Fancy my friend

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by lemmy89 on Friday, October 5, 2018 and has 3 replies.

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@lemmy89
7 Years

Hi all,

This girl(Aries) I used to work with for around 8 months(I was sort of her boss) with in London went back to home to Sweden about 2.5 months ago. We always got along really well in London and we went on a few trips around UK. We could always joke with each other and could we could have a conversation for hours without a break.

I went and visited her and stayed at her family home for a week about 2 weeks ago and we had a great time and do alot of touristy things and did some trips with her mum aswell. It was during that time that I began to really like her and develop feelings for her. I tried to be all gentlemanly possibly impressing the mum more than her but i don't think I expressed to her that I had feelings for her as... well... I am English.

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I have arranged to go on holiday with her again in 1 months to Mallorca for one week and am hoping to see if i still feel strongly about her.

My issue is whether I should be direct and tell her how I feel during the holiday. I do not know why but I have a feeling she does not feel the same way about me and sees me more as a friend as she is still using dating apps like tinder and she is quite open with me about previous relationships.

I am the kind of person who is best to just get things off my chest rather than let them bottle up inside me and drive me crazy even if there is a chance it could ruin our current relationship.

I look forward about any advice (I am a Leo by the way)

Thanks!

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@Manana
10 Years

Do it!!!! Could she have any idea that you're romantically interested or would it be a massive shock?

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@lemmy89
7 Years

Thanks for the advice. I don't think it would be a huge shock if I told her, after all I suggested going to Sweden and this holiday. Although you never know. I do give her nicknames and tease her slightly which could give either impresstion?

Do you think it best to wait till the end of the holiday to tell her or be upfront from the beginning of the holiday?