Aries and Scorpio going head to head

I have known this aries guy for four years. He was my ex but we are now back together. We were great but now it's not. We live in different counties and both work opposite times of the day. I feel like he is very very selfish. He will go out with his friends after he has been at work almost all day. He will come home from the outing and say I'm tired and I gotta wake up early for work and go to sleep. So, that eliminates us talking as much. Other times he will sleep at his guy friends house.and tell me how he is not going to talk to me while over there becuase he doesn't want his friend to see his emotional side. He also uses this same line when he is around his family and starts acting like he can't act how he usually does towards me. Lately he has not been communicating with me, he will ignore my calls if he is on the phone and he also thinks that I have to follow his orders.Being a scorpio I want to talk about it with him but my temper is way to strong all I'm going to want to do is yell at him when I get angry.
So when he asked me what's wrong I say I don't want to talk about it. I really need advice.

You've known him 4 years .... so what the fuck are you asking us for?

You're the one who got back with the same person you didn't want to be with when = The Ex

You made a stupid move, and now feel stupid ... deal with it, rather than asking people what's up, considering you're the expert when it comes to a relationship you've been participating in TWICE.

:::: shakes head ::::