First Love

What was it like? How do you define what love is? Who was the person like? Was it what you expected it to be? Were there any distinct moments you can remember? Talk about as much as possible as im fascinated with the subject at the moment. Ive never been in love but I think i may be on the way to it with a girl im seeing.

What was it like: It was great. I felt an instant connection with him, and after we started talking more, realized he was a great person. I wasn't one who was looking for relationships, but I went for it anyway. He made me feel comfortable and loved. He did everything for me. I felt accepted.

Define love: mm, it's feeling like you've found your soul mate and that you want nothing more than to spend the rest of your life with this person. You feel like even if you wanted to, you cuoldn't forget about the person or be away from them. Well, that's how it was for me, anyhow.

What was the person like: He was someone everyone knew. On the football team, got first in his track events, and was outgoing. Caring, willing to focus on only me, unconditional. Also, emotional, trust issues, very physical (always wanted to snuggle, be close), jealous, immature, suicidal. Even with all that, I still loved him.

Wasit what you expected it to be: In the beginning, I wasn't expecting anything/didn't think much about it. In the end, it didn't end up too well.

Distinct moments: When we first met. We were in gym class and I looked to the side to see him motioning for me to smile. Prom. It was the night I fell in love with him. That was probably the best night of my life.

We got together at a bad time. He was going off to college 3 hours away and I was starting my last year in high school. After that, we started work at the same place, but with different schedules and hardly saw each other. Two days is our second year anniversary, but I don't think it'll last much longer. The distance and lack of seeing each other brought out the worst in us and it all went in slow decline after the first 4 months. I don't regret it, though. I loved him, but we are just not meant to be. I say "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all."

Good luck with your girlfriend. : ) Just try not to confuse love with other things, such as neediness/dependence, admiration, or an illusion altogether. Don't doubt yourself too much, either, though.

Love cannot be defined ... unless of course, you feel for every person the exact same.


How a person regards another is strictly unique, EVERY person .... therefore, I'm not surprised that people are constantly finding failed relationships over and again, considering they put a specific label, with specific definitions on how/what they expect of another person to love them.


See the above poster, known as Scenic .. she is one of those deluded ones, that became obvious once she lied in here about being abused as a child, when she wasn't.

As for my experiences ... I've had 3 very serious relationships, and several minor ones.

First (Gemini) .... infuation. Married him. Bad mistake. By virtue of proxy (parent induced illness into him), he is very physically violent.

Second (Libra) .... lustful. There wasn't enough time in a day to fuck enough.

Third (Virgo) .... comforatable, content, safe. Been married to him for 29 years.

* infatuation

Posted by P-Angel

See the above poster, known as Scenic .. she is one of those deluded ones, that became obvious once she lied in here about being abused as a child, when she wasn't.

Hey, just a question, do you find enjoyment in harrassing others? Because I think you've just stepped over a line, here. If you have a problem with me, be MATURE about it and message me. If you don't want to take that route, then STOP posting rude things about me wherever I post.
I honestly don't know how some people admire you on here when you are so childish and rude. That comment was not called for, and honestly, it really hurt.

Posted by Virgo07
What was it like? How do you define what love is? Who was the person like? Was it what you expected it to be? Were there any distinct moments you can remember? Talk about as much as possible as im fascinated with the subject at the moment. Ive never been in love but I think i may be on the way to it with a girl im seeing.

Love is not able to be defined exactly in any language......it is a kind of feeling from your heart......beautiful and/or painful...

Good luck 🙂

Well not sure if it was love at first sight or that I liked him the first time i met him or that I got hit with the love bug that infused my heart mind soul body and everything else but it felt that way. I saw him and was smitten and was sure he felt the same way now there was the problem did he ever felt the same I did about him. I tortured myself over him for 5 years before moving on not knowing if he ever loved me the way I did him. I still to this day want know if he ever loved me. Fuck I can even remember pining away for him from my window wishing a was with him and then the day he left was the day I died. I never recovered from that and I never will, he took my ability to love away from me leaving me very cynical about the whole concept of 'love', never trusted anyone after that, myex yes but never anyone else to the extent I trusted him, so long story short though we were friends and never had sex with one another he really was the one person who I loved and I guess being in love the first time, you dont know what it is at all, its no walk in the park either, its embarrassing! and very annoying, I couldnt concentrate on anything except him fuck if he never left maybe things would have been different but I learnt to move on and not give a fuck after that so yeh anyone who reckons they 'love' me is severly mistaken.

I will never fall in love again ever with anyone

Stay as friends is my motto, easier that way.