Who can love Pisces men?

I’m asking because I’ve met a lot of Pisces men and they are all better-than-average people. They make awesome social friends. They’re always there for you and go out of their way to help. Generous, too. Non-judgmental... you could tell Pisces all the details of your sordid past and they probably wouldn’t blink because they “get you” or whatever. Maybe even still love you. Pretty dependable and conservative in work although rate of success varies widely in this sign. Socially talented with lots of friends.

With all these amazing advantages, there are two things that make Pisces men so hard to date. 1.) They are overflowing with every type of emotion, the good and the bad, and it shows (they also tell you) and 2.) They change their mind all the time... not super dependable because they are the flaky type. They are also a bit too passive about the direction their life takes. Don’t usually fight to get what they deserve.

I don’t know if I’m the only one, but as a Libra sun, Pisces’ emotions seem girly to me. And I HATE that I can’t find them attractive because they are the type of easy-going people I adore... many of my best friends of both gender are Pisces. But I’ve met many and many a potential boyfriend who was Pisces that fell in love with me too fast and told me about it... cried on first dates... just got too deep too fast in general, painting out every expectation he had for the future with me. And this is in addition to how all Pisces I met have been quite hard to warm up sexually.. they aren’t the make-a-first-move type and sometimes it feels like they rather look in my eyes and talk about their dreams of the future more than SHOW me what the dream in made of😉 Could be my Aries Mars talking but it’s possible to kiss a Pisces who won’t kiss back even if he adored me... at least not immediately.

Feeling a bit frustrated about my bad luck because I just met an amazing Pisces who is a doctor. Everything I want except too emotional. Dove deep really fast.. told me all his insecurities about “us” even. Told me all his weaknesses immediately, even the unattractive ones. While I admire his openness and authenticity, so far it’s killed my passion for him 😢

So tell me dxp... out of curiosity because I know there’s a sign out there somewhere for these guys... what signs adore the emotional Pisces men?

I’m dating a Pisces and I love how he communicates his feelings about me. I don’t wonder what he’s thinking about me like I have with every other guy I’ve dated in the last several years. He’s a sweet guy and the kind of guy I can picture myself with. He’s made the first moves which shows me he’s manly and he looks manly. The only hard thing is he owns a business, works all the time, and doesn’t make a huge effort to see me even tho he says he misses me and wants too. Communication has really helped with this and of course me being patient and understanding. Doctors are busy too!! That may be why he doesn’t seem dependable, but its only because he has an important, exhausting job.

I've had alot of fun flings with them but as you stated OP they do tend to fall hard. Longterm that would be fine but just dating is a turn off for me. Tend to be to much of a doormat which is good for rotational situations. My bestfriend is a Pisces and he's and arse to guys but women turn him into jello.

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

My husband has Aries Mars too, which comes with a huge temper. And he has Pisces moon, which makes him mostly rational. Your mileage may vary.

What are his Venus and Mercury?

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My husband has Aries Mars too, which comes with a huge temper. And he has Pisces moon, which makes him mostly rational. Your mileage may vary.

What are his Venus and Mercury?

I actually mistyped. He has Libra moon. Pisces Venus, Aqua Mercury.

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Haha! I was wondering where your "has Pisces moon, which makes him mostly rational" was coming from 🙂

Another Pisces. I have two couple friends that are happily married and they are Pisces.

" Told me all his weaknesses immediately, even the unattractive ones. While I admire his openness and authenticity, so far it’s killed my passion for him"

I do the same if I'm interested in my date. It's purely instinctive, and works to my advantage in the greater order of things, since it's a good way to find out if the person is right for me or not, from the very beginning.

About Pisces men...it's the only water sign I've dated. They do cling and overwhelm you with attention and emotion if you are on a fence or pulling away. They DON'T overwhelm you, if they feel secure about you.

Do you know how exhausting emotional outbursts are? If you think you've going to get one every day, think again....

Posted by ClassyAquarius

I know this one Pisces guy (not personaly). He is one of the most famous rappers in Poland. He was dating long term relationship two woman- one was Pisces, the other is Libra. The Libra stole him from The Pisces.

