Need some help on this Taurus man. I have a feeling he has moved on and should I move on as well. So please everyone give me some advice. We work together. Long story short nothing at first and we got closer around Sept last year. I confessed my feeling to him around Nov and he said he just wanna be friends. That was fine and about 2 weeks after that he said he liked me as well and actually liked me from the beginning. We got closer since then but when I asked him about the status, he said he can't commit due to religion n culture. Somehow we ended getting even closer. He became very attentive, possessive and jealous. He sent me lots of love songs. He treated me like his girlfriend, bought me expensive gifts, dine at expensive restaurants, spent time together a lot. He started to distance himself after Feb this year. Then he went away for a holiday and got married. I couldn't believe it. Before he went holiday, we went out and he asked if I'm going to miss him. He also said to me that he wants me but couldn't have me. I have a feeling it's arranged marriage and planned way before but he insisted not. So we had a long talk and he said he wanna be friends, wants me to be part of his life. I told him I can't be his friend coz I have feelings for him. But I said to him that I accept his decision and will let him go to be happy. He kinda got panic and kept calling me the next day for couple of days. But I didn't answer his call until the third day. He said the same things, wanna be friends and wanna be to be part of his life. Which very confusing. Why the hell he wants me to be part of his life when he's married. He also said he cares and I'm always in his mind. I really don't know what the heck he wants. Should I just cut my looses n move one. It's been a hell roller coaster ride and I'm getting insane. He drives me crazy. I don't know what to do. Im not even sure if his feeling towards me is genuine. I have a feeling hes just toying with my feeling. Please can anyone tell me.
Confused by Taurus Man

Speaking as someone whose culture heavily influences my choices when it comes to marriage, leave him alone. Cut your losses and book it. Don't be friends but instead try to go back to being acquaintances. Do you really want to be the home-wrecker? The woman to ruin such a fresh and new marriage when he barely even had his honeymoon?
You are a temptation to him; you don't even know if he is ideal for you! You barely dated, you haven't slept together, you were friends - nothing more, nothing less. He tried to warn you time and time again that, despite the temptation, nothing can happen between you. So please, leave the guy alone. Think what his poor wife might feel especially if this is 'arranged' in some way.
He is trying to distance himself but you're always there - do him the favor of not stringing you along. You're always on his mind? Well too bad, he made his choice now he has to deal with it.
You are a temptation to him; you don't even know if he is ideal for you! You barely dated, you haven't slept together, you were friends - nothing more, nothing less. He tried to warn you time and time again that, despite the temptation, nothing can happen between you. So please, leave the guy alone. Think what his poor wife might feel especially if this is 'arranged' in some way.
He is trying to distance himself but you're always there - do him the favor of not stringing you along. You're always on his mind? Well too bad, he made his choice now he has to deal with it.

There's nothing confusing about this ..... here's the bottom line, plain and simple ..
1. he wasn't honest with you from the beginning, if he didn't tell you that he was going to be married soon. Guys aren't stupid, they know full well when another human being has feelings for them. so, he knew he was drawing you into him, and that you were beginning to feel more than friends.
Did he stop that? NO!! He let you fall further.
2. he doesn't want you as his friend, he wants you as his emotional dumping ground, so when he needs to unload his life's bullshit, you'll be the willing recipient.
Fuck that !!
hell to the no ... right the fuck now = walk and NEVER LOOK BACK
1. he wasn't honest with you from the beginning, if he didn't tell you that he was going to be married soon. Guys aren't stupid, they know full well when another human being has feelings for them. so, he knew he was drawing you into him, and that you were beginning to feel more than friends.
Did he stop that? NO!! He let you fall further.
2. he doesn't want you as his friend, he wants you as his emotional dumping ground, so when he needs to unload his life's bullshit, you'll be the willing recipient.
Fuck that !!
hell to the no ... right the fuck now = walk and NEVER LOOK BACK

he like alot of other tauri men. theyre married or in committed relationships and have this desire to have something on the side. do not fill your mind with a happy outcome. you wont find one. he will never leave home base for you. he just wants u around as a girl in rotation.
my aries bff is going through this with her tauri ex and she is a mess. he broke up with her so he could bang other girls but still wants her around. lol. she keeps fallin for his game.
my aries bff is going through this with her tauri ex and she is a mess. he broke up with her so he could bang other girls but still wants her around. lol. she keeps fallin for his game.
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