Cancer/Aries ending marriage, how to pick up the pieces?

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Cancer7-73
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8 Years

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At the end of a 21 year roller coaster marriage and looking for advice. Me being the cancer I have been the honest and loyal homebody person, completely devoted to providing for my family. She was/is my fire and I am the moth, she has always been my dream girl. Our problems started when she (Aries) started cheating about 14 years ago & had an affair that she was able to keep hidden for 4 years before I found out. In the last 2 years she has had a steady emotional affair with a "good christian friend" that has put me into flashback to back when I found out about the 1st affair. Trust is completely shattered and she has never protected my heart.

We are now separated and headed for divorce, she is out playing and having fun while I am dying inside and in mourning. She is all I can think about, I never gave up on her, although I should have many years ago.

Question to the experts... How do you Cancers recover from a divorce? How in the hell can you start over? Looking for advice from people that have been there & done this please!
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kiwibean
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9 Years

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At the end of a 21 year roller coaster marriage and looking for advice. Me being the cancer I have been the honest and loyal homebody person, completely devoted to providing for my family. She was/is my fire and I am the moth, she has always been my dream girl. Our problems started when she (Aries) started cheating about 14 years ago & had an affair that she was able to keep hidden for 4 years before I found out. In the last 2 years she has had a steady emotional affair with a "good christian friend" that has put me into flashback to back when I found out about the 1st affair. Trust is completely shattered and she has never protected my heart.

We are now separated and headed for divorce, she is out playing and having fun while I am dying inside and in mourning. She is all I can think about, I never gave up on her, although I should have many years ago.

Question to the experts... How do you Cancers recover from a divorce? How in the hell can you start over? Looking for advice from people that have been there & done this please!
hey so sorry this isn't related to your post in terms of advice and stuff, but I was wondering if you could give me advice??

I'm an aries who's currently with a cancer! Do you have any tips when it comes to living with/keeping a Cancer man and to keep the spark going? or to not rip each others heads off? hahaha :')