Libra has enormous power with Pisces. I don’t know why. Every male Pisces I ever met was charmed by me. Unfortunate because I get bored so fast of all the straightforwardness. Libras like subtly mixed with a surprising declaration of love here and there😉 Constant love declarations make me tired

Posted by shakedown

I can, but it depends on their other placements, especially the moon sign. Pisces men are an aphrodisiac.

Wow they are the opposite of an aphrodisiac for me. But they are good listeners 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Not a lot of experience with pisces but I'm trying to figure out whats wrong with someone being comfortable enough around you to bare their soul to you....

I distrust it maybe? I feel like if they can open so fast to a near stranger they must not be very clever... also, it feels like they don’t even really see or understand me before they deeply love me, which doesn’t do anything for my vanity or my ability to trust that his love is real (I want to be loved for who I am, not for a Pisces’ intuitive emotions alone). Libras play games in relationships because we like the slow build. Rome wasn’t built in a day. A little bit of expectation turns us on. Nothing puts out the Libra fire like someone who starts talking about “forever” before they’ve even won our heart today.

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I know this one Pisces guy (not personaly). He is one of the most famous rappers in Poland. He was dating long term relationship two woman- one was Pisces, the other is Libra. The Libra stole him from The Pisces.

Libra has enormous power with Pisces. I don’t know why. Every male Pisces I ever met was charmed by me. Unfortunate because I get bored so fast of all the straightforwardness. Libras like subtly mixed with a surprising declaration of love here and there😉 Constant love declarations make me tired

What's your Venus sign? We're kind of opposite. When I've had feelings for men who do what you describe it's driven me mad.

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My Venus is Virgo. It drives me mad too but I looove it

yep they've got that default speech for literally everyone

Gems.

This one couple I know. They've been through ups and downs and he's caused her a lot of pain but she stays by her man no matter what.

I'm with Pisces man and he has every quality I need in order to get serious. Also he has fire mars and venus and definitely doesn't come off as anything like girly for instance. Will be 5 months in in a few days 😄

Extremely open, great communicator, nurturing (cancer moon) 😉 adventurous, intelligent and safe to love in general. Our future has been planned out, we both know what we want

Married one. He was secure and swept me off my feet and wanted to take care of me. I don’t remember having any doubts related to him. Until after we were married. It was completely different. He acted jealous when there was nothing to be jealous about, was extremely stubborn, pushed my buttons on purpose cuz he liked to see my fire fly ( his words), refused to let me go to the store alone, went to strip clubs after work.. lied a lot, was irresponsible. It was quite the shock for me after marriage, like where’d the other guy go? 25 years after our divorce finds me & contacts me.. wants closure and offers his help if I ever need anything. 😳 said we were just too young & he wasn’t ready for marriage.... most volatile relationship I’ve ever had.

I have never dated another Pisces sun, but moon, Venus and Mars yes! Lol I guess I like them, relate well to them. I wasn’t into astrology back then, maybe it would’ve helped..

Posted by Loyal

As a Pisces man, I'm going flip that question who could we love? I find that we charm women then we distant ourselves from them lol. I've done so many times but I changed alot from my younger years.

Can you tell us (or me specifically) why you do that? I have noticed that in Pisceans.. they don't want to be closed in.

Do you have Aquarius placements?

People who can handle duality.

Fixed signs like Aquarius, Scorpio (Taurus too) however do fair well with them.

They themselves go for fellow mutables like Geminis, Virgos and Sagittarius.

Aries, Cancers, Libras and Cappies are also compatible with them.

They are sensitive and spontaneous. Energy is usually spontaneous. So only someone who can deal with spontaniety should be with them.

They are sensitive and "Soft". May not be everyone's cup of tea but they connect on a deep level in a relationship.

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I find it hard to say what my Pisces is like because he has changed a lot over the years. There are a lot of reasons for that. He has grown and matured. He has had set-backs that have humbled him, and he has regrown in ways that built new confidences (same as me). He is way more open and demonstrative of his affection with me. That has happened gradually over time, which I think is normal. It's also a response to me. I was more open to begin with and he reciprocated.

