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What Natal Chart Aspects Reveal Relationship Tendencies
In astrology, the 7th house and planets like Venus and Mars indicate relationship themes. Significant aspects involving these elements can show your approach to partnerships and emotional connections. Understanding these placements helps interpret relationship patterns and compatibility. Exploring your natal chart offers insights into how you connect with others and what influences your romantic life.
Must say that my own theory is that it's difficult to find aspects that suits all couples and aspects that suits none.
For instance, my chart is filled with squares and saturn and pluto, which means that I'm used to adversity, so a trine filled synastry chart would probably bore me to death - I would probably need something more challenging than that and a person with lighter aspects and placements in their charts would probably not find too much of a challenge very amusing. So I think you would have to look at the individual charts very closely and then look at what that person might need in a partner.
But that's just me.🙂
Posted by Arielle83
I have pluto in 7th and I read that that is bad
me too which conjunction my Saturn lol
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
Thanks guys.....keep them coming! 👍
Thanks Sagi and Tiz.....yes to the moon!
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Posted by MyStarsShine
I am hosting an astrology workshop with three astrologers later this year and will be talking about relationship indicators in the chart. As my 7th house is loaded, it's something I've always been interested in.
Which aspects in your natal cart do you find represent the area of relationships in your life and are or have been significant?
Thanks
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Mars and moon.
Female: mars with Neptune aspects
Moon with Neptune, uranus and s aturn aspects.
House 3,4,5,7
Posted by FantamRooster
Neptune in the 7th makes me an idiot.
I have that too
Rosy tinted specs lol
Someone has an empty 7th house but has had 4 marriages. I'd love to have seen her chart...
Posted by HappyCapper
Must say that my own theory is that it's difficult to find aspects that suits all couples and aspects that suits none.
For instance, my chart is filled with squares and saturn and pluto, which means that I'm used to adversity, so a trine filled synastry chart would probably bore me to death - I would probably need something more challenging than that and a person with lighter aspects and placements in their charts would probably not find too much of a challenge very amusing. So I think you would have to look at the individual charts very closely and then look at what that person might need in a partner.
But that's just me.🙂
I feeeeeel you. I'm Plutonian. I have tons of hard aspects to my Pluto so I'm very familiar with the energy. However, most within the Pluto in Scorpio generation would also make lots of hard aspects to my personal planets. And sun-pluto, moon-pluto, mars-pluto, etc relationships are INTENSE. So I read that unless the other person is also familiar with the Pluto energy in their chart, it can make it more difficult for them to process and deal with such synastry aspects and it's usually up to the natal Plutonian to guide them given that they are mature and aren't fighting the energy themselves.
Posted by SassyKiwi
Someone has an empty 7th house but has had 4 marriages. I'd love to have seen her chart...
Interesting....I'd love to see that chart too....
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Posted by FantamRooster
Neptune in the 7th makes me an idiot.
I have that too
Rosy tinted specs lol
You seem to have come to terms with it, though. I'm still getting there. 🙂
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Yes I have and you will do too......takes time and a lot of work!
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Someone has an empty 7th house but has had 4 marriages. I'd love to have seen her chart...
Interesting....I'd love to see that chart too....
Have you read my chart?
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No love i didn't
Posted by nanobot
I have zero planets in the 7th house, and I have constantly found myself in relationships when I was happily single. I have been proposed to (with ring) in 3 out of 3 of my relationships. I think you should focus on a different angle than the 7th house, because it doesn't seem to mean much at all. I also have mars opposite moon, neptune, uranus, and saturn - which has also been blamed on lack of love lives here on dxp over the years.
Thanks Nano
Yes, different angles would be good . An empty 7th doesn't mean no rships, it's just the person will not learn particularly from that house. Which house do you have a stellium in?
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Posted by nanobot
I have zero planets in the 7th house, and I have constantly found myself in relationships when I was happily single. I have been proposed to (with ring) in 3 out of 3 of my relationships. I think you should focus on a different angle than the 7th house, because it doesn't seem to mean much at all. I also have mars opposite moon, neptune, uranus, and saturn - which has also been blamed on lack of love lives here on dxp over the years.
Thanks Nano
Yes, different angles would be good . An empty 7th doesn't mean no rships, it's just the person will not learn particularly from that house. Which house do you have a stellium in?
I would not learn from relationships? 😕 My stelliums are in the 6th and 11th house. I have mars and chiron in 12th.
One thing maybe of note, is jupiter conjunct venus by less than 2 degrees.
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No, you would but say unlike me they wouldn't be first and foremost in your life path...
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Someone has an empty 7th house but has had 4 marriages. I'd love to have seen her chart...
