Jules-ll
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Posted by SweetLily_89You're the third person to say this and actually I agree. The only thing is I'm a sub only and he wants to be dominated at times. Apart from
My 12th house stellium makes me unshipable ?
But I feel like @TaurusInShania and @Crabra would make a freaky match —
That we would be great
Posted by SweetLily_89? That does sound kinda hot ?Posted by TaurusInShaniaBoo, turnabout's fair play. 😛 Once you hit that ass with a belt one time, you'll see the benefits of a little domination 😉Posted by SweetLily_89You're the third person to say this and actually I agree. The only thing is I'm a sub only and he wants to be dominated at times. Apart from
My 12th house stellium makes me unshipable ?
But I feel like @TaurusInShania and @Crabra would make a freaky match —
That we would be great
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Posted by SweetLily_89Oh God —Posted by TaurusInShaniaYou only live once, doesn't hurt (at least not for you 😛) to try it once ??. Don't forget the dog collar and gagball.Posted by SweetLily_89? That does sound kinda hot ?Posted by TaurusInShaniaBoo, turnabout's fair play. 😛 Once you hit that ass with a belt one time, you'll see the benefits of a little domination 😉Posted by SweetLily_89You're the third person to say this and actually I agree. The only thing is I'm a sub only and he wants to be dominated at times. Apart from
My 12th house stellium makes me unshipable ?
But I feel like @TaurusInShania and @Crabra would make a freaky match —
That we would be great
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Posted by Scorpio84You and whorpio ??
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Posted by Scorpio84Oh God.Posted by shaymaciPosted by Scorpio84You and whorpio ??
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Would have loved to meet her in person but we far away.
(well at least had a dream with her surprisingly)click to expand
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Posted by SweetLily_89Oh I would use it all ?❤️?Posted by TaurusInShaniaYou only live once, doesn't hurt (at least not for you 😛) to try it once ??. Don't forget the dog collar and gagball.Posted by SweetLily_89? That does sound kinda hot ?Posted by TaurusInShaniaBoo, turnabout's fair play. 😛 Once you hit that ass with a belt one time, you'll see the benefits of a little domination 😉Posted by SweetLily_89You're the third person to say this and actually I agree. The only thing is I'm a sub only and he wants to be dominated at times. Apart from
My 12th house stellium makes me unshipable ?
But I feel like @TaurusInShania and @Crabra would make a freaky match —
That we would be great
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Posted by Jules-llPosted by CrabraPosted by Jules-llPosted by CrabraPosted by shaymaciPosted by Jules-ll—??Posted by TaurusInShaniaPosted by Jules-llNo one wants to take me on... ? But it's just sex ? .... with a twist ?Posted by TaurusInShaniaPosted by Jules-llHe ain't even come on yet... I probably scared his damn Pisces moon to smithereens ? .... but my Taurus moon will ground that ass ?Posted by TaurusInShaniaPosted by shaymaciI would swallow that nigga ?? whole ?Posted by TaurusInShaniaY'all both have scorpio mars, and he has a pisces moon.Posted by shaymaciOh lawd ? Lord complexity is about to repel that statement ??
Which 2 dxpers do you think would make a great couple?
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Let's make it fun.
I say @Taurusinshania and @lordcomplexity
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I don't see why not
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You'd break him in two but he'd come back for more, go get him girl!! Battle of the MiSers- Round One 😄
Oh yeah, he's all bark no bite. Too easy. We need biters. Gotta find someone else for you. Sigh...
Screw them, we should get it on and show them mens how it's done!! MiSers Round One Take Two lol.
But since we both like men, how about Crabra?
@crabra
I'm not the best partner for a couple. More like the ideal third wheel! Still though, I'm a fun fvck. I really need to host that DXP sex party I've tossed out here and there.
I feel the same most of the time, like my freedom...
This place would definitely implode, fitting end for DXP!
It can be lonely, but such is the cost of said freedom. And a most fitting end indeed. The best way for anything to end really!
It can be lonely, but I prefer being a free spirit and adventurous. Not that I'm not giving and loyal when in a r-ship, I am 100% .
That's true if this place exploded all of the toxicity would get loose, and nobody needs to be exposed to that for real!
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You're probably right, but wheww-boy would it be entertaining!