Welcome to team mutable signs

I understand what your saying. It's almost been a year w my pisces but it's been up and down. The emotion part is probably the hardest for me too. It can really drain my fire. The mutable connection is really the strongest part. I think their best match is probably cancer.

Posted by frozenintime

My closest guy friend is a Pisces.

He is judgmental, but not of me. He speaks highly of me, he is very sensitive and caring toward me. Good sense of humor.

He is very firey for a Water sun.

Leo moon, Aries Rising, Aries merc, and Aries Mars.

Aqua venus

I adore him. Sometimes he reminds me of a cancer with is caring approach towards me.

Fire doms are great

One thing is forgotten about pisces, pisces will be what you want him to be, in other words "you do that" "you are that", for the good and the bad we will show you we can be grey and white, but pisces is multicolor.

Yeah girly, feminine sign afterall.

Pisces sun with aries moon venus and mercury married with capricorn.

Too frustrating for me, the initial attraction is there but ive had to to be the one instigating. Once or twice I don't mind but imo that's the man's job! They are what they are....slippery little fuckers!

they're very difficult to love tbh

though i'd say capricorn is their best match

I feel very confused by one. All of his words state that he likes me very much, but I think he’s chatting to other girls. Any advice?

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I feel very confused by one. All of his words state that he likes me very much, but I think he’s chatting to other girls. Any advice?

be specific with questions and what you feel comfortable with.

ask him to be blunt with you. be blunt with him.

not mean or rude but to the point.

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I’ve been talking to him all morning. He really is the sweetest calmest man I’ve ever met. I think the problem is within me. I’m insecure and have a hard time trusting in general. I feel that way with him because his actions haven’t matched his words.

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I feel very confused by one. All of his words state that he likes me very much, but I think he’s chatting to other girls. Any advice?

be specific with questions and what you feel comfortable with.

ask him to be blunt with you. be blunt with him.

not mean or rude but to the point.

I’ve been talking to him all morning. He really is the sweetest calmest man I’ve ever met. I think the problem is within me. I’m insecure and have a hard time trusting in general. I feel that way with him because his actions haven’t matched his words.

You're probably just overthinking.

*Looks at your sign*

Yeah you're definitely overthinking.

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I am. I’m a Scorpio Moon too 😭😢

It all started because he was still on bumble and I said something a few times. He did delete it a week ago for me tho. Sooo I don’t know why I’m still worried. Well cuz he hasn’t seen me in several weeks.

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I feel very confused by one. All of his words state that he likes me very much, but I think he’s chatting to other girls. Any advice?

be specific with questions and what you feel comfortable with.

ask him to be blunt with you. be blunt with him.

not mean or rude but to the point.

I’ve been talking to him all morning. He really is the sweetest calmest man I’ve ever met. I think the problem is within me. I’m insecure and have a hard time trusting in general. I feel that way with him because his actions haven’t matched his words.

You're probably just overthinking.

*Looks at your sign*

Yeah you're definitely overthinking.

I am. I’m a Scorpio Moon too 😭😢

It all started because he was still on bumble and I said something a few times. He did delete it a week ago for me tho. Sooo I don’t know why I’m still worried. Well cuz he hasn’t seen me in several weeks.

He's a Pisces, we at times don't leave our homes for weeks, so there's nothing to worry about there.

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Why is this?

"Who can love Pisces men?" Someone...

.....who appreciates feminine traits in a man, and perhaps introversion



...who is not annoyed by juvenile exuberrance or aloofness, or god forbid...an alternance between those two (since their venus/mercury is often in Aries or Aqua)

...who likes whatever their Moon, Mars, Rising and dominant house brings to the table....since these will very much affect their behaviour, whereas their Pisces traits are manifesting more in their internal world, where you don't have much access anyway.

Posted by Notmyrealname

Hmm I’m a little torn on this one. I love Pisces libra match but I do understand some of the things op is saying.

