Cancer Male and Virgo Female Compatibility

I know cancers are ruled by emotions and virgos are analytical creatures. I'm currently dealing with a cancer who got freaked out about how quick our relationship went and broke it off. I being a typical virgo got upset because his reasoning didn't make sense and got upset. He then said he doesn't have feelings anymore. Not sure if his attempts to stay in contact when he doesn't act the same anymore (no flirting, occasional in depth convos). He does whine to me about life and when we do talk talk it lasts for 2+ hours. Is he being friendly since he doesn't want me out of his life or is he reassessing me?

Cut those 2+ hour phone calls down to like 5 min if you answer the phone at all. Stop being so available. Get busy with your life and quit trying to figure him out.