Capricorn gone quiet

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by sugarocket on Friday, September 25, 2015 and has 2 replies.

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@sugarocket
10 Years

Ok so i met this guy online about 7 months ago and we spoke for a while then he went quiet, we never got to meeting, I gave up with making all the first messages, he didn't seem interested so we didn't speak for a long time and then about 1/2 months ago we matched again online and started talking again, the entire time I've been the one that makes the first moves/ sends the first messages etc he has been very difficult to get interested, eventually I managed to get a lot more of his attention the past 2 weeks and he asked me out. We went on a date and there was instant attraction, we were laughing the entire time and we got way too drunk but was kissed (he made the move) holding hands etc was very intense for a first date but I think it was the alcohol. Anyway since then we've spoke it was only 2 days ago but he hasn't replied to my last message and is probably going to go quiet again now. How long do I leave it before I message again? Should I not message again at all? Thing is if I don't we probably won't talk anymore! It's draining having to make all the first moves and I'm not used to this from a guy! On the date I got the impression he thinks very highly of himself, when we messaged after he said he was feeling anxious! I guess about the date.. I'm wondering if he's been scared off because how intense it was? He's just so hard to know if he's interested or not.. I'm just going to be patient and give him space but I really feel like his behaviour is just so odd and if it will be like this forever I'm not going to be able to constantly chase because it makes me feel unwanted.. I do like him a lot tho. Is he playing games? Is this normal behaviour from a Capricorn? How can I tell if he's interested when he acts so uninterested! Help! He's a Capricorn & I'm a Sagittarius but I'm on the cusp of being Capricorn.
Thanks, help & advise appreciated!

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@faith$golphin
16 Years500+ PostsLeo

I have a fwb Capricorn for over 7 years and he still act like this. lol I know he cares about me and even was in love with me and he still act like this occasionally! They are cautious and like to protect their feelings. If you don't have patience this man is not for you. I don't have patience and he drives me up the walls literally because they will have you not thinking they care sometimes. He alway drive me crazy in bed so that's why I stick around with this nut!!! lol Come to the Cap forum and you will see everyone say the same this about them!!!

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@SunMoonStars
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Faith, agree with you 100x.

Cap men...great in bed, maybe not so great in relationships.

When they are dealing with something, be prepared to be on your own. They are actually quite insecure but hide it with arrogance and strict rules. Be prepared to be tested which will require a lot of patience.