I’m heavy water so I love how emotional and sensitive and clingy they can be, i love being able to see my effect on them I think it’s adorable when they get shy or intimidated or when they are gentle and let you look after them, and I love the unspoken connection and romanticism. But at the same time I also have a hard time believing anyone could fall for you that fast based on nothing and it definitely sends alarm bells ringing that they’re probably just as illogically over the top with lots of women. Also I think in principle it’s amazing and beautiful how warm and caring they can be to everyone, but in a relationship sometimes it just kind of just makes me feel like I could be one of many and it makes me insecure to see him not seem to have clear boundaries with everyone. Like their attention doesn’t feel as focused on you maybe. And yes I usually pray for at least some fire placements or scorp placements just so he can grab at you a little firmer. I love to be respected but there’s a time and a place and it can border on irritatingly complacent sometimes. Like I don’t like over the top masculine ridiculousness but I also don’t like feeling too much like the man or the mother in the relationship 😬

I agree it prob depends on other placements a lot

Imagine someone who is usually quiet, observant and lives a solitary life, partially inside of their head. One day he meets you and becomes infatuated. "Based on nothing", as you say! Based on nothing obvious, I would add. This is how intuitive people operate. Intuition collects observations and draws conclusions faster than one could think, and nobody knows how it operates, exactly.

From that day, every time he meets you, he will feel happy, generous, caring and exuberant, more than he was before. He will come out of his shell when you are around. This is because your presence makes him high. Like someone on drugs, he may step boundaries and may give the impression that "their attention doesn’t feel as focused on you maybe". That is an illusion. Everything he feels when you are around is because of you! Leave the room for good, and he will lose interest in his surroundings pretty quickly.

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Hmm I’m a little torn on this one. I love Pisces libra match but I do understand some of the things op is saying.

I’m heavy water so I love how emotional and sensitive and clingy they can be, i love being able to see my effect on them I think it’s adorable when they get shy or intimidated or when they are gentle and let you look after them, and I love the unspoken connection and romanticism. But at the same time I also have a hard time believing anyone could fall for you that fast based on nothing and it definitely sends alarm bells ringing that they’re probably just as illogically over the top with lots of women. Also I think in principle it’s amazing and beautiful how warm and caring they can be to everyone, but in a relationship sometimes it just kind of just makes me feel like I could be one of many and it makes me insecure to see him not seem to have clear boundaries with everyone. Like their attention doesn’t feel as focused on you maybe. And yes I usually pray for at least some fire placements or scorp placements just so he can grab at you a little firmer. I love to be respected but there’s a time and a place and it can border on irritatingly complacent sometimes. Like I don’t like over the top masculine ridiculousness but I also don’t like feeling too much like the man or the mother in the relationship 😬

I agree it prob depends on other placements a lot

Imagine someone who is usually quiet, observant and lives a solitary life, partially inside of their head. One day he meets you and becomes infatuated. "Based on nothing", as you say! Based on nothing obvious, I would add. This is how intuitive people operate. Intuition collects observations and draws conclusions faster than one could think, and nobody knows how it operates, exactly.

From that day, every time he meets you, he will feel happy, generous, caring and exuberant, more than he was before. He will come out of his shell when you are around. This is because your presence makes him high. Like someone on drugs, he may step boundaries and may give the impression that "their attention doesn’t feel as focused on you maybe". That is an illusion. Everything he feels when you are around is because of you! Leave the room for good, and he will lose interest in his surroundings pretty quickly.

Oh my god did I just fall in love with someone you made up?? 😂😍😍❤️💔

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Haha! I like your sense of humour!

I didn't make it up though...it was based on Pisces I know, myself including 🙂.

Posted by lilyofthevalley

I’m asking because I’ve met a lot of Pisces men and they are all better-than-average people. They make awesome social friends. They’re always there for you and go out of their way to help. Generous, too. Non-judgmental... you could tell Pisces all the details of your sordid past and they probably wouldn’t blink because they “get you” or whatever. Maybe even still love you. Pretty dependable and conservative in work although rate of success varies widely in this sign. Socially talented with lots of friends.

With all these amazing advantages, there are two things that make Pisces men so hard to date. 1.) They are overflowing with every type of emotion, the good and the bad, and it shows (they also tell you) and 2.) They change their mind all the time... not super dependable because they are the flaky type. They are also a bit too passive about the direction their life takes. Don’t usually fight to get what they deserve.