Interesting....I'd love to see that chart too....
Have you read my chart?
No love i didn't
Could I send it to you in PM's? I would really love to have a fresh read on it if it's okay. 🙂
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Copy and paste the wheel from astro com as they are easier tor read, if you want to post it here, i don't mind 🙂
Ruler of descendant.
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Posted by HappyCapper
Must say that my own theory is that it's difficult to find aspects that suits all couples and aspects that suits none.
For instance, my chart is filled with squares and saturn and pluto, which means that I'm used to adversity, so a trine filled synastry chart would probably bore me to death - I would probably need something more challenging than that and a person with lighter aspects and placements in their charts would probably not find too much of a challenge very amusing. So I think you would have to look at the individual charts very closely and then look at what that person might need in a partner.
But that's just me.🙂
I feeeeeel you. I'm Plutonian. I have tons of hard aspects to my Pluto so I'm very familiar with the energy. However, most within the Pluto in Scorpio generation would also make lots of hard aspects to my personal planets. And sun-pluto, moon-pluto, mars-pluto, etc relationships are INTENSE. So I read that unless the other person is also familiar with the Pluto energy in their chart, it can make it more difficult for them to process and deal with such synastry aspects and it's usually up to the natal Plutonian to guide them given that they are mature and aren't fighting the energy themselves.
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That's interesting. All my relationships have been more or less plutonian (both in synastry and natally) and you would have to search long and hard to find redeeming qualities in our synastry charts, according to the *normal* relational astrology that I've read about. But I like a challenge and my sag venus and my gem bits like to learn from people and there have been plenty of opportunities for that. lol
Ooo! Except for with this virgo guy. That was a great match, astrologically...but too *good* for my liking. Not much of a challenge.
Think I have been the most plutonian person in all my relationships, though. I wonder how well I have guided them...🤔
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
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No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
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Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
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Yes I'm well aware of Aquas moving on!
You're an easier Aqua though, I admit. I don't think we would have much issues except for the communication part lol I already know sex would never be an issue with you! 😄
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Posted by AerialView
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Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Yes I'm well aware of Aquas moving on!
You're an easier Aqua though, I admit. I don't think we would have much issues except for the communication part lol I already know sex would never be an issue with you! 😄
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Of course I'm easy 😄 why make things difficult 😆
1) Seventh house. My 7th house is 90% Gemini. My youth was brightened by my Gem grandma. Nowadays I find Gemini the most attractive, both men and women. Almost every single actor and actress that I liked enough to google their DOB, turned out to be a Gem.
2) Plutonic relationships are true. Mine's started very lighthearted, I used to joke on dxpnet that our Plutos fuck each others personal planets hard, and I don't feel a thing! Yeah, the innocence! It hit me hard when it ended, but what I've learned afterwards changed my perception about people for ever, including about those I thought I knew well.... my parents.
3) Chiron aspects are shit. In both transits and relationships.
4) Pisces female- Capricorn male is the best coupling ever 😄
5) Sun Venus reversed. As a Pisces sun, Aqua Venus, I felt attracted by an Aqua sun, Pisces Venus charms, no matter what! I think Sun Moon reversed is even better. Impossible for me, since I'm a double Pisces, but my sister and her husband have it!
6) Mars-Venus conjunction (in Aries). Sex was frequent to begin with, but died out completely after several years.
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Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Yes I'm well aware of Aquas moving on!
You're an easier Aqua though, I admit. I don't think we would have much issues except for the communication part lol I already know sex would never be an issue with you! 😄
Of course I'm easy 😄 why make things difficult 😆
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I wish the ones I dealt with were as easy as you but then I wouldn't like them as much probably. You are too friendly! 😆 I'd be extremely jealous lol
Typical Sag rising, Aries Mars...responded to the title and before reading the question!!!!
Please ignore my previous answer, since I address synastry, not natal chart 😄
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Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Yes I'm well aware of Aquas moving on!
You're an easier Aqua though, I admit. I don't think we would have much issues except for the communication part lol I already know sex would never be an issue with you! 😄
Of course I'm easy 😄 why make things difficult 😆
I wish the ones I dealt with were as easy as you but then I wouldn't like them as much probably. You are too friendly! 😆 I'd be extremely jealous lol
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I agree 😂🤣😂
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
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Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Yes I'm well aware of Aquas moving on!
You're an easier Aqua though, I admit. I don't think we would have much issues except for the communication part lol I already know sex would never be an issue with you! 😄
Of course I'm easy 😄 why make things difficult 😆
I wish the ones I dealt with were as easy as you but then I wouldn't like them as much probably. You are too friendly! 😆 I'd be extremely jealous lol
I agree 😂🤣😂
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I like that he goes to the edge of things but doesn't step over it. He's fun when it comes to that. That's why I have fun teasing him. The internet stuff doesn't bother me at all but I don't know what he's like in real life. It would drive me crazy if he was this way in person. I would give him such a hard time, he would think I was crazy lol
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
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Relationship is all about compromise
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Yes I'm well aware of Aquas moving on!
