Are you the Dominate or Submissive one in a relationship?

What are the factors that make this so? And do you enjoy your role?

i am the dominant one. I like to be incharge of things and the decisions we make cuz they are more grounded. I dont want her to feel shes useless so ill always hear out her opinion as well ( shes not useless ).

Who doesnt enjoy being the daddy ?

I'm a bit more laid back.... but when pressed or I feel I need to I take total control....

Posted by Lobo
I'm a bit more laid back.... but when pressed or I feel I need to I take total control....

I am the same way most of the time.

I literally can be both since I am into both genders, but most of the time I like being the dominant one.

wtf —?

so, people put a gender label on it.

the insinuation is make that the female is to play a submissive role BECAUSE she is female.

What a bunch of douchebags.

Well in the bed room I'm a switch but the relationship overall I'm primarily dominate... I usually get women who like to act like their in charge in public unless I really need to step in.. then they're like okay your in control...

Posted by P-Angel

wtf —?

so, people put a gender label on it.

the insinuation is make that the female is to play a submissive role BECAUSE she is female.

What a bunch of douchebags.

damm P A you still troll threads....... (sigh)....

Sorry, I just HAVE to say this. ..

It's dominaNT. DOMINANT, people!

I felt better now. Virgo mercury in action. 😉

Dominant with a hint of submission.

Gotta keep the strong minded working towards something.

Posted by flowingwater
I'll only submit if he's good at being a Dom.

I hate cheap dominance, it has to be an inner strength.

Yep^^^^^^^

I like to make my scorpy *think* he's dominant 😉

Posted by exo
in general: i personally don't care about (gender) roles, but i let him pretend to be dom to protect his masculinity/ego and maintain my femininity. he has cap venus, lol.

in sex: we switch it up regularly, but i'm slightly more dom.

lmao

my guy has cap venus as well, and I do the same thing

Posted by Lobo

Posted by flowingwater
I'll only submit if he's good at being a Dom.

I hate cheap dominance, it has to be an inner strength.

Yep^^^^^^^

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yep #2!!!!

you all know what you're talking about.

I have always been the dominant one in past relationships, but yearned to be the submissive one, for that is truly freedom for me.

I don't hand those keys over to just anybody, though. It takes someone with integrity I can trust. A salt of the earth kind of man.
However if that trust is broken I am snatching those keys back so fast their head will spin, and they're staying locked in the vault.