can I get some advice?

So I'm a virgo sun, aquarius moon, sagittarius rising. My Venus falls in virgo and my Mars falls in libra. I'm a physicist, or perhaps a student of physics would be more accurate. I've been looking for companionship and intimacy but I've been falling short or perhaps just not looking hard enough or in the right places. Wondering if I could get some insight. Oh I'm a male

I imagine work/school keeps you busy and it's hard to find the time to go out and mingle. So try online. You have nothing to lose and if you don't connect with anyone you can just stop communication. If nothing else, it gets you comfortable with the "getting-to-know-you" types of conversations. Who knows you may meet another physicist who is just as busy, lol.

But...OMG, virgo sun, aqua moon...when you meet someone nice...try your hardest to show that you want intimacy. It's harder for your sign!!

I'd say be more aware of the way other people see you.

My virgo sun aqua moon buddy comes off very intimidating at first and scares a lot of people away. She's aware of it, though, so she can do some things to change that. Not saying you would also come off this way, but perhaps your answer is in your own behavior. And, us internet strangers wouldn't be able to help too much with getting a read on you as a person.

Also, I agree that putting yourself out there, whether online or in person would be good, if only to familiarize yourself with courting or socializing and see if there's any thing you fall short on.

Yeah my buddy he's a Leo sun/ scorpio moon/ gemini asc said I'm initially pretty scary but then I'm nothing but sweet and kind. I'm venus virgo and libra mars.