Aquarius and the L-word and those who have met their Soul Mate

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Milani
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Hello Aquarians and Those who have met their soul mate,

(Will try to Keep it short because some of you may already know the story from past posts of mine)

Ok, so I met the wonderful Aqua guy that has the best thing in my life. I swear, it has been such a magical experience and being with him makes it seem like there are higher clouds than Cloud 9. A connection that I've never experienced and I would say exceeds 'infatuation.' We are connected on so many levels, including intuitive and having shared feelings when we're apart. (For example, I’d start having that feeling of missing him when we’re apart and a few minutes later (or simultaneously), I’d receive a text from him that he misses me. (Yes, sounds like a typical cliché thing, but there have been other situations that similar that have happened.)

My guy being a typical straight forward Aqua, he had stated that he likes me and wanted exclusivity (But not officially date yet). Well this past Saturday, I went to go drop him off at his place after a day of fun. He ended up locking himself out of his place and did not want to wake his older roommate... I was unable to take him back to my place due to roommate rules with my roomies, so I told him that I'd stay and sleep in the car with him til his roommate wakes up in the morning.

When we were in the back seat of my car cuddling, he told me his appreciation for staying with him. My response was "Its ok sweetie - Through thick and thin."

After my response, he told me he loved me.

He had previously mentioned that he does not say the "L" word lightly, in which me being a Virgo, I don’t say it either until I’ve had a full analysis of us. But what’s crazy about this one is I’ve started feeling it(love) early on… almost like it’s been there before we’ve ever met.

So my question to Aquarians, when it comes to the “L” word, how do you know when the right time is to say it?

Those who feel they are with their ‘soul mate’… How did you know that your partner is something more than just someone you are dating?

Thank you,

Milani
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Althea
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It disturbs you to your very core of your heart. It draws you helplessly to the other one. It closes the gap of the abyss you usually feel towards allowing deep emotions to conquer your mind, that fights against it. That "friend" become your refuge of mind and soul and then your sole interest. You want to spend your whole time with him/her, because you find comfort. You find freedom. You finally fall in love.

Mind though staged episodes. Aquas are very good at it 🙂
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Milani
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8 YearsVirgo

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Posted by compy
It disturbs you to your very core of your heart. It draws you helplessly to the other one. It closes the gap of the abyss you usually feel towards allowing deep emotions to conquer your mind, that fights against it. That "friend" become your refuge of mind and soul and then your sole interest. You want to spend your whole time with him/her, because you find comfort. You find freedom. You finally fall in love.

Mind though staged episodes. Aquas are very good at it 🙂
Yes that is all that I feel when I'm with him. He surprised me earlier today which threw me off and stressed me out. He wants to introduce me to his family sooner than originally planned. I feel better about it now and will go forward with it, but earlier it freaked me out. I of course spoke my feelings about it and he comforted me about the situation. However, since we are new and his family isn't openminded, we are just going to play things off as if we are just friends. He is such a wonderful guy and will do anything for him for his happiness.
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Milani
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8 YearsVirgo

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***UPDATE***

Last night we went out and had a wonderful time and ended up waking up this morning in each other's arms. Shortly after I arrived to work this morning, I received a text that he was spending the day with his ex.

I was totally BLINDSIDED from this.. Everything was perfect and he even told me that he loved me up until this morning. I just don’t get it…

His ex that he got back with is pregnant… they’ve broken up twice before. I told him, that a baby won’t bring love back into a relationship.

I'm totally heartbroken because as I've stated before, I had never connected with anyone as I did with him. It was perfect...

Thank you,

Milani
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piscespoppy
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I was enjoying your situation, then you totally threw this ex who is pregnant into the picture, I'm confused.

You said he spent the day with her, next sentence 'His ex that he got back with' ?

I can see he may have spent time with her if she is carrying his child, but he is with you, loves you ?

Are they still friends, has he told you he is staying with her and never seeing you again?

Kindly elaborate hun x
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Nameless Nemean
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Posted by piscespoppy
I was enjoying your situation, then you totally threw this ex who is pregnant into the picture, I'm confused.

You said he spent the day with her, next sentence 'His ex that he got back with' ?

I can see he may have spent time with her if she is carrying his child, but he is with you, loves you ?

Are they still friends, has he told you he is staying with her and never seeing you again?

Kindly elaborate hun x
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/my-aquarius-guy-broke-my-trust-and-we-are-no-longer-together-8241505/