Fate? (Page 3)

I know the difference. The guy I most recently dated before was a Virgo for a month. I had initially wanted more but after sex which happened pretty soon, I realized there wasn't a strong connection. We clashed and he was too reserved for me. He didnt meet any of my friends and I barely brought him up to them or my family. When I was sick for a seek and couldn't see him, taking away the physical...I felt nothing. So I cut it off. Virgos have often been boring to me.

That is the ONLY kind I can do. When the emotional feelings go I can't. I can't have just sex.

Both of us also agreed we get more attached after sex. Which is more likely to happen for real if you want a month and see eachother almost every day vs just a few dates

It's good that you learned!

Things are pretty intense with my leo. Been sleeping over and hanging out all day. It's moving very fast and it freaks me out cause I've never really experienced it.


I'm trying to just go with the flow though.

Posted by tiziani
If you or anyone think a man's level of respect for you is going to change based on when you sleep with him, all that says really is you're putting a lot of self-worth into your sex life. And men will treat that accordingly.

Stop being so smart! Your making my venus in aqua explode 😄

Posted by Agentgem24
Also, wtf with generalizing with careers? Just because someone is a chef doesn't mean they are alcoholic with a short fuse. He rarely drinks and he is very mild tempered like me.

Just because some or quite a few chefs could be that way, doesn't mean they all are.

My first scorp was a chef and I could on about it but I'm too lazy lol

Which Leo sag, was this the one you just hooked with?

Yeah I know sleepovers aren't too far off. He's, "you can change your Facebook status to in a relationship with me next week, if you want..."

Etc etc lol. We do spend a whole lot of time together 4-5 days generally a week

He was drawing on my back because I love my skin traced and he said, "try to guess what I spelled..."

I said I didn't know and he said, "it says I love you...I know it's soon and I've been trying to fight it BECAUSE its soon, but I can't fight it. I hope I didn't ruin things, but it's true. I understand if you can't say it yet(while I do feel very strongly, I don't want to rush the L word) just say it when you're ready"

He will do little things like kiss my forehead, and the top of my hand, and rub my stomach affectionately etc

That's not all he wants obviously

I'm going over today straight from work. I cooked yesterday, he's going to have dinner ready by the time I come home. Then we are seeing planet of the apes

Posted by Agentgem24
Which Leo sag, was this the one you just hooked with?

Yeah I know sleepovers aren't too far off. He's, "you can change your Facebook status to in a relationship with me next week, if you want..."

Etc etc lol. We do spend a whole lot of time together 4-5 days generally a week

Yeah the same one

sounds good AG!

Wow! Who knew you could get a lover out of a hook up? Thought he had red flags..

Posted by Agentgem24
Wow! Who knew you could get a lover out of a hook up? Thought he had red flags..

He does. I'm totally open to this as long as it doesn't get serious.

Really? But what if he wants serious? He seems pretty serious 😉 what are his red flags again?

Posted by Agentgem24
Really? But what if he wants serious? He seems pretty serious 😉 what are his red flags again?

Yep, I think we are having a good time. You think? I don't know he just hasn't had many girlfriends.

Lol so? Not a red flag. My first Leo was a Virgin

Posted by Agentgem24
Lol so? Not a red flag. My first Leo was a Virgin

Ew. lol sorry, for me it is.

Were you too?

No I wasn't, but had only been with one other. We were 18. But really...I don't hold it against the guy if he hadnt had many gfs (especially if he had a pretty long one) or If he hadnt been in a pretty long relationship (4+ years) at my age, because that's rare. I've dated A LOT. But truthfully...there have only been 3 guys I've been able to call a bf, and the one last summer was a huge mistake because I didn't feel it. This guy, I feel more comfortable saying bf after a few weeks vs I did him after 3 months...didn't feel right.

I'm ahead of him in sexual number, but he's not in the low range.

Posted by Agentgem24
No I wasn't, but had only been with one other. We were 18. But really...I don't hold it against the guy if he hadnt had many gfs (especially if he had a pretty long one) or If he hadnt been in a pretty long relationship (4+ years) at my age, because that's rare. I've dated A LOT. But truthfully...there have only been 3 guys I've been able to call a bf, and the one last summer was a huge mistake because I didn't feel it. This guy, I feel more comfortable saying bf after a few weeks vs I did him after 3 months...didn't feel right.

I'm ahead of him in sexual number, but he's not in the low range.

