Aries Lady/Pisces Gent

First of all, let me start with an introduction. I'm new to this site and just getting into astrology as of late. I don't know how to make one of those fancy chart thingies...but my bday is 3/31/85. I was born at 12:01 a.m.
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After being through two bad relationships and one brief fling, I'm ready to stop hurting myself. What I do is, I stick it out with one guy just 'cause I fall so hard for them. And I really do believe in my fantasies (which I dream up, every night).
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Now I'm sort of with a Pisces and from what I remember, he's really great. He's been very honest about his past and yes, he has had substance abuse problems. We've only known each other a few months, but already he's flipped my world upside down; and I like it.
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I'm actually learning how to slow down and listen. And that not everyone is out to get me.
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It's a difficult cycle and I need help breaking it:
I'm terrified of slowing down and connecting with him. And, it happens to be my ultimate, #1 goal to do that which I'm afraid of. He's surpisingly all about togetherness and cuddling, which I find hard to believe since all guys only want one thing, right? He's so dreamy...Mmm. We lock eyes and it's all lovely. I really think he's helping me become more sensitive to people's wants. Because as of late, I'm able to not pay any attention to what someone is saying, but still know what they want.
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So anyway, stopping my fast pace makes me physically ill. Seriously. I got a migraine headache behind my left eye (yes, above my heart), felt very fatigued, sluggish and confused. It's like I'm being introduced to living for the first time. Like I've never known what the world really is.
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So then when I think everything is going wonderfully, I won't hear from him for a few days at a time. And whenever we see each other, it's like we're meeting for the first time.
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I get so confused and immediately shut down again, for fear of being found out.
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So how do I make things work with my Pisces? Any ideas?

Thanks 🙂

Oh, I found the chart thingy 🙂

-HER-
Sun: Aries
Moon: Leo
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Aries
Mars: Taurus
Jupiter: Aquarius
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
Lilith: Aries
Asc node: Taurus

-HIM-
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Libra
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Cancer
Jupiter: Gemini
Saturn: Leo
Uranus: Scorpio
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
Lilith: Cancer
Asc node: Libra

You're right. I am counting down the days for him to come home from Mexico 🙂