murasaki_me
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Aquarius man help... I'm so conflicted.
It could be a number of things.
1. He could have a girlfriend now and isn't interested in talking with other girls.
2. He may know you like him and he doesn't feel the same.
3. He may know you like him, and he likes you but is now all awkward around you.
Hard to tell which.
So, exactly what happened that may confirm that you have feelings for him? Could it have made him uncomfortable?
And for me, I wouldn't try to keep talking to someone who as avoiding me. I'd mirror that and let it go. Who wants to set themselves up for rejection?
1. He could have a girlfriend now and isn't interested in talking with other girls.
2. He may know you like him and he doesn't feel the same.
3. He may know you like him, and he likes you but is now all awkward around you.
Hard to tell which.
So, exactly what happened that may confirm that you have feelings for him? Could it have made him uncomfortable?
And for me, I wouldn't try to keep talking to someone who as avoiding me. I'd mirror that and let it go. Who wants to set themselves up for rejection?
I do know one thing for sure is he doesn't have a girlfriend. I'm 100% positive of that. 2 and 3 are equally likely and I can't figure out which to believe in.
Pretty much about 2 years ago, I pulled a super risky move in... well i didn't flat out say how I felt completely, but I texted him a sincere thank you note (long story, I'd rather not go into details unless necessary) and pretty much thanked him for being himself. He obviously didn't know who the number was, and I never told him. Well recently, we're on the same committee for this club at our college and our main director group messaged everyone before our first meeting. He specifically pointed out one of the cell numbers in the group and asked who it was, and our director clarified it was me. Sooo if he remembers or just never deleted the convos from way back 2 years ago, he can piece 2 and 2 together and know it was me. And from that further assume what I feel for him. Or at least a little of what I feel for him.
That's why I kinda believe he's being all awkward because either he doesn't like me (well too bad we're gonna have to deal with each other being on the same committee now :/ ) or because he does like me and is just as conflicted himself and doesn't really know what to do. I feel he'd be the type to act the opposite of what he feels in the situation. I'm not sure. It just urks me that ok sure maybe you don't feel the same way but for god's sake we're on the same executive board you could at least acknowledge me existence -_- And the fact that it changed so... out of no where. One minute things were fine and the next I'm invisible.
Pretty much about 2 years ago, I pulled a super risky move in... well i didn't flat out say how I felt completely, but I texted him a sincere thank you note (long story, I'd rather not go into details unless necessary) and pretty much thanked him for being himself. He obviously didn't know who the number was, and I never told him. Well recently, we're on the same committee for this club at our college and our main director group messaged everyone before our first meeting. He specifically pointed out one of the cell numbers in the group and asked who it was, and our director clarified it was me. Sooo if he remembers or just never deleted the convos from way back 2 years ago, he can piece 2 and 2 together and know it was me. And from that further assume what I feel for him. Or at least a little of what I feel for him.
That's why I kinda believe he's being all awkward because either he doesn't like me (well too bad we're gonna have to deal with each other being on the same committee now :/ ) or because he does like me and is just as conflicted himself and doesn't really know what to do. I feel he'd be the type to act the opposite of what he feels in the situation. I'm not sure. It just urks me that ok sure maybe you don't feel the same way but for god's sake we're on the same executive board you could at least acknowledge me existence -_- And the fact that it changed so... out of no where. One minute things were fine and the next I'm invisible.
How about stepping up and ask him? Maybe—??
Posted by murasaki_meGood Lord. Two years ago. He's probably has not put the two together.
I do know one thing for sure is he doesn't have a girlfriend. I'm 100% positive of that. 2 and 3 are equally likely and I can't figure out which to believe in.
Pretty much about 2 years ago, I pulled a super risky move in... well i didn't flat out say how I felt completely, but I texted him a sincere thank you note (long story, I'd rather not go into details unless necessary) and pretty much thanked him for being himself. He obviously didn't know who the number was, and I never told him. Well recently, we're on the same committee for this club at our college and our main director group messaged everyone before our first meeting. He specifically pointed out one of the cell numbers in the group and asked who it was, and our director clarified it was me. Sooo if he remembers or just never deleted the convos from way back 2 years ago, he can piece 2 and 2 together and know it was me. And from that further assume what I feel for him. Or at least a little of what I feel for him.
That's why I kinda believe he's being all awkward because either he doesn't like me (well too bad we're gonna have to deal with each other being on the same committee now :/ ) or because he does like me and is just as conflicted himself and doesn't really know what to do. I feel he'd be the type to act the opposite of what he feels in the situation. I'm not sure. It just urks me that ok sure maybe you don't feel the same way but for god's sake we're on the same executive board you could at least acknowledge me existence -_- And the fact that it changed so... out of no where. One minute things were fine and the next I'm invisible.
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