I don’t know if I’m the only one, but as a Libra sun, Pisces’ emotions seem girly to me. And I HATE that I can’t find them attractive because they are the type of easy-going people I adore... many of my best friends of both gender are Pisces. But I’ve met many and many a potential boyfriend who was Pisces that fell in love with me too fast and told me about it... cried on first dates... just got too deep too fast in general, painting out every expectation he had for the future with me. And this is in addition to how all Pisces I met have been quite hard to warm up sexually.. they aren’t the make-a-first-move type and sometimes it feels like they rather look in my eyes and talk about their dreams of the future more than SHOW me what the dream in made of😉 Could be my Aries Mars talking but it’s possible to kiss a Pisces who won’t kiss back even if he adored me... at least not immediately.

Feeling a bit frustrated about my bad luck because I just met an amazing Pisces who is a doctor. Everything I want except too emotional. Dove deep really fast.. told me all his insecurities about “us” even. Told me all his weaknesses immediately, even the unattractive ones. While I admire his openness and authenticity, so far it’s killed my passion for him 😢

So tell me dxp... out of curiosity because I know there’s a sign out there somewhere for these guys... what signs adore the emotional Pisces men?

ME!!

I ADORE Pisces men!!

I am addicted to EVERYTHING about them!

Everything you have written about Pisces men I have just thought OMG I LOVE that.

Even the 2 things you said you Don't like about them ...I thought HOW can you NOT like THAT?! ❤❤

I am a Capricorn lady, with Venus in Pisces, and I cannot put it more passionately just how MUCH I LOVE Pisces men 💋😍💋

Posted by virgoOPPP

they're very difficult to love tbh

though i'd say capricorn is their best match

I LOVE you for saying this!

I'm a Capricorn lady!

Posted by pisceswoman123

Another Pisces. I have two couple friends that are happily married and they are Pisces.

What sign are the Pisces happily married to?

Posted by Undine

" Told me all his weaknesses immediately, even the unattractive ones. While I admire his openness and authenticity, so far it’s killed my passion for him"

I do the same if I'm interested in my date. It's purely instinctive, and works to my advantage in the greater order of things, since it's a good way to find out if the person is right for me or not, from the very beginning.

About Pisces men...it's the only water sign I've dated. They do cling and overwhelm you with attention and emotion if you are on a fence or pulling away. They DON'T overwhelm you, if they feel secure about you.

Do you know how exhausting emotional outbursts are? If you think you've going to get one every day, think again....

Hi..

I'm really interested in where you said..

"They DON'T overwhelm you, if they feel secure about you."

What DO they do then?

How does a Pisces man behave when he feels secure about a woman? x

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Posted by Undine

" Told me all his weaknesses immediately, even the unattractive ones. While I admire his openness and authenticity, so far it’s killed my passion for him"

I do the same if I'm interested in my date. It's purely instinctive, and works to my advantage in the greater order of things, since it's a good way to find out if the person is right for me or not, from the very beginning.

About Pisces men...it's the only water sign I've dated. They do cling and overwhelm you with attention and emotion if you are on a fence or pulling away. They DON'T overwhelm you, if they feel secure about you.

Do you know how exhausting emotional outbursts are? If you think you've going to get one every day, think again....

Hi..

I'm really interested in where you said..

"They DON'T overwhelm you, if they feel secure about you."

What DO they do then?

How does a Pisces man behave when he feels secure about a woman? x

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I don't know what they do when secure in a romantic relationship...routine stuff and plenty of freedom for both of you, most likely 🙂.

I usually describe myself when talking about "Pisces men", since I have a masculine brain, apparently (according to my Pisces mate).

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Posted by virgoOPPP

they're very difficult to love tbh

though i'd say capricorn is their best match

I LOVE you for saying this!

I'm a Capricorn lady!

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you're welcome

anyone has the capability to love anyone else, unless they are afflicted by a psychiatric illness where they just lack the ability all together (such as a sociopath). don't put this bs on us, we can see right thru it. you are easier to see thru than a plexi-glass window. and did you ever think that maybe YOU are the common denominator?