Aquarius woman needs help with Capricorn man

Started dating this capricorn at the beginning of the year. I just broke it off with him due to the fact of him constantly shutting me out, standing me up, leaving me hanging for 15-16 hours on text messaging everything basically. We never argued about anything. For the most part when we actually saw each other we got along great. I just could not deal with the constant inconsistencies of this relationship. He was very aggressive about making plans for the future such as marriage, moving in together and having more children. We both have them from previous relationships. After breaking it off with him he managed to manipulate things to be my fault. I finally blew up at him and lost my temper and set him straight. I heard nothing from him for almost a week. Come today he decides to message me with an apology talking about how he loves me and never stopped and that he's aware of not being there for me. Now I still love this man with all of my heart but I do not know what to do about him. I have no clue what he wants from me. If he is being sincere. Or if he is just trying to get back the comfort of having me to ground him. Part of me is telling me to run but that could just be my own sign talking. Some insight into how this sign functions would be great. Thank you.

This is more moon than sun, whats his moon and whats yours?

I'm not sure. His birthday is December 26. Mine is January 23.

Posted by Sunnidaze
. After breaking it off with him he managed to manipulate things to be my fault..

That's a defense maneuver.

When cap is caught in the crossfire, we can turn it around and blame the other person. It takes the pressure off of us.

He may be sincere. If you give him another chance, put him on probation. You don't have to tell him he is on probation, but observe and see if he makes an effort to do better. If he is trying, then you will know he really cares.

At this point I have no clue as to what I'm going to do with him. You'd think that at the ages of 36 and 45 we would be past games. Lord only knows I miss him like crazy as do all of my children.

Drop him. His actions don't match his words at all. Sounds like. Disaster waiting to happen.

Posted by bkbella86
Drop him. His actions don't match his words at all. Sounds like. Disaster waiting to happen.

That's what I was afraid of.

Girl, I am going through the same exact thing with a Capricorn man. I don't know what to make of it! We were so great and then we had a fight over the dumbest stuff where I finally was just like, I've had enough of this, and this sweet, soft guy turned a very sharp tongue with me and it threw me and I got very upset. He ended up dumping me after a week of ignoring me but still coming and talking to me at work. We work together every day and he has only not talked to me like one day in the last month. He's going through a nasty divorce and our drama on top of the divorce drama became too much. But I don't understand this talking to me every day. He even came and checked on me the day after he broke up with me? I'm so confused by his actions.

Sorry to hear. How long have you've been dealing with his behavior? All I know is that a cap wont respect u if you dont stand up for yourself and call out shitty behavior asap! Of course its not right to shut u out like this but next time call him out as soon as you feel bad about his behavior. They want to cater to your needs

Him and I started working on our relationship this past weekend. We had a long talk. He is of course very remorseful as he always is lol. I dealt with his behavior for 3 months before I as he likes to call it fell off the grid. He tends to get distracted and lose track of time because of his job. He's a defense attorney. Now I call him out on it immediately and he typically responds right away. He's scared to death of losing me.

The good thing is, you put him in his place. Cap men dont do well with doormat type women at all.

Lol he sounds kind of like me with getting caught up with work. I'm an entrepreneur, and my time can easily dissipate with my business. Like my girl has literally shown up at my shop after hours to find me there working and go off on me and tell me to get my ass home. I could imagine ppl on the outside must look at us and say these two are batshit crazy. I must admit that a part of me finds that flattering, and I like the attention. I also like a woman to confront me about things too. A passive woman is a dead woman to me.

Anyway, I will say this; a man that works too much, imo, is not a bad problem to have. If you really like this guy, I say you should find a level compromise. Definitely get on his case when he gets too "zoned out" but appreciate his hard work, dedication, and work ethic. Just look around, male breadwinners are becoming extinct, and it's not because women are taking over. It's because most are lazy uninspired POS.