You're an easier Aqua though, I admit. I don't think we would have much issues except for the communication part lol I already know sex would never be an issue with you! 😄
Of course I'm easy 😄 why make things difficult 😆
I wish the ones I dealt with were as easy as you but then I wouldn't like them as much probably. You are too friendly! 😆 I'd be extremely jealous lol
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Jealousy comes from a very deep insecurity 😛
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by AerialView
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Relationship is all about compromise
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No shit Sherlock! I didn't know that.
Btw I have an empty 7th house. My strongest house is 10th house followed by 1st house.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Yes I'm well aware of Aquas moving on!
You're an easier Aqua though, I admit. I don't think we would have much issues except for the communication part lol I already know sex would never be an issue with you! 😄
Of course I'm easy 😄 why make things difficult 😆
I wish the ones I dealt with were as easy as you but then I wouldn't like them as much probably. You are too friendly! 😆 I'd be extremely jealous lol
Jealousy comes from a very deep insecurity 😛
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Yes cause he's supposed to be mine and not make anyone else feel as special as he makes me feel! 😆
I need to see a clear divided line. Then I won't be as jealous. 🙂
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Relationship is all about compromise
No shit Sherlock! I didn't know that.
Btw I have an empty 7th house. My strongest house is 10th house followed by 1st house.
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Posted by AerialView
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Relationship is all about compromise
No shit Sherlock! I didn't know that.
Btw I have an empty 7th house. My strongest house is 10th house followed by 1st house.
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Boateng and Ribery 🙂
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Relationship is all about compromise
No shit Sherlock! I didn't know that.
Btw I have an empty 7th house. My strongest house is 10th house followed by 1st house.
Boateng and Ribery 🙂
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You do know that whenever I post sports stuff, I have no clue who they are, right??!! 😆
I do like trolling you with this type of stuff after I've googled it though! 😛 You're always so much fun Aerial! 🙂
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Relationship is all about compromise
No shit Sherlock! I didn't know that.
Btw I have an empty 7th house. My strongest house is 10th house followed by 1st house.
Boateng and Ribery 🙂
You do know that whenever I post sports stuff, I have no clue who they are, right??!! 😆
I do like trolling you with this type of stuff after I've googled it though! 😛 You're always so much fun Aerial! 🙂
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I'm not joking 😛 I followed football since I was a little kid in early 90s.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by AerialView
Venus and Mars in 1st.
Me always first. Not negotiable.
I think it is! 😛
No it's not.
I'd rather move on than compromise 😛
Relationship is all about compromise
No shit Sherlock! I didn't know that.
Btw I have an empty 7th house. My strongest house is 10th house followed by 1st house.
Boateng and Ribery 🙂
You do know that whenever I post sports stuff, I have no clue who they are, right??!! 😆
I do like trolling you with this type of stuff after I've googled it though! 😛 You're always so much fun Aerial! 🙂
I'm not joking 😛 I followed football since I was a little kid in early 90s.
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I know you're not. I like that you always take things so seriously. You know the proper times to have fun and then the right times to be serious. It's a nice quality. I also like that you explain most things. Very straight to the point.
I also like that my straight forwardness embarrasses you sometimes. It's cute lol
You're a good friend.This is why I like Aquas. I just don't have any close and that I'm not attracted to 😆
Posted by Undine
Typical Sag rising, Aries Mars...responded to the title and before reading the question!!!!
Please ignore my previous answer, since I address synastry, not natal chart 😄
No problem @Undine
Interesting stuff either way
How are you? 😊
Posted by MyStarsShine
I am hosting an astrology workshop with three astrologers later this year and will be talking about relationship indicators in the chart. As my 7th house is loaded, it's something I've always been interested in.
Which aspects in your natal cart do you find represent the area of relationships in your life and are or have been significant?
Thanks
🌟
I don't have much experience, but I tend to fall for people whose Sun is opposite my Venus (Geminis) or their Venus is conj my Sun. I'm slightly less (but still) attracted to people with Venus opp my Sun.
I often see Saturn and Chiron aspects too.
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I am hosting an astrology workshop with three astrologers later this year and will be talking about relationship indicators in the chart. As my 7th house is loaded, it's something I've always been interested in.
Which aspects in your natal cart do you find represent the area of relationships in your life and are or have been significant?
Thanks
🌟