chenr56
@chenr56
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Posted by chenr56
So I hung out with this Scorpio twice. We met online and have been talking for around 4 months but because he lives an hour away and we both don't have a car and work all the time we only met up twice (we are also meeting up next week). Hes an interesting guy.... I just can't seem to get myself to open up to him fully and he seems equally cautious... We seem very similar in some ways and different in other ways.He has a "rough" history so Im still wondering if I should even get involved with him.But we always have a good time when we are together...
So the problem is the physical intimacy. I know we only hung out twice but I'm so used to guys wanting to touch me (holding hands, kissing, hugging etc.) on the first date, that I was a bit disappointed. He didn't initiate anything!.... If anything I told him that I wanted him to kiss me and even then he just stood there waiting for me to kiss him! .... Its weird... Its something I've never experienced. And it makes me feel like hes not attracted to me. I asked him and he says that he is but he doesn't make any moves to show it. Even though Im slightly complaining about it .. Its something that I've always wanted with guys but the thing is .
. I like him so much ....When we went to the movies, when I was cowering in fear (we saw the conjuring 2) he wouldn't even hold me or offer anything but his hand ...... (*rolls eyes*) and at the end of the night he just gave me a half hug.... Maybe it doesn't help that I haven't had sex in 4 months... not that I would sleep with him anytime soon but I would at least liked it if he kissed me 😢
What do you think about the situation? Am I justified in my thoughts?
Also I only know our sun signs and nothing else ...

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So the problem is the physical intimacy. I know we only hung out twice but I'm so used to guys wanting to touch me (holding hands, kissing, hugging etc.) on the first date, that I was a bit disappointed. He didn't initiate anything!.... If anything I told him that I wanted him to kiss me and even then he just stood there waiting for me to kiss him! .... Its weird... Its something I've never experienced. And it makes me feel like hes not attracted to me. I asked him and he says that he is but he doesn't make any moves to show it. Even though Im slightly complaining about it .. Its something that I've always wanted with guys but the thing is .
. I like him so much ....When we went to the movies, when I was cowering in fear (we saw the conjuring 2) he wouldn't even hold me or offer anything but his hand ...... (*rolls eyes*) and at the end of the night he just gave me a half hug.... Maybe it doesn't help that I haven't had sex in 4 months... not that I would sleep with him anytime soon but I would at least liked it if he kissed me 😢
What do you think about the situation? Am I justified in my thoughts?
Also I only know our sun signs and nothing else ...