Aries Female Loving Virgo Male ... Help with Patience & Emotions

Not sure where to post this...

He's unlike anyone I have met and he's good for me. We have known each other for a couple of years, and found ourselves both single and began to spend time as friends. That quickly turned into more and we've been dating for about 4 months. The first month or so it was sweet texts about how our paths crossed at the same time, "good morning, beautiful" and the like. Now here we are 4 months later and a lot of that has stopped. Things between us are still good, but the loss of that side of him -- the expressive / emotional side -- is a bit frustrating. I don't doubt he's still interested in me, he does text and call daily. My problem is my Arian lack of patience. I have zero. I hold back my expressive my feelings -- both of love and frustration with his lack of showing emotion. I'm doing pretty well, but it's so frustrating sometimes! I really don't want to ruin this, and from what I've been reading this is just how Virgos are. He seems to be a Virgo "to a T" so to speak.

Should I continue expressing my emotions towards him, how much I like seeing him, letting him know I'm thinking of him, etc -- even though I don't get much in return? I do love him, but have not told him. I can't bring myself to say that unless I know he'd reciprocate. Aries and rejection...not good!

The Virgo I dated was the same, you just gotta put on your big girl panties and ask. I often found, that I was the one leading my Virgo forward, and it only sucked for us when I got tired of it. But you, cardinal Aries, this should be up your ally if you can handle a man that is very reserved in all things.

I feel what you're saying is absolutely true. Some days, it is tiring! But I feel he is worth it. He balances me out.

No real "problem" this is just my first Virgo experience. And they are seemingly much different than most other signs.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by SensitiveBlues
the timing, hmmm, you're not from Seattle are you, my EX dated an Arian girl after me, back in the day, and we just stopped talking again four months ago

i hope you're not her.

are you obese? kind of big faced and unhealthy looking?


well don't all Aries kind of look alike, kind of eat too much type of chicks...hmmmm

Yeah you wish....do your research most Aries are athletic.

You might be thinking about a Cancer, Libra or Virgo.

What are you like stalking your ex and every girl after you—

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lol

my sister IS an aries sun and she's NOT athletic at all.

but yeah a lot are, but not even half. so not most.

I don't know why this is relevant at all, however I am 5'6" and weigh 121. And I live nowhere near Seattle.

Don't mind Sensitive, shes obsessing over that Virgo ex.

What would be hilarious is if you're in Florida and dating my Virgo Ex, then I could help you be in like flynn.

Lol.

gotta practice letting go. push them away (but not too hard) and see when they come back