Posted by Jayc3onUmmmm....not enough sauce for me!Posted by Scorpio84
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Unite Mars with @EmotionalAries
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Posted by Jayc3onMore like this! LolPosted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Jayc3onUmmmm....not enough sauce for me!Posted by Scorpio84
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Unite Mars with @EmotionalAries
That's not nice Aries lol. Unite the mars connect with the scorpio
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Posted by Jayc3onHaha! That's funny! ? no not at all.Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Jayc3onMore like this! LolPosted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Jayc3onUmmmm....not enough sauce for me!Posted by Scorpio84
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Unite Mars with @EmotionalAries
That's not nice Aries lol. Unite the mars connect with the scorpio
Wait is an aries afraid of a scorpio ?
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Posted by Scorpio84If you got the money it ain't no dream no moePosted by shaymaciPosted by Scorpio84You and whorpio ??
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Would have loved to meet her in person but we far away.
(well at least had a dream with her surprisingly)click to expand
Posted by Scorpio84Don't take that wrong! ? He's afraid of me and trying to run away by throwing you under the fire instead! —Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Jayc3onUmmmm....not enough sauce for me!Posted by Scorpio84
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Unite Mars with @EmotionalAries
aww what a pity 😢click to expand
Posted by Jayc3onYou bastard! ??Posted by Scorpio84Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Jayc3onUmmmm....not enough sauce for me!Posted by Scorpio84
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Unite Mars with @EmotionalAries
aww what a pity 😢
There's always @shaymaci for ya. Welp gotta run now *runs away*
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Posted by WarAngel1Uuuuhhhhhhh
Who'd I get again?
Posted by Jayc3onThat's not funny ?Posted by shaymaciPosted by Jayc3onYou bastard! ??Posted by Scorpio84Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by Jayc3onUmmmm....not enough sauce for me!Posted by Scorpio84
Sorry but i got no luck with the 2 matches, thank you regardless.
Unite Mars with @EmotionalAries
aww what a pity 😢
There's always @shaymaci for ya. Welp gotta run now *runs away*
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I need Ecoxxxscorpio2 for all different purposes...mostly to teach him cooking...food!
Posted by WarAngel1You forgot ??
Oh yeah, lol!
Posted by GemitatiGet it girl! ?
I need Ecoxxxscorpio2 for all different purposes...mostly to teach him cooking...food!
Oh...so I see you all are trying to go for the longest thread record *smirks*
Ok, you've got 10 years, 11 months, 29 days, 8 hours and 45 seconds to go before you'll break the record lol 😛
Ok, you've got 10 years, 11 months, 29 days, 8 hours and 45 seconds to go before you'll break the record lol 😛
I want to ship @shaymaci & @Jayc3on. I was reading this thread yesterday and laughed at the interaction between the two of y'all. It seems like the two of are very opposites but I could be wrong though.
Smooth sailing you two haha
Smooth sailing you two haha
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Posted by beautifulsoul74I actually wasn't ??
Oh...so I see you all are trying to go for the longest thread record *smirks*
Ok, you've got 10 years, 11 months, 29 days, 8 hours and 45 seconds to go before you'll break the record lol 😛
But thanks for the time ??
Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!click to expand
Me and ?
Lol
Lol
Posted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!click to expand
Not even for a drink? Common!
Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!click to expand
Get em!
Posted by GemitatiSo you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??Posted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!click to expand
Posted by shaymaciShit I'm on the block?!!! —Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Get em!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAriesNo. Henis my 'bro' and I am only living for my Scorp.Posted by GemitatiPosted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!
So you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??click to expand
Hope you are satisfied with the answer.
Posted by GemitatiWait...nah...so you have the hots for an Aries, but truly only want the Scorp.?Posted by EmotionalAriesNo. Henis my 'bro' and I am only living for my Scorp.Posted by GemitatiPosted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!
So you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??
Hope you are satisfied with the answer.click to expand
Posted by Scorpio84Lol....@Jayc3on tried to ship you with me...but I bucked.... Need more sauce...where is your sauce—!!
The two people i were matched with never said anything
so you got to ship me again ?
Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciShit I'm on the block?!!! —Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Get em!click to expand
I see you ??
Prowling!
Posted by shaymaciPosted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciShit I'm on the block?!!! —Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Get em!
I see you ??
Prowling!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAriesOh shit!!!! —??Posted by shaymaciPosted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciShit I'm on the block?!!! —Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Get em!
I see you ??
Prowling!click to expand
Posted by shaymaciThat Aries Venus!!!!!! —??Posted by EmotionalAriesOh shit!!!! —??Posted by shaymaciPosted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciShit I'm on the block?!!! —Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Get em!
I see you ??
