggest weakness is our dreamy nature, not our sensitivity. Our sensitivity is our biggest plus because it helps bring out the best in our partners. It's also our biggest weapon against injustice, because it makes us "look" weak and people drop their guards around us because they don't view us as a threat.
I wont say our dreamy nature is biggest weakness. I agree we are too much dreamy by nature. Day dreamer with less action.. But I think with that much of feelings and no dream can frustrate u to hell if u r not in right/supportive environment.. Its not like I m in love with my over dreamy nature but I like it somehow.. It protect me from being depress..
Forgive my grammar..
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Posted by MrsWilliams
I will not generalize. The pisces man that I know allows his fear of getting hurt to prevent him from experiencing great things!! So i see that as a weakness. We all get hurt you are auppoae to pick yourself up and move forward. Not let the thought of hurt prevent you grom living and enjoying
I agree , but we are not Scorpio who can hit back, nor cancer who take it , so defense mechanism is by nature.. its not like we dont share or we dunt like to share but of course we fear to share our core feelings which can make us too vulnerable..
(Forgive my grammar 🙂 )
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Posted by ToxicSlayers

…be prepared to talk to a mask. For that’s what a Pisces man is. He is a face with a mask…a smiling mask for sad moods, a pensive mask for playful moods and a nonchalant mask for intense moods. He is a funny mix of opposites. He will feel something and pretend to experience something else all the time. Don’t think this to be confusion or lack of self awareness. It is in fact his way of playing hide and seek with his emotions. He will never show his true emotions to anyone and will constantly endeavour to hide them…even if it means acting out the exact opposite of how he feels on the inside.

Complicated isn’t it? But once you know why he does that it would be simple to start the dating game. A Piscean knows his sensitivity is his weakest bone and he completely avoids divulging his state of mind in order to shield himself from emotional harm. In the initial stages of dating him, you would need to get past his reserve to gauge what he is really like.


(Copied From Book by Chetan D Narain)
^ Darn tootin.! 😏

@ToxicSlayers Thanks for sharing. 😎
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Posted by MrsWilliams
I will not generalize. The pisces man that I know allows his fear of getting hurt to prevent him from experiencing great things!! So i see that as a weakness. We all get hurt you are auppoae to pick yourself up and move forward. Not let the thought of hurt prevent you grom living and enjoying
If you aren't a Pisces... I don't think you can fully understand a Pisces. You may see that as a weakness, but to us... that could be a strength.

As stated many times before in many threads... WAY too complicated to explain. It would be long winded and confusing. Lets just put it like this, if you're not a Pisces you could never know. What you see (a weak ass bitch), is what you see, but I have a feeling that this is just a way to protect himself, so that way we CAN move further on in life.
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Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
Whoever wrote that book never met me. And doesn't seem to know much about us.

Our biggest weakness is our dreamy nature, not our sensitivity. Our sensitivity is our biggest plus because it helps bring out the best in our partners. It's also our biggest weapon against injustice, because it makes us "look" weak and people drop their guards around us because they don't view us as a threat.
This is so accurate. We risk getting caught up in our dreamy side and i feel a lot of pisceas may come off wrong due to trying to stay grounded.