Yeah, that cool. I don't know, I guess we'll see, it just like I don't know lol

Posted by Arielle83
Why does it matter how many partners he had b4 u?

Because it says something about them as a person

I really don't think it does, I think you are being too judging. Whether they've had 1,2, or 20...what should matter is how they are NOW. If they seem like a good guy and want to be with you, not a player but not a rookie...who cares?

Posted by Agentgem24
I really don't think it does, I think you are being too judging. Whether they've had 1,2, or 20...what should matter is how they are NOW. If they seem like a good guy and want to be with you, not a player but not a rookie...who cares?

Lol okay. I guess there is some truth in that. I guess I'm more going off my intuition.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Sag89

Posted by Arielle83
Why does it matter how many partners he had b4 u?

Because it says something about them as a person

What does it say?

The number is representative of attraction and opportunity...

And opportunity is related to social network, career...

And attraction is related to mental outlook, health, beauty...

The only person that knows my number is my husband. If you feel it leads to judgement, why would you share it with someone you've just met?

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It's not how many people he's slept with it's how many actual relationships he's had.

Posted by starlover
If a guy has slept with a ton of women and had no relationships,i think it matters a lot and would be very wary

Right. It's not a ton it's like average. ( I've slept more ) but I have had two long term relationships that both lasted 2 years.


He is one of those people that is just really into themselves and maybe doesn't like to be vulnerable. (what I sense ) Which is fine for how things are going but you don't usually take a guy that seriously.


N even if he wanted to try, I mean I probably wouldn't have the patience for it.

It's sort of like sleeping with a virgin and all that entails if you aren't a virgin do you really want that?


Meh, I don't know man.

I say if you like him and he likes you, i dont see what the issue is!!!

All you can do is try it out. Lots of folks marry each other and not really knowing each other and lived together forever!

Posted by Arielle83
Well I guess I'm a bit of an unstable slut then...

Not really any real serious relationship before I got married

Your a woman it's different.

Posted by size zero superhero
There's a lot of talk in this thread regarding "wait 'x' weeks/months before sex as emotional security precaution --> genuine feelings confirmed --> relationship, true love".
In reality, there isn't any given pre-consummation trial period that guarantees long-term success after sex takes place. Holding out longer isn't necessarily wiser, and waiting 90 days isn't always a better bet than say, going on 9 dates & determining things from there.

The most significant investment isn't so much the timeframe you set out, but moreso what happens therein. Clenching your knees together just to prove something to yourself or the other person about self-respect is preposterous--do it to get to know them, or any other reason except fear of being perceived as easy.

If the suitor is genuinely worth pursuing, they won't dismiss you as a s1vt for making them wait 2-4 weeks instead of 3 months like their last g/f did. LOL. That's just silly and childish.

haha!

Me: Gemini Sun. Aquarius Rising. Libra Moon. Gemini Mercury. Cancer Venus & Mars. Mideheaven Scorpio.

Him: Leo Sun. Libra Rising. Capricorn Moon. Cancer Mercury. Gemini Venus. Aries Mars. Midheaven Cancer.


"All I know, is it's redic how much chemistry and sparks I have. He is just as into me too, I usually have a lot of doubt but I don't have that this time. "

Besides your ascendant opposing his sun (huge attraction), you guys have mars opposite moon going both ways. In my experience, this usually presents itself as a ridiculously strong sexual attraction.

My aquarius mars opposes a leo's moon (he is a leo sun and leo moon), and it was definitely the best sex of my life.

Posted by AstroWishes
Me: Gemini Sun. Aquarius Rising. Libra Moon. Gemini Mercury. Cancer Venus & Mars. Mideheaven Scorpio.

Him: Leo Sun. Libra Rising. Capricorn Moon. Cancer Mercury. Gemini Venus. Aries Mars. Midheaven Cancer.


"All I know, is it's redic how much chemistry and sparks I have. He is just as into me too, I usually have a lot of doubt but I don't have that this time. "

Besides your ascendant opposing his sun (huge attraction), you guys have mars opposite moon going both ways. In my experience, this usually presents itself as a ridiculously strong sexual attraction.

My aquarius mars opposes a leo's moon (he is a leo sun and leo moon), and it was definitely the best sex of my life.

That is very good to hear 🙂

Things are going very good between us, and we have crazy attraction and chemistry.

Also we found our Chinese zodiac go well together. Earth snake and Earth dragon