Prowling!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAriesNo hots doe anything but Scorpio!Posted by GemitatiWait...nah...so you have the hots for an Aries, but truly only want the Scorp.?Posted by EmotionalAriesNo. Henis my 'bro' and I am only living for my Scorp.Posted by GemitatiPosted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!
So you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??
Hope you are satisfied with the answer.click to expand
Aries my brother!
Posted by EmotionalAries✊✊✊Posted by shaymaciThat Aries Venus!!!!!! —??Posted by EmotionalAriesOh shit!!!! —??Posted by shaymaciPosted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciShit I'm on the block?!!! —Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Get em!
I see you ??
Prowling!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiSo what's wrong with your Aries brother??Posted by EmotionalAriesNo hots doe anything but Scorpio!Posted by GemitatiWait...nah...so you have the hots for an Aries, but truly only want the Scorp.?Posted by EmotionalAriesNo. Henis my 'bro' and I am only living for my Scorp.Posted by GemitatiPosted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!
So you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??
Hope you are satisfied with the answer.
Aries my brother!click to expand
Posted by shaymaciPosted by EmotionalAries✊✊✊Posted by shaymaciThat Aries Venus!!!!!! —??Posted by EmotionalAriesOh shit!!!! —??Posted by shaymaciPosted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciShit I'm on the block?!!! —Posted by EmotionalAries—?Posted by shaymaciI'm an Aries Venus....NEVAPosted by EmotionalAries@jayc3on might be a lost cause —?Posted by shaymaciHow could you let 8 hours go by.?? I'm still trying to ship @ Jayc3on! ?Posted by EmotionalAries—
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Get em!
I see you ??
Prowling!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAriesI suspect he is in love with me but he asks me to fix him up. I did. He took her to DD!Posted by GemitatiSo what's wrong with your Aries brother??Posted by EmotionalAriesNo hots doe anything but Scorpio!Posted by GemitatiWait...nah...so you have the hots for an Aries, but truly only want the Scorp.?Posted by EmotionalAriesNo. Henis my 'bro' and I am only living for my Scorp.Posted by GemitatiPosted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!
So you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??
Hope you are satisfied with the answer.
Aries my brother!click to expand
Common!
I've yelled at him and he said he wouldn't take ME to DD...
Keep asking to find him a gf!
I said I ran out of women who will go for such a date!
So he is mad at me now. Idiot!
Posted by GemitatiDo you live down south??Posted by EmotionalAriesI suspect he is in love with me but he asks me to fix him up. I did. He took her to DD!Posted by GemitatiSo what's wrong with your Aries brother??Posted by EmotionalAriesNo hots doe anything but Scorpio!Posted by GemitatiWait...nah...so you have the hots for an Aries, but truly only want the Scorp.?Posted by EmotionalAriesNo. Henis my 'bro' and I am only living for my Scorp.Posted by GemitatiPosted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!
So you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??
Hope you are satisfied with the answer.
Aries my brother!
Common!
I've yelled at him and he said he wouldn't take ME to DD...
Keep asking to find him a gf!
I said I ran out of women who will go for such a date!
So he is mad at me now. Idiot!click to expand
Posted by EmotionalAriesGood try! Try again...and NOPosted by GemitatiDo you live down south??Posted by EmotionalAriesI suspect he is in love with me but he asks me to fix him up. I did. He took her to DD!Posted by GemitatiSo what's wrong with your Aries brother??Posted by EmotionalAriesNo hots doe anything but Scorpio!Posted by GemitatiWait...nah...so you have the hots for an Aries, but truly only want the Scorp.?Posted by EmotionalAriesNo. Henis my 'bro' and I am only living for my Scorp.Posted by GemitatiPosted by EmotionalAriesI can't make my bro Aries to get with me as a brother! I think he loves me but too proud to admit because he knows my husband...Posted by GemitatiAh Gemitati..... I'm an Aries those emotions are extremely brutal regardless of the direction they are going. But since I love the woman in you avatar...I'll leave it there!Posted by EmotionalAriesHow emotional are you?
8 hours and no posts! Hell Nah!
Not even for a drink? Common!
So you wanna treetrunk an Aries that's friends with your husband??
Hope you are satisfied with the answer.
Aries my brother!
Common!
I've yelled at him and he said he wouldn't take ME to DD...
Keep asking to find him a gf!
I said I ran out of women who will go for such a date!
So he is mad at me now. Idiot!click to expand
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That's true if this place exploded all of the toxicity would get loose, and nobody needs to be exposed to that for real!