Hey all this will be my first ever post i need advice on if its trully no chance of me gettin this Gemini girl
1. Im aqua she's a gem we had class together the last month of school eventhough we did not really talk one day she came into my job and she would give me friendly hugs this lasted for a few weeks 2. About a month or 2 after school was out she became my coworker. 3. After reflecting back i realized she's liked me for quite some time at least a few months. 4. She Initiated first but i was to hot and cold 5. She started acting indifferent but i stepped it up and for a brief time it seemed like things was going good but then i started acting aloof and detached again. 6. Now we are at a point where we dont talk we ignore each other at work some other guy is trying to talk to her and now i seriously regret my actions and i realize how much i like her. 7. I texted her yesterday the first time in about a week and i guess she deleted my number and when i told her who it was she did not text bck. 8. Now typically in this situation i would have already moved on but im just confused a couple days ago i saw her when i was getting off and she was shopping in the store with her younger siblings at first it was the same thing we ignore each other but a lil later when she was in the line and i was walking past her to pay she made eye contact with me and she looked sad/upset. 9. This is one of the most confusing things one of her coworkers who im pretty sure is a good friend { i overheard her say she introduced him to a cpl guys} always looks at me when i walk by sometimes she looks upset or indifferent other times she's very friendly. And to go with that they act friendly lightly flirt with probally my closest friend at work.
At this point im going to try one more time before i move on i have not seen her in a couple days at work so im not sure if ill see her tomorrow but these are my two options 1. If i see her im gonna tell her i want to talk to her and actually tell her how i feel which is a bold step for me. 2. If she does not work im gonna talk to her friend and hopefully she will tell her that i asked about her are tell her that i want to talk to her.
Now i will say thankfully i have not come off as desperate or needy in fact i will say i should have showed alot more interest texted more called her.
So to all how do you feel about this situation and do you think that i can get her or do you believe all interest is gone
All interest is not gone... She's still noticing you when you walk by. I can't say what's in her mind, but what would be in my mind would be whether you were still interested, what turned you off in the first place and whether or not I should be the one to break the silence. To me, it sounds as if she might miss you. All aquas and gems make some sort of connection. With a gem, it goes deep even if she doesn't show it.
To answer your question... I think you still have a shot and you should go for it! Just remember to tell her how you really feel and lay it out on the table what your looking for... 🙂
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1. Im aqua she's a gem we had class together the last month of school eventhough we did not really talk one day she came into my job and she would give me friendly hugs this lasted for a few weeks
2. About a month or 2 after school was out she became my coworker.
3. After reflecting back i realized she's liked me for quite some time at least a few months.
4. She Initiated first but i was to hot and cold
5. She started acting indifferent but i stepped it up and for a brief time it seemed like things was going good but then i started acting aloof and detached again.
6. Now we are at a point where we dont talk we ignore each other at work some other guy is trying to talk to her and now i seriously regret my actions and i realize how much i like her.
7. I texted her yesterday the first time in about a week and i guess she deleted my number and when i told her who it was she did not text bck.
8. Now typically in this situation i would have already moved on but im just confused a couple days ago i saw her when i was getting off and she was shopping in the store with her younger siblings at first it was the same thing we ignore each other but a lil later when she was in the line and i was walking past her to pay she made eye contact with me and she looked sad/upset.
9. This is one of the most confusing things one of her coworkers who im pretty sure is a good friend { i overheard her say she introduced him to a cpl guys} always looks at me when i walk by sometimes she looks upset or indifferent other times she's very friendly. And to go with that they act friendly lightly flirt with probally my closest friend at work.
At this point im going to try one more time before i move on i have not seen her in a couple days at work so im not sure if ill see her tomorrow but these are my two options
1. If i see her im gonna tell her i want to talk to her and actually tell her how i feel which is a bold step for me.
2. If she does not work im gonna talk to her friend and hopefully she will tell her that i asked about her are tell her that i want to talk to her.
Now i will say thankfully i have not come off as desperate or needy in fact i will say i should have showed alot more interest texted more called her.
So to all how do you feel about this situation and do you think that i can get her or do you believe all interest is gone