fed up aqua

I came out of a really bad (abusive) relationship near to the end of last year. Although I'm glad to be away from my ex, my personal life has fell to pieces.
I'm not at all looking for any kind of jump off or relationship when it comes to men, but I keep attracting the attention of men who are already in relationships no matter where I am or what I happen to be doing/talking to. Again, I'm not looking for anything from anyone but it really doesn't make me feel like once I am ready to find someone that there is going to be much good out there for me which makes me feel pretty depressed.

my social life has taken a battering too. I have friends, I arrange stuff with them and they either never message me back or worse, they completely bail on me and don't turn up. I cant understand why all this is happening to me, I try to roll with the punches but the fact is I feel pretty lonely at this time in my life and could do with people to talk to but when I look around there is no one and I feel invisible.

are any other aquas going through this or is it just me?? Here is my placements (if they give any insight at all?

Rising sign: virgo
Sun: Aquarius
moon: scorpio
mercury:aquarius
venus: saggitarius
mars: Aries

oh yeah and I was born Jan 22 1987 lol

Sweetie put this on the Aquarius board. You will get more response there in your own "house".

In the meantime, hugs and sorry you're going through all that.

Posted by aquabeam
I came out of a really bad (abusive) relationship near to the end of last year. Although I'm glad to be away from my ex, my personal life has fell to pieces.
I'm not at all looking for any kind of jump off or relationship when it comes to men, but I keep attracting the attention of men who are already in relationships no matter where I am or what I happen to be doing/talking to. Again, I'm not looking for anything from anyone but it really doesn't make me feel like once I am ready to find someone that there is going to be much good out there for me which makes me feel pretty depressed.

my social life has taken a battering too. I have friends, I arrange stuff with them and they either never message me back or worse, they completely bail on me and don't turn up. I cant understand why all this is happening to me, I try to roll with the punches but the fact is I feel pretty lonely at this time in my life and could do with people to talk to but when I look around there is no one and I feel invisible.

are any other aquas going through this or is it just me?? Here is my placements (if they give any insight at all?

Rising sign: virgo
Sun: Aquarius
moon: scorpio
mercury:aquarius
venus: saggitarius
mars: Aries

After I separated from my husband, married and taken men came out of the woodwork. Like they think you're just so horny, you'd accept any dick no matter what it was attached to. Ugh!!! Disgusting.

As far as your friends, maybe it's time to reach out to other friends/aquaintances. I ended up with a whole new set of friends since most of my previous friends were married. Doesn't take long to find a new group to hang with.

Getting divorced changes your whole life, it's a tough adjustment. Just keep trying.

Posted by aquabeam
I came out of a really bad (abusive) relationship near to the end of last year.

So proud of you for doing this!!! It's hard to do and you did it!

It gets better. There are still good men out there.

You'll have to heal before you find one, though.

OMG!! Emotionally m going through the same phase.. I also feel that I need some one to talk to .. just to share.. I do not know much about the astrology. Just stay strong.. I was born on Jan 28th 85 🙂

Sun:Aquarius
Moon:Scorpio

sorry ive been away but thank you for your replies everyone 🙂 thanx for the hug @crabRiot and thankyou @aquascorp01.

cheers for the words of encouragement @truecap, I'm glad that you have gone through it and come out the otherside...leaving a long term relationship really does change a lot of things doesn't it? lol I do hope to find a decent man one day once I'm over all of this.