Why Aquarius/Pisces cusp man acting (bday Feb. 19) distant?

Hello all,

I have met this sweet Aquarius/Pisces guy online a week ago where we chatted for hours. He actually wanted to meet me in person that day, but I found it was too early. So we decided to meet three days later. In the meantime, we exchanged lots of whatsapp messages and he called me twice a day. The day we met, we spent 5 hours talking and laughing. This was on Saturday, so 5 days ago. He's only contacted me on Monday to ask me how I am doing. Just yesterday, I asked him if he has any plans tonight, and he said "I am so busy for three days:/" and I replied "ok🙂" and nothing since then. I would have expected him to say "how about whateverday?".

It just seems weird for a guy who asked me what I am planning for his birthday in 20 days and who told about me to his mom. Am I too quick to judge? I know he is very busy but is this a reason send at least a text message or quick call?

Thanks!

A desperate women is ridiculously pathetic.

Just because he noticed you .... now, you're bent on chasing him down to pin point him and his every move to try and make his existence about you.

it just disgusts me that the modern female is this clingy, and desperate for approval

Oh, wow. I am just trying to figure out if he has any feelings, but thanks.

You must be a bitter 56 year old. I'll make sure I don't end up like you, for I disgust such negative attitude.

Have a lovely day!

Posted by P-Angel

A desperate women is ridiculously pathetic.

Just because he noticed you .... now, you're bent on chasing him down to pin point him and his every move to try and make his existence about you.

it just disgusts me that the modern female is this clingy, and desperate for approval

Posted by thisisit

I am just trying to figure out if he has any feelings

How immature can you possibly be?

A week, you two exchanged hellos a week ago, and now you're desperately clinging to the notion that he has feelings for you.

You're clueless.

how well do you know about the context of our chats, sweetie?🙂

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by thisisit

I am just trying to figure out if he has any feelings

How immature can you possibly be?

A week, you two exchanged hellos a week ago, and now you're desperately clinging to the notion that he has feelings for you.

You're clueless.

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ll.
Not even a discussion.

All I know is he's busy, but I am not sure if that's an excuse for him not to say "hi, how are you?". My plan is to lay low, and see how it all unfolds.

Posted by Nemilicious

Posted by thisisit

Hello all,

I have met this sweet Aquarius/Pisces guy online a week ago where we chatted for hours. He actually wanted to meet me in person that day, but I found it was too early. So we decided to meet three days later. In the meantime, we exchanged lots of whatsapp messages and he called me twice a day. The day we met, we spent 5 hours talking and laughing. This was on Saturday, so 5 days ago. He's only contacted me on Monday to ask me how I am doing. Just yesterday, I asked him if he has any plans tonight, and he said "I am so busy for three days:/" and I replied "ok🙂" and nothing since then. I would have expected him to say "how about whateverday?".

It just seems weird for a guy who asked me what I am planning for his birthday in 20 days and who told about me to his mom. Am I too quick to judge? I know he is very busy but is this a reason send at least a text message or quick call?

Thanks!

what difference did those three days make?

what is in the air as of late? screw your bloody heads back on and start thinking straight.

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He went out of town for three days for work and during those three days, we chatted during lunch and had over-an-hour calls at night.

Posted by Nemilicious
"He actually wanted to meet me in person that day, but I found it was too early. So we decided to meet three days later."

^^ i was referring to this.

lol acting distant is just what we do baby

LOL, got that part, but why the brutally sudden transition from hot to cold?

Tell me about that Mr. 🙂

Posted by WaterBearerer
lol acting distant is just what we do baby

It's only been a fucking week. The two probably don't even know each other's last names yet.

already .... she's starting to plan on how she can maneuver and twist the intent of his interest.

Hey, OP ... maybe you should send him a text informing him of what your baby's names are going to be.

Don't

Have

So

Many

Expectations

Posted by P-Angel

it just disgusts me that the modern female is this clingy, and desperate for approval

More that they* expect to be so important, and feel like the men owe them something.
And feel stepped on their toes when they don't get what they think they deserve.

But that's what happens if you fall in love, while at the same time insecure. I admit it, I have such thoughts too.

*I'm not old enough to interfere with these things about grown women. So I apologize for my knowitallishness, to everyone here.

Thanks for your insight!

Posted by OceanBoy88
I wouldn't over think this. He's collecting his energy. Whether he comes back is puuuuurely up to him after his phase. All you can do is wait it out. I don't know about him but I'm a very sensual and physical Pisces sorry if that's put as shallow, but he might be the same. I read somewhere that Pisces love eye candy and I can't deny that to be honest. So maybe the online chats is getting boring to him because he wants to see you physically and is scared his vision of you is off. Try Skype or face time. Might do the trick. There's always a possibility of other factors like another woman. Just saying.

We usually want to meet people soon in order to see if there is a physical attraction. I can guarantee that you aren't the only woman he is talking to/meeting. You know when we like you.

2/19 birthday :-)

My advice check whose commenting on this thread before you take any comments serious.