Friends of opp sex while in a relationship? (Page 2)

Enfant, I think what that means then is you had they found the right person. It takes someone special and to keep me captivated otherwise I have trouble being exclusive or want to break it off to find more.

This female friend of scorps apparently always calls him "dude". He knows I wouldn't stand for that because I think it's too impersonal when referring to me.

He did tell me last night, that I have made him the happiest he's been in 2 years!

Posted by Agentgem24
The 43 year old was great! He had if course experienced much more than I, but that became an ongoing joke.

He had his own company with his brother but also was a musician. Sometimes he didn't even go on stage til midnight, he didn't have a typical 40 year olds schedule. We met through mutual friends because most are older. We had the same taste in music. I'm an old soul; I'm more into classic rock, culture, literature, a foody etc. I'm not into a lot of pop/rap(minus old school) and not into partying/clubs.

We had a powerful connection and never butt heads. But part of his issue was he didn't talk to ppl daily and couldn't make that promise to me. It's just how he was, he needed lots of space. It was just too much for me to deal with it because I am SO communication hungry. But we still remain good friends and want the best for eachother.

Also; this man holds the record for being intimate the most in one day and no blue pill was needed. He had a much stronger drive than many men my age!

Hmm thats interesting gem! What is your mars in?

Sagg: I'm a Gemini and an Aquarius rising. My moon is libra and my mercury in Gemini. My venus AND mars are in Cancer, my Pluto and Midheaven is Scorpio.

My Scorp is Scorpio and an Aquarius rising. Leo moon, Sagg mercury, Capricorn Venus, Scorpio Mars, and Scorpio Pluto, and Sagg Midheaven.

Oh and my Lilith is libra and his id Scorpio.

Ah cool, I have a mars in scorpio too n my lilith is in scorpio i have a merc in cap and you think i'd be able to understand a merc in scorpio ( my ex had that )

still never understood one

What exactly does Lilith do in your chart?

Ah so what does one in libra mean(me), or in Scorpio like my bf?

My pluto is Scorpio.

So that doesn't mean much does it? My Lilith sounds nothing like me and I have a ton of will power. I want to join the police force and I have never been tempted to try drugs or get wasted etc

And violence abhors me. If a guy ever disrespected me or even so much as raised his voice violently I would leave right away.

It infuriates me when a guy thinks he's above me or tries to put me down. I fight for what I believe in go a T!

My whole chart is on my page

Yea ^ what t said. I know it clicks w me when I read mine, it's scary!

Libra is my moon, I'm a sun Gemini.

My biggest issue is not being able to let go of feelings. I still have feelings for my ex, after 16 months! I'm not in love with him still, although it feels like it at times.

I was friends with a very manipulative Aquarius who was in my life for 14 years off and on. She had borderline personality disorder and many other things. Many of my emotional insecurities are because of her. I'm done, I would never go back to her as a friend, but I can't just push her out of my mind...not her, not my ex of 4 years, and not the Aries I dated for 6 months, lost my vitginity to, and he later ended up dying.

I can let go of people 100% in my life, but why not in my head??

Oh and I looked up the aquarius woman's chart. Just as I though, she has a Scorpio moon. It's big Scorpio suns that I find vindictive as much as those with Scorpio moons!

She use to cut herself and tell ppl her dad did it to get attention. She couldn't stand people liking me or being interested so she would do her best to turn them off of me and into her and publically shame me.

It bothered her if her friends wanted to be friends with me or her single male friends wanted to date me. If she was taken, she still wanted attention of her male friends. She got heavy into drugs and would slit her wrists to show bloody pics of ppl and cry suicide. Even when she came over, my mom felt very uncomfortable. She was a disease. Finally last yeas, I stopped trying to fix her. I felt sorry for her but I let it go but she still remains in my head.

^yeah I agree. She calls him dude and they aren't attracted to eachother. I know he talks about me to her a lot and sends her pics etc

Of course when I was telling him I wasn't cool with it at first he says "I told her you didn't like her and she got sad because she likes you from what I've told her and that you are my gf"

I'm like....why say that -_- I haven't met her YET so I don't know her. I'm just being a jealous female.

He says he likes listening to how crazy her stories are and they make him laugh but he wouldn't ever want me to have stories like that because he doesn't find promiscuous girls attractive. He says she's like a little sister he is trying to get on the right path.

Nope. Only if they present behavior that justifies any issues on your part.

I was dating someone who had a lot of female friends. I knew that up front. I didn't have an issue with it until it became an obvious problem with him texting inappropriate things, hiding his phone at one point, etc.

Oh hells no.

Needless to say, we're not dating anymore, haha. He's one of them guys who keeps a harem around for his own personal emotional needs and flits around from each one as needed.

Prior to that, I had no problem. He'd been pretty open about it for awhile and even would text with his phone right in front of me and didn't care if I saw the texts. Then it became a bit more secretive, a bit more vague about what friends he hung out with, etc. Oh so shady!

Posted by Agentgem24
Oh and I looked up the aquarius woman's chart. Just as I though, she has a Scorpio moon. It's big Scorpio suns that I find vindictive as much as those with Scorpio moons!

She use to cut herself and tell ppl her dad did it to get attention. She couldn't stand people liking me or being interested so she would do her best to turn them off of me and into her and publically shame me.

It bothered her if her friends wanted to be friends with me or her single male friends wanted to date me. If she was taken, she still wanted attention of her male friends. She got heavy into drugs and would slit her wrists to show bloody pics of ppl and cry suicide. Even when she came over, my mom felt very uncomfortable. She was a disease. Finally last yeas, I stopped trying to fix her. I felt sorry for her but I let it go but she still remains in my head.

maybe that is your cancer moon gem

Yeah none of that! If I'm feeling insecure he will show me the message right then and there

You think Sag? It's possible.

And yeah, any guy that's going to be like that with female friends....why get a gf? Bf says he doesn't mind if I have male friends as long as I didn't have anything romantic/sexual in the past, no exes, and no going to their houses or making "new" guy friends while in a relationship. Pretty much my rules.

You REALLY need to make use of the quote feature.

Posted by Agentgem24
And yeah, any guy that's going to be like that with female friends....why get a gf?

Some guys are emotional sluts!! lol

Yea gem. It's a sensitive moon! I love cancer moons tho! I have a leo moon and two of my besties are cancers mooners.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by Agentgem24
And yeah, any guy that's going to be like that with female friends....why get a gf?

Some guys are emotional sluts!! lol

Yea gem. It's a sensitive moon! I love cancer moons tho! I have a leo moon and two of my besties are cancers mooners.

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I actually have a Libra moon, my partner has a Leo moon like you.

It's my Venus and Mars that are both in Cancer. I have a lot of water, Pisces is in my 2nd house and my Pluto and Midheaven is Scorpio.

Posted by Neurotoxin
He banging them.

All of them.

Lololol.

Posted by Agentgem24

Posted by Sag89

Posted by Agentgem24
And yeah, any guy that's going to be like that with female friends....why get a gf?

Some guys are emotional sluts!! lol

Yea gem. It's a sensitive moon! I love cancer moons tho! I have a leo moon and two of my besties are cancers mooners.

I actually have a Libra moon, my partner has a Leo moon like you.

It's my Venus and Mars that are both in Cancer. I have a lot of water, Pisces is in my 2nd house and my Pluto and Midheaven is Scorpio.

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Oh oops! Sorry I meant that!

Lol that was pretty good though neuro