Can't figure him out

What is the best way to relate to this Gemini? When he is into me, he seems enamored; yet there are long periods during which he does not contact me at all. I'm not really into playing games, but we have such fantastic physical chemistry... advice is much appreciated!! Thanks.

HIM:
Sun - Gemini
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Gemini
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Gemini
Saturn - Capricorn
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Libra
Asc node - Aquarius


ME:
Sun - Cancer
Moon - Leo
Mercury - Cancer
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Aries
Jupiter - Taurus
Saturn - Sagittarius
Uranus - Sagittarius
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio
Lilith - Virgo
Asc node - Pisces

From what I've seen, there is a pretty strong attraction between cancers and geminis.
But maybe you're just more serious about it then he is?

I think the main problem with that pairing is that as a cancer, you're probably more than willing to give this person your undevided attention. Meanwhile, he's a gemini...and they are usually kind of scattered and have a hard time giving anything their full attention.


Just my opinion though. 🙂