Gemini Female and Leo Male

I am a gemini female who has been working with a Leo male for two years. The moment I met him, I was mesmerized. Problem is I also work with my live-in boyfriend. Him and I were having problems long before I met the Leo Man. I've tried getting him out of my mind, and I cannot. A co-worker told me that the Leo Man likes me.

I'm finally at the point where I know I can no longer stay with my current boyfriend. So I want to go for it with the Leo Man. My biggest problem is that he is much younger than me. Which I have dated men much older than myself and not had a problem with that.

I cannot just come right out and tell this Leo Man that I want him while we are working. I am wondering if any Leo's can give me any helpful hints as to how to seduce the Leo Male. I always run into the Leo Male at the store on paycheck friday. I've been thinking this would be my best chance to just ask him out for a drink. Any hints Leo Males out there?

Linda Goodman's Love Signs says that a Gemini - Leo or 3-11 Vibration is almost always one from a past life. She says that is the reason it is impossible for these two to stay away from each other. I believe it, he had me from the first moment.

Yes, I do not think I should really play games with him. Although, I think him and I already have been playing games. He's friends with one of our co-workers. Me and this other guy talk a lot. While I've never come right out and said I like this Leo Man, I have hinted at it. Just the other day this co-worker told me I should go after the Leo Man. He was pointing out this Leo Man's potential to earn money. So I told him he should go ahead and try to set us up. I said why don't you have a party and invite both of us and I'll do the rest. Now, chances are this got back to him. Two days later the Leo Man was striking up a conversation with me, and boy did he smile a lot 🙂 I understand it is a Leo characteristic to be shy, and he is that. I don't really think he's had many or any serious relationships.

Confidence in myself is something that I've been working on. I gained a lot of weight after having a baby. The Leo Man is part of the reason that I've been working hard at losing the weight. I wanted to wait until I was more secure with myself before starting a new relationship. The current or soon to be ex b/f, has helped in my lack of self confidence. He decided he would ridicule me to force me to lose weight. Now that only led to me eating more. I'm very idealistic about love, and I think if you really love someone, you love them no matter what.

I am strong minded and will do what I set my mind to, but that doesn't mean I don't appreciate advice. Believe me I have thought this situation over so much in my head that I have thought of all angles. I just wanted input in how to go about persuing a Leo Man if I so choose to do so. Which I don't think I can stop myself at this point. I HAVE TO HAVE HIM!!! 😉

I don't really have the intention of playing games, it's just that I am so damn nervous about the whole thing. I am too chicken to just tell him that I like him. This co-worker told me that the Leo Male "likes me." I've thought about coming out and asking him if what this co-worker says is true. Although he may clam up if I put him on the spot. While I know the best way is the direct approach. I ask him out for a drink or coffee or whatever. Then tell him that I'm attracted to him. Easier in theory than in practice. He makes me more nervous than I've been in a long time. I can tell that I make him nervous as well. I really believe that there is some sort of past life connection here. I read that is usually true of a 3-11 combo, especially Gem and Leo. From the moment I met him, it was an instant connection. Ever since, I just feel drawn to him like a magnet. Discussing the situation helps me. Otherwise, I live it in my head and it makes me feel very anxious. Sometimes I feel I would be better off to just find out the truth one way or another. Of course, if the answer is no, then I'll lose the fantasy. Life....

I wish I could just end it with the current b/f. However, I do not have the financial ability to afford my own place atm. If I had the money, I would be gone. I'm working towards getting on disability as I have medical issues. The b/f raises my stress levels which makes my condition worsen. The b/f and I have even discussed living together but dating others so that we could both be close to our child. I want out, but right now I'm stuck. I want to move on.