Everyone is left with bad luck it seems..

So Im starting to realize that everyone I date or have been done worng by in a relationships. Ends up waaaaay worse then when I was with them (like addicts and jail time).... that and they always try and come back...I hope Im not sending out any kharmic badluck waves...lol.

Or maybe you're attracted to the under dogs or lost causes... people that need saving. What's your sign under Venus?

sounds like a gem guy...i always feel like I attract needy guys...dont know why

Most of the time, who you attract says alot about yourself. And sure, there's always the cases when you really ARE looking for the "good" guys & get fooled, but if you keep noticing a pattern in ending up with the wrong men it's either b/c 1. You're attracting the wrong ones through something you're sending out about yourself or 2. When you start to see signs that the person isn't going to be right for you, you don't take off running. So then what happens is when you decide to ignore or not investigate the flaws or red flags (probably b/c you don't want to face the reality that if you chose to see them, you'd be stupid to stay with them) you end up left by yourself, miserable & resentful anyways.

You need to do some self-mirroring right now & figure out why these guys are just as much attracted to you as you are to them. If you look deep enough, you might find the problem & the solutions.

And of course, there's always the option to stop dating and/OR to take more time out to actually get to know these guys before you give your heart out to them (their backgrounds, their morals, where their head is, etc.) If you don't put the time into finding out all of these things then it's no wonder when they come flying towards your face later on, you're so in shock.

krysrenee7 ..you hit it on the head. I ignore the warning signs.